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Room for on-line sex video chat Maryam_yamal
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Date: October 7, 2022
The process is supposed to be both ways. He meets whoever I am looking to meet with, and I meet whoever he is looking to meet with. Changes to dates, such as changing locations, is supposed to be communicated. That was his suggestion for my safety. I couldn't put in every rule because we made a lot of them so we felt more secure in this situation.
But you're very right. Micromanaging is not the way to go about this. Thank you for your insight.
I agree with all that!
If you do not want to be in contact with his sister or family that's your own choice, he does not get to decide that you you give her another chance.
Regarding the throwing away of the list, he could have done that with the thought that, if you don't see the list of his sister's transgressions it will be easier for you to forgive and forget and give her another chance. Than you confronted him about it and he knew he fucked up. So that's why he is denying it.
Honestly if you have no other big problems with him and you get to decide for yourself if you will or will not be in contact with his family, than imo it's better to make not hasty decisions. Maybe go to therapy or go together with your husband, decide if you want to be away from your husband for a while or permanently.
Every decision is better made with a clear head.
It takes a lot of strength to find the willingness to forgive. It seems she does deeply regret her past behavior and wants to make amends. Plus she’s into you. So like you said just see where it goes.
My friend, I'm hoping that it keeps coming back to the initial feeling of betrayal. That's what you're dealing with. She betrayed you many ways for a long time. This isn't partner material and I'm pretty sure you know that. There's no “Ah, and now I've decided and the hurt has stopped” moment. You're going to have to leave hurting. I'm so sorry.