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Date: October 25, 2022
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You text him – Leave me alone and never contact me again. If I see you outside my house, I WILL call the police. Expect a restraining order for Christmas!
Than block him and get a new number. You need to go no contact and keep him out of your life, permanently!
You have a point. I just wish I spoke about it more frankly with him and called it for what it is.
she’s just a friend and he sees her like a little sister.
Ask him when was the last time a friend or like sister shook her boobs at him and called him the love of her life.
he said he won’t because he doesn’t want to make it awkward at work and it’s not like that, it’s platonic.
Again, linking arms and resting her head in his shoulder isn't making it awkward? Because that's inappropriate workplace behavior.
What do I do in this situation? Part of me wants to message the colleague
Dont contact her. She is not in your life and owes you nothing.
The truth is your bf likes the attention and that's why wont put up boundaries. And yes I agree he probably wont talk to her about it, maybe just ask her to delete or restrict you or something.
Brilliant! Maybe toss in an anecdote of how she's a nice person at work and call it a day.
I'm in my late 20s and female and near this males age. I may not be a mom but my mom senses are tingling and my mind is boggled why anyone with good intentions would mess with a 19 year old. I would consider a 19 year old as a kid no offense. This is extremely worrying to me. Please be weary of this grown adult. The power dynamic is making this is ew to me.
Anyone that uses the phrase high value man you need to run away from immediately.
You’re advice is terrible, he’s allowed to have boundaries, everybody gets insecure. A good partner would respect that, he’s not asking for too much
Honestly, I think the easiest and most painless path would be to tell her about my curiosity, and her immediately drop me. I wouldn’t want to continue with her resenting me for something I couldn’t control
Not a big strip club guy but have been a few times…not once have I or anyone I know ever thought “ hey looks go to a strip club to feel like we are the elite class”. It was always “I want to see some very hot girls”. That’s it. That’s the extent of the pre planning. You give guys (and it’s not only guys just so you know) way too much credit.
Yeah that’s also true. He cheated and dumped a really good girl for this one. I don’t understand why but that girl was probably way out of his league. Had her life all together, a decent job, and was very sweet and smart and loyal to him.
I was specifically asking about a senior vs a freshman in college. A senior in college thinking freshman look like children? I’m sorry, that’s just a weird ass opinion, almost like they’re trying too very hot to not come across as a pedo. Those are the types who I think should be investigated lol.
And you at 23 couldn’t get over a 3 year age gap with a 26 year old? Sorry, also EXTREMELY weird.
And finally, 30 and 21 is weird yes, but to call it grooming? Sorry, maybe technically anyone can be groomed, but that term is typically reserved for an older person taking advantage of a minor. At some point, adults just need to accept responsibility for getting into a shitty relationship with a manipulative person, and not just excuse their actions by saying they were groomed. You made a dumb decision at 21, we’ve all been there. You learn from it, learn what personality traits to look out for and you move on.
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If you're regularly going through his phone, then either you're the problem – or he's given you enough ammunition not to be able to trust him; in which case, why date him either way?
I doubt these two people were the only ones he did something to. I would consider reporting it or letting the community know in some way that he is not safe to be around. Anonymously if your husband prefers. Being drunk isn't an excuse
Sounds like you don’t want to take a paternity test. Why is that?
You're right about the scholarship, it's something I'd really like to keep and not postpone, especially for something I love doing. I don't blame my parents at all, they haven't really asked us to do anything yet other than babysit the first night. Other than that my mom has been helping out as well, and they've even lent me some money for textbooks and when I got overcharged for rent this month. They're really great. I don't think they're going to want me to stay home, it's just a matter of is that something that I should decide to do as the oldest sister who loves my family. Thank you so much for your considerate advice, I definitely agree about my sister picking up some of the slack too 😉 haha
I’m not saying he should be prohibited. I’m saying she will have had reason to be jealous and insecure because he obviously fancied the girl.
2 1/2 years and no ring. Yup, she's still single.
And if your g/f didn't correct her mom right there, she agrees with her.
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First, have you actually proposed guaranteeing her a legal interest in your property?
Second, how is it that you both own property neither of you can afford on your own?
Spending time with your kids isn't going to change who you are in the inside buddy. Taking an extra couple of chores doesn't change the fact you were trying to talk to Betty big tits.
Is it cool if your wife goes and has a threesome with two dudes if she just picks up a few extra chores around the house??!? LMFAO.
I don't want to hear the judged and ashamed of myself bullshit because I've been in your shoes before and you were trying to get a little extra on the side so I'm not buying it.
You're not going to break if you don't have fucking sex. Be a man and stand by your woman. You can make all the excuses you want but you're just taking advantage of this woman not being able to leave you right now.
Because if she could, she absolutely would. It's honestly your relationship to lose at this point.
Let him leave, he’s really not the one for you if he puts his sexual needs above your health and comfort
I agree. It’s not good to go out and do this tomorrow. But gaining perspective might be worth while.
do not indulge his asinine possessiveness. she was not his. and you don’t need his permission. the fact that he would even say that to you is very misogynistic.
he does not sound sane enough to be a good friend to you, but if you don’t want to hit him just tell your friend group this story and i’m sure someone else will
We don't want to satisfy our curiosity, we are afraid for his health. He doesn't have so many people who checks on him. But you got me thinking about the 'ambush', I added an edit
Thanks man
Didn't want to get to graphic but we hear step 5 a lot round these parts
Dude, you will never be able to fuck her again without thinking about the other 30 dicks. Time to move on rather than fill your life with resentment, bitterness, and wonder that she still might cheat on you at any moment.
Thanks man
Didn't want to get to graphic but we hear step 5 a lot round these parts
If you are doing counseling and all that jazz, then it's probably an attitude/outlook you need to mentally change that you are holding onto… Like life isn't being magical for your GF, and shitting on you. That is definitely not an awesome narrative to carry.
Unless you two are in the exact same field, job opportunities are going to be different. You aren't competing with her, you are competing with people in your field and the reasons why you aren't getting picked for a job most likely have nothing to do with you… There can be someone applying who as a social connection, or more experience, can speak a language they need, already are a part of the company…. So many factors that aren't related to your GF.
Your GF loves you and wants the best for you. Quit mentally blaming her for things in your life you don't like. They'd be happening regardless if she was in your GF or if you were single. They would be happening regardless if she was having a harder time or an easy time. So work on being genuine in being happy for her normal life stuff to be happy about. Maybe give yourself permission to talk to her about feeling fraustrated that you haven't found a job in your field yet. She'll probably be right thier with you on the life sucks sometimes bandwagon. She might even be able to offer helpful brainstorming….
And he absolutely is enough, I thought I made that very clear in the post. My apologies.
I do not agree.
Sometimes people are born and feel unhappy with the body they live in.
What is there even “to prepare” someine else for? Let them be. This is nobodys business but their own!
That sucks. I'd let him know if he's going to cheat, he should at least try to hide it, and then dump his ass.
He's not a baby omg. I would lose my mind if someone, ANYONE, swooped in and took all my ketchup. Pour your own ffs.
Bruh really
Right? I'm getting downvoted for trying to explain this. You can think race as a concept is dumb (which it is) but you can't just misuse it like OP's ex was. You can be a non-European ethnicity but still be white.
Chlorox wipes on her vagina? That’s pretty ridiculous.
I'm so sorry to hear this!
What you describe has many classic traits of a “n@rcissistic marriage”, and your husband is trying to prevent you from escaping the effects:
You Don't Feel Connected. Your husband talks with you when it is convenient. He never actually asked what your plans are for the future, or how you can work together to build the life you want. Instead of joining you in your self-improvement, he makes it sound like it's a bad thing. You Feel Manipulated. Your husband makes subtle threats throughout the relationship. He tries to control you in a way that is destructive to you, instead of lifting you up. You Don't Feel Good Enough. Your husband tries to cause you to have feelings of inadequacy that don't match what you've accomplished in your life. He puts you down and makes negative comments about the things that you do, and makes false accusations. You Feel Responsible for Everything. He thinks that everything is always someone else's fault, including the things that he does wrong. If somebody doesn't compliment him, he refuses to believe it's because he's lazy and a mess. You won't get an apology from him for his behavior. You Feel Criticized Constantly. Your husband is excessively critical of your appearance, instead of celebrating your health improvements. He makes fun of you and puts you down. You Feel Unloved. When you first got together, you felt like the most amazing person in the world. However, as time went on and problems arose, your partner began to devalue and ignore you. As you improve, he hates you instead of loving you more. He hates himself, and is upset he can't get you to still follow him downward. You Can't Rely on Your Partner. When your husband agrees to something, you never know if he will follow through, even with basic things like taking the lunch you prepared for him to work. You don't feel as though you have a partner you can rely on, and you find yourself having to do everything yourself. You justifiably don't do as much for him anymore, since he ignores what you do for him anyway. You've Asked, He Won't Change. N@rcissists aren't willing to change because this would mean admitting something is wrong within themselves—and he will never admit such things. He instead wants you to be unhealthy and sad like him.
You are amazing, and I feel bad for your situation. I wish you the best of luck! An individual counselor can help you proceed. A couples counselor wouldn't be useful, since your husband would never cooperate.
Maybe your wife is projecting. It wouldn’t surprise me if shes having an affair herself and is projecting it on you. Ive seen this countless times. Hire a pi and see if this is true or not
Lol what does that even mean? You just trolling to be an ass or what?
Nah. If it’s a vacation with your kids and you have a good co-parenting relationship, especially if the kids are young, it’s actually not that weird. The kids are on vacation with their parents, the parents have each other to help manage the kids and each get time to themselves.
That’s called mature co-parenting.
Nah, she's reaching for sure. Unless there are giant chunks of the story missing, you literally haven't done anything wrong. God help you if you try to take a mental health day without justifying it to her first ??
This is obviously a bonfire waiting to happen
His red flags are extremely insecure and harbour out dated views for someone of that age.
I would not be going anywhere near that.
What a fucking cock womble. Tell him he is the broken one. Not even God would forgive his nonsense because it comes from a place of deliberately causing pain. Save your self a lifetime of tears. You may think you should care about this guy, have his back, be loyal etc. But do you know who you really owe all those things to, and whose back really needs protecting? Yes, it's YOU! Protect yourself now, bad partners very rarely become better, and unfortunately they often escalate to really bad, sometimes even abusive. This is definitely a red flag. Good luck. X