None of this is your fault. Any man who wants to date someone 33years younger than them does it because they are controlling, manipulative, and likely abusive.
You do not have to defend yourself against his actions or words. They say more about him than you. Remember if he shares or posts any nudes of you you can go to the police. “Revenge porn” is illegal.
Stay away from him. Block him in everything. Do not respond to anything. The tiniest bit of a response is something. People like him are looking for your attention – good or bad, attention is attention. Stay away from him and hopefully if he doesn’t get anything from you he will go away.
Take care of yourself and use is this a learning experience.
Maybe don’t talk about it directly. But invite him to do something fun during the day, like a street fair, or see music. You want to see if he will be platonic friends with you too.
‘About 21’.
Hmmmm
This feels……so fictional lol
I would like more details on the machete/grapefruit afternoon. With pictures. And video…
None of this is your fault. Any man who wants to date someone 33years younger than them does it because they are controlling, manipulative, and likely abusive.
You do not have to defend yourself against his actions or words. They say more about him than you. Remember if he shares or posts any nudes of you you can go to the police. “Revenge porn” is illegal.
Stay away from him. Block him in everything. Do not respond to anything. The tiniest bit of a response is something. People like him are looking for your attention – good or bad, attention is attention. Stay away from him and hopefully if he doesn’t get anything from you he will go away.
Take care of yourself and use is this a learning experience.
Maybe don’t talk about it directly. But invite him to do something fun during the day, like a street fair, or see music. You want to see if he will be platonic friends with you too.
It sounds like he's telling you he doesn't want to be a father and at best will honor his financial obligations.
If you are asking if this will draw you two closer my guess would be no, my guess just the opposite, but truly no one knows what will happen.