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Date: October 23, 2022
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i feel bad for your husband, he’s just trying to take some weight off of you and all you’re doing is shitting on him. he’s in a weird situation right now with his job and instead of using his time for himself he’s using it to help and assist you. i know it’s rough and you’re at your wits end but the least you can do is save some energy to talk to him properly. To me it sounds like you’re exhausted and have a lot on your plate and you’re subconsciously jealous of your husband and thus you’re getting snappy with him/ giving short responses. best thing you can do is try and set up a day for you to spend time together like a date night (if you have a sitter for the kids) but you two need to spend time together. remember it’s the two of you against the world, not a fight between you vs your husband
I think they’re trying to make the point that very likely their husband did that without having already been stressed to the maximum. There is no excuse for OP’s abusive husband but I kinda also hate these types of stories where people Cherry pick when their SOs did something nice in a situation that would absolutely have been different had their SO been in a different mood or situation. It’s just not that helpful.
he asked to end the break early because he wanted to work on stuff together
How have you been working on the relationship since? It sounds like he is going through a lot and needs some time alone, and maybe it would be best for you as well.
you can “work on stuff together” but working on yourself is more important. Let him do that, and revisit this relationship in the future if both of you are still interested.
I haven't travelled. I always either work or go around my city. I online in a country where the guys are the definition of everything I do not want on a guy, so finding someone I actually like, both personality-wise or looks is already very rare. I'm 26, I'm fairy attractive and right now i'm in a loop of depression because I'm very tired of this country and I cant leave. I feel alone af rn
Leave it a day to settle your nerves and give yourself a talking to – confidence is attractive, self-pity is not – then text her and say a walk one day sounds like a great idea. Ask her to let you know when she is free. Even if she's just being friendly, she wouldn't give her number to someone she didn't want to speak to outside of work. See how the walk goes, you might be pleasantly surprised if you start being kind to yourself and don't presume anything about your colleague.
Remember to be careful if you work together, though.
oh no not interaction with sex workers!?!
Typical Darvo behavior. He has a problem and will do everything he can to ignore it and justify that you have a problem. If he doesn't want to face his issues then you'll need to either accept that or move on.
No judgement please? You are in the wrong place for that. Get out now before you waste your life on him. You already wasted your early 20s cause he got you to be his kids stepmom.
I don't think you're overreacting. You have a child on the way. For your own comfort as much as your future baby, it will need its own bedroom. That baby will eventually grow and grow to be a child, a teen and an adult. It cannot sleep in your room or in the living room forever, and I think he probably doesn't understand how much space a baby will need, for cribs, toys, clothes, etc.
It doesn't need to be overnight, but the process of selling a place, buying a new one or even temporarily renting a larger place can take some time to process. Especially if there's a property chain involved, and moving would be easier to do, physically and mentally sooner rather than later when your due date nears.
I get he may have attachment to a place, but you are going to outgrow it.
Holy shit man 6 inches isn‘t small at all
One a bitch always a bitch… I would have chosen new Caring, loving girl….
Then you guys really just don’t fit. It takes some time to find these things out about a partner, so cut your losses now and don’t drag it out any longer. If you have nothing in common with her, and what you appreciate about her is that she’s just a great person, it won’t work out in the long run.
Everything about him seems to indicate he doesn't, and aggressively pestering him when he might be taking in some news, or waiting for result or doing some tests isn't going to make him open up. Some people, a lot in fact, prefer to process things on their own before speaking up. If you want him to let you come closer, you first need to show he can trust you with that very sensitive boundary of his. If you give him space you may even get news faster because communicating with you about his health will feel less stressful.
Yea just move on to the next one best not to even have drama or have the potential to face drama especially this early on
This is fake – obvious brand new throw away account, insinuating they were together when she was a minor, something going on that will infuriate people enough to comment. Too easy to spot these days.
My ex had drinks in the am from time to time. He was a raging alcoholic just was able to downplay and “hide” it. Now that I'm an “expert” on addiction this would be a huge red flag. Drink with bunch? Sure. Jsut for shots and giggles at 8 am? Run
You are extremely annoying.
No you did not disrespect your boyfriend. Read your post back to yourself
he said he had no problem with me going.
Even if he did, would you have still gone? It sounds almost like you have to get his permission to go out without him. And then he freaks out, when discovering another man, a work colleague, was in the group
He said I should be ice skating with girls, and my behavior demonstrates “blatant disrespect”
Wtf? You're boyfriend, is obviously very insecure, and very controlling of you. It's a really unhealthy dynamic, and he sounds toxic. Seriously, really think hard if this is the sort of relationship you want, with all the red flags he's already waving at you. It will only get worse.
I'm sorry to hear that you're struggling with your husband's morning antics. I can understand how that would be really annoying and frustrating for you, especially since you're not a morning person.
It sounds like you've tried talking to him about it, but he doesn't seem to understand how much it's bothering you. It's possible that he genuinely doesn't realize how much his behavior is affecting you, or that he can't help it because it's just part of his morning routine.
One thing you might want to try is having a heart-to-heart conversation with him outside of the morning routine. Let him know how much you love him and how much you appreciate all the other things he does for you, but that his morning behavior is really affecting you. Maybe you can come up with a compromise that works for both of you, like agreeing to keep the mornings quiet until a certain time or finding a way for him to express his energy in a way that's less disruptive for you.
Remember that marriage is all about compromise and finding ways to work together through tough situations. If you truly love your husband, I would encourage you to try to find a solution that works for both of you before considering drastic measures like divorce. I hope this helps!
Nah, literally everyone I knew was also in shared housing, many with opposite sex roommates and most with partners of their own. We literally just didn’t think twice about it. Nobody cared who you roomed with.
She tried to be polite.
She said – no.
She stayed on her decision.
What I've learnt from my relationships is that guys are more tend to accept a NO from a girl in a relationship if the girl makes it sound like it's her own decision no matter of her relationship status.
That way the guy doesn't think she says no just because she's afraid of her boyfriend. But because she is happy with what she have.
That being said, your gf walked on a little bit of strange line. Maybe she's not really experienced in turning people down? It's gonna start happening more often as you guys get in your 30s. So, in time she'll learn what's the best course of action when dealing those kinds of proposals.
As for the actual situation, I'd sit her down and tell her how I feel with her answer, and explain her what u consider to be more appropriate answer to her friend.
I'd also like to explain her that if he continues to act this way I'd conclude that he doesn't respect me and/or our relationship.
He's not her friend if he tries to sex her. If she goes on and play his game of convincing and declining while consider him as a friend – I'll start thinking she's not valuing our relationship.
But I'll say once again, she said no, and she said she wants her relationship with you to be successful. That's good. Her answer is better than – sorry I have a boyfriend (YouTube'ish type of cliche answer)
She didn't even tried to hide it. She maybe wanted you to read the text and show you she loves you and she's loyal. Maybe she thought you'd be happy with how she handled the situation.
So… Could she answered better? – probably.
Did she successfully handled the situation? – yes.
Did she left room for him to try again? – sadly yes, but it's probably a rookie mistake.
Is she loyal to you? – yes.
Did she hide something from you? – no.
If that's truly all it was, that's absolutely not a big deal.
If dude has a comfy shoulder, he's got a comfy shoulder.
Again though, if that's all that happened, your partner needs to relax.
Ew he just wants to hook up but doesn't want you in his place. Stop talking to him.
No..you don’t. You need to focus your energy on taking your pet and LEAVING. Not posting about your bf mental issues online.
Stop allowing this to happen to yourself and your pet and DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.
You sound like you’re clueless. How can you be so out of touch?! Everyone knows but you? Makes no sense.
I see it like this:
“dad has a new family, son is being a problem and not acting mature enough (like an adult) for the situation but now, it is dangerous for the wife and the baby because the kind could seriously cause an accident (what if he threw something out of hanger and hurt her or made her trip?) so dad wnats him out”
“kid is feeling lonley, only 15, hormones everywere, feelings he dones't understand, that frustrates him and he does what his insticts tell him. Dad tries therapy but he refused. Kid keeps getting worst. Mom doesn't help (is there a possibility mom put some weird thought on the kid? My mom surely did) So now boy is confused, angry and sad. And dad rejects him. Doesn't want the dad he has right now. (he is either missing the dad he was before the divorce or expecting a dad that he never had)”
He doesn't deserve that dad and that dad doesn't deserve that kid.
Hope the kid finds a parental figure, a “heart” dad or something cuz the one he has right now it's not worth it.
Thank you.
I'd never try to hurt her feelings. It's just I thought it was only a porn thing, like a force fetish. I didn't know it was a cultural thing to show enjoyment as pain?
It's only in bed as well. When I massage her I hear the normal moans of enjoyment I'm used to. When I've seen her in pain, it's literally the same as the sex noises and faces.
So it's almost like she's only switched up those two reactions for sexy time.
How much sex could they have been having??
Is that your business? Move on.
The vaccine only protects (currently) against 9 of the 14 high risk types of HPV. When I got it back in the 2000s, it only protected against 5. I don't know what strain I have but I have pre-cancer from HPV so I got one of the stands I wasn't vaccinated for. So to say you're not a carrier is really only true to the extent that you're not a carrier of the 5 or 9 strains you're vaccinated against.
Hmm, not good. I don't celebrate my ex-wifes birthdays. After separation I consider such things to have ended with the relationship. Your BF is aware himself that it's inappropriate to celebrate his ex's birthday and not celebrate yours. It shows his priorities. Do you want to remain in a relationship with that dude?
Why is this the most controversial comment? I wonder …
Why is this the most controversial comment? I wonder …
? I could never do that.
Bruh, literally no one said that.
Oh snap!
I'd cry too if someone was yelling at me every month.
Maybe some day you’ll actually take advice that tells you you deserve better than a man who shrieks about not sharing fucking pots.
Both of these comments are 100% on point, looked the company online and they have videos of them doing silly stuff with dildos while putting on the condoms for demonstration purposes
Spudmix comment isn't that much relevant to this thread either.
He was just playing devils advocate and proving OPs fears – which resulted from personal bad experiences-
wrong.
Stating, OP as a irrationally thinking woman got things all wrong and that statistically she had no reason to fear what she feared.
spudmix may not have gotten, that this is an ahole move to unvalidate someones tramatic feelings by throwing statistics on them unvalidating aforementioned feelings with “facts”.
I think this is very odd and you should have never accepted this in a relationship. Firstly, the fact that he lives with his family and apparently supports them but you've only met them twice in 7 years. And secondly, the fact that he has not taken any steps in SEVEN years toward having a more serious relationship with you. Finally, the fact that he says that he is uneasy and not peaceful when he is around you. That is not a good sign.
I would advise going nc with him. Figure out what you like to do on your own and do them. Meet people through these activities. Find people with shared interests and make friends there. You may not make friends immediately or continue to be friends with all the people you meet but make an effort to try to meet at least one person here and there. Go places where other people are and practice making random conversation with people. Take up hobbies that involve other people.
If someone took mushrooms for the first time and something went wrong and they hit their partner because they didn't recognize them, is that abuse? If someone had their first psychotic episode from an undiagnosed illness and hit their partner while hallucinating, is that abuse? That's what you're saying here, that circumstances don't matter which frankly I think is bullshit when an altered state of mind is the primary factor and there's no precedent for that altered state.