Yeah wait until he retires 40 years from now. Then shit gets really bad. I know people that have completely lost family members to their post-retirement radicalization.
Oh man. Your life is going to to be so much better once you cut these POS out of your life, parents especially!!! I don’t really care you ex is mad. Your parents don’t deserve a grandchild but you do
Just break up!! Jealousy is very naked to be in a relationship and you have been cheated on before. Find someone who is willing to be a partner, not a controller!
One sided open relationships almost never work and lead to resentment. You may have the best of intentions but this is really dangerous. I'm openly bisexual and have been happily married for 26yrs. We had a lot of conversations early on and for me the only fair equitable way to deal with my desire to be with Women was to accept that he deserved the same priviledge.
I'd also add that this idea that she will see someone for a few months and get it out of her system is probably not realistic. If she's truly bisexual she will always crave and be interested in Women. She may not choose to act on that. Of course it's 100% possible to be bisexual and monogamous but if she's enjoying an open relationship shutting that down after a certain period of time might be tricky. Unless this is just a one time free pass, check off the bucket list type situation.
I’m pretty sure my husband is not gay but I asked if he could be bisexual and he said “oh god no” and that he knows plenty of people who have tried having sex with people of the same gender
This sounds toxic AF. Block her. If she comes to your house slam the door in her face. She'll give up eventually. If she doesn't call the cops for harassment.
Y'all are both adults. I've met people in their 40s that don't have their shit together & people in their 20s that are rockstars. Everyone is different. If it works it works. ?
Tell her that behavior is manipulative and unacceptable. If she tries to control you then you’ll keep your distance.
I’m giving my sister $100 to host me and him on my side of the families Christmas too.
Tell him you're covering your side of the family visit and that you can't afford to cover his side.
That was dangerously close to doctors without borders.
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Yeah wait until he retires 40 years from now. Then shit gets really bad. I know people that have completely lost family members to their post-retirement radicalization.
He doesn't let me visit him. I don't even know his address. We're awkward together because I get really nervous around him
Don't have children with this woman.
There's no easy way to break up with someone tbh, just be straight up and honest
It’ll be harder from prison.
If the change was sudden then he may have gotten some bad news (health diagnosis, job/money problem, extended family problem)
Either way, you need to sit him down and find out what’s really going on
I don’t see why she is allowed to take someone from me. She’s suppose to be my friend. Instead she’s a snake who took a man I loved.
Oh man. Your life is going to to be so much better once you cut these POS out of your life, parents especially!!! I don’t really care you ex is mad. Your parents don’t deserve a grandchild but you do
Cut your losses
Hmm. Well, ask her to start paying for a while for these dates. She can even pick the place. Be curious to see if she continues.
I mean she looks exactly like M3gan in addition to the sociopathy.
Just break up!! Jealousy is very naked to be in a relationship and you have been cheated on before. Find someone who is willing to be a partner, not a controller!
One of them was caught sleeping with my ex a bunch of times behind eveyones back
you don't get to control who dates who..Or who is friends with who.
It has only been six months, and you are not happy. Move on
One sided open relationships almost never work and lead to resentment. You may have the best of intentions but this is really dangerous. I'm openly bisexual and have been happily married for 26yrs. We had a lot of conversations early on and for me the only fair equitable way to deal with my desire to be with Women was to accept that he deserved the same priviledge.
I'd also add that this idea that she will see someone for a few months and get it out of her system is probably not realistic. If she's truly bisexual she will always crave and be interested in Women. She may not choose to act on that. Of course it's 100% possible to be bisexual and monogamous but if she's enjoying an open relationship shutting that down after a certain period of time might be tricky. Unless this is just a one time free pass, check off the bucket list type situation.
I’m pretty sure my husband is not gay but I asked if he could be bisexual and he said “oh god no” and that he knows plenty of people who have tried having sex with people of the same gender
No.
Straight men don't try sex with other men.
Decline it
there's a reason you're not with him
This sounds toxic AF. Block her. If she comes to your house slam the door in her face. She'll give up eventually. If she doesn't call the cops for harassment.
Y'all are both adults. I've met people in their 40s that don't have their shit together & people in their 20s that are rockstars. Everyone is different. If it works it works. ?