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Matty & Aiden, 22 y.o.
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Date: October 9, 2022
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Maybe take a deep look at yourself and the type of people you’ve been dating it’s like on the opposite end a woman wanting the same things you do but only dating gang members and things of the sort, what I’m saying is take a look at the type of woman you’ve been looking for and the type of person she is cause sadly you could just be suffering from bad taste in women
I know your comment was purely from a objective standpoint of how to lose weight, but I don’t think that’s what this post is about.
Your post history is basically this sort of question multiple times. You are so insecure in the relationship. Not all people are comfortable being in a relationship with a person who has a past plus children. Break up with this man. Go find someone who doesn’t have an ex and especially children.
Your post history is basically this sort of question multiple times. You are so insecure in the relationship. Not all people are comfortable being in a relationship with a person who has a past plus children. Break up with this man. Go find someone who doesn’t have an ex and especially children.
You don’t state how long you have been together, how long they have been separated or who initiated but honestly you need to let this go. Kids are only little once. They will have fond memories of this situation. You need to grow up. This is not about you. Likely has nothing to do w ex either.
They are saying that they only believe a threesome that's enjoyable for a man is with 2 girls. Not realising that guys also like to play with each other. Dudes can be bi sexual too but sadly default 3somes are seen as ffm because its all for the benefit of dudes. Because porn!
thank you for your suggestion, i want to do what I can to be a better man.
yeah this seems like a great choice, you should just tell her how you feel about this. hear her out, plus I'm pretty sure you don't wanna breakup with her
That’s fair, you’re probably right, I just feel so unconfident about it. Thanks for your advice
He’s manipulating you to stay so that he can have his cake and eat it too. If you’re not happy now you’re sure as heck not going to be happy after marrying him.
I think you’re justified in feeling used and betrayed honestly, and I can understand where she’s coming from, from a MH stand point but you need to put your foot down, personally something like this would sour the relationship for me. I think there’s deeper things at play OP like another comment said about how you’re choosing your partners/not setting good boundaries. I think there may be some therapy needed to delve into that or some kind of professional help so you can avoid in the future behavior that leads you to being taken advantage of.
Well ok, thanks. And he already has them and has worn them…. I can’t take them back anymore. I just won’t do anything for him moving forward, which is naked for me because I love to buy things for others because it brings me joy to know that I can make them happy, even if it’s expensive. Someone else’s happiness is worth a lot to me, especially if I’m the person who made them happy.
Same here, i wouldn't be able to date a men that does that, not because i think is cheating. But because where I live! most ( almost all) sex workers are actually victims of human trafficking, and i couldn't look in the eyes of someone who supports the suffering, slavery and trafficking of human beings. I know in other countries sex workers do it out of free will… But here they don't.
You're welcome. I'm glad. Again, I don't presume to know your situation or her reasoning, just wanted to offer a more nuanced perspective because some of the takes in this sub are skewed sometimes. Good luck!
Meh. She probably just wanted the gifts out her sight immediately.
I paid $350 for prescription Ray Ban sunglasses for myself with my Christmas bonus a few years ago. You're the only one here who knows how thoughtful your husband is or could be, but if my spouse couldn't wear sunglasses because of a prescription, I'd get them prescription sunglasses to protect their eyes. It's a really long shot, but….. I really hope your husband hasn't made a big mistake here. For your sake.
No. Not even close to the same thing. For myriad reasons that I won't get into right now, but I am done with this conversation now. Have a good one.
Yes say Merry Christmas but know that she's not interested in a relationship with you. Take time to grieve the end of the relationship and then start meeting and dating again when you're ready.
This particular relationship ending might have nothing to do with how you were or weren't. It's actually pretty normal that many relationships may last just a few months. Yours happens to fall into that statistical group.
I can say though, that a new relationship already moving to LDR within the first few months, is harder to do than a long-term relationship that has to do LDR for a few months. So that might have played a part as well.
I get that, but she knows what she wants. What she is hoping is that with time you will change your mind. Also maybe you are hoping she will too, and be ok with not marrying. What will possibly happen is one of a couple things… 1. One of you will change their mind/be convince, and then be resentful because you gave up what you thought your future would be. Or 2. Realize neither will and break up anyway.
Seems like you are both holding out hope, and possibly wasting each others time.
For me that was also the strange part sinds I've met all his friends and not even a single word over her
Yea I dunno, I guess it’s just semantics. I utterly agree with what you are saying there so I have no more responses. For me with relationships I think it’s important to trust. So if if I trust someone and get burned that’s all on me and I get that and would take my 50 blame to 100. But while I trust someone, which is the only way I would have sex with someone, I think we make that decision together and when we both fail 100% it’s 50/50. If I trusted and got burned that’s on me for trusting the wrong person and I’d love with the repercussions and take the blame. So right now I still trust her and myself but I fucked up 100 percent and she fucked up 100 percent so I view it as is fucking up together. If two months down the road i find this girl is completely i worth of being trusted like that I would pivot and say this was 100 percent my fault and I need trust better or maybe take a step further and take trust out of it and just make it my responsibility. (which is what I already do in a hookup scenario, condoms always)
But do they do it to pictures that they post on social media?
How does that even matter? When something really bad happens and someone dies, people don't say ,”well it was only this once”. Sometimes it only takes once. I would definitely take my kid and leave. Now. If he's willing to get professional help, I'd consider talking to him again but right now, there's no guarantee there won't be a next time nor that it won't be worse. And, you're giving your child mixed messages. He's learning to feel bad for his bully and try to please them.
No that’s not what it is every time I keep my distance and decide to just move on she keeps saying how much she loves me in her life and all of that. She’ll give me attention even after that I still don’t want to sit here wasting my time. My only question is would there be a reason for her doing any of this even after saying she just wants to be friends.
If there is hardly any sex in the first three months of the relationship, it won’t get better. This is the “honeymoon” period, when couple are usually all over each other. Since you aren’t satisfied with this, I would end the relationship. You are young, there is hardly any time invested, it’s not working out.
Ok so? Does that change anything?
Why?
Ware you trying to rebuild anything is the better question.
This man has no respect for you or this relationship. He cheated as soon as he got into it and then AGAIN?!
you want to add a third?
You think because he didn't physically sleep with anyone that you know of… that's better?
Cheating is cheating! Its breaking trust, it's disrespectful, it's making a conscious choice to ignore that you are in a relationship and screw over ur partner because you are selfish! You saying it's live! so was he sexting people? And that's okay?! Even if it was an emotional affair that would still be fucked up.
So my question is WHY? what redeeming qualities does this man have? What has he done to prove he wont do it again that he didn't say the first time… before he did it again!? Why would you willingly want to be with someone like this? Because “love”?
Well hate to break it to you my girl he doesn't love you because i love my husband and i know he loves me which is why people who love each other do not betray each other like that not once and definitely not have the balls to do it a second time!
Have some respect. Honestly. Because he doesn't have any for you.
Jesus.
Why are you allowing this man to slowly break you down? Your entire relationship is unhealthy and abusive. He won’t ever change and this will only get worse. Break up with him and mean it. Discover who you are without him. Stand firm.
I will say that his demand is unreasonable. Knowing somebody for 7 months and not allowing them to ever move from the city you currently on-line in is nuts.
I don't understand why people drive around when they can't sleep. Walking will get you some fresh air and will tire you much more. It's just a waste to use a car.
I don’t like talking to people about my personal issues even if they are trying to help. I mean I’ve had a couple therapists and I felt uncomfortable. I think it’s a battle I’m gonna overcome alone and I don’t think I have binge disorder but I do overeat. I think binging is more serious which I know what it’s like and I have those episodes but today I just wanted to say fuck it and eat what I enjoy because I was feeling depressed
I’d pause those marriage aspirations cuz holy shit that’s a red flag if I’ve ever heard of one
This is what it used to be until he told me it didn’t make him feel good, me being with other people in my city. Here I am, not seeing anyone else, not with family, alone in a new city.
I’m a fan of Austin’s Pride and Prejudice (the book not the 2005 movie, of course). Darcy asked Elisabeth first then asked Mr Bennet. Traditions change.
Asking her parents (let’s say her father and be done with it) first reduces your girlfriend’s autonomy. It introduces a transactional tone to your proposal. How can she say no with her parents nodding along? She may like a surprise proposal but if everyone but her knows it’s coming it may look like an ambush. This may leave her wanting your proposal a little less.
You’re buying a home together. Make your first night in that house special with an empty lounge room, candlelit picnic proposal. Her parents have had all the time in the world to object before the purchase of your first home. Their permission is implied.
I need an update
I am so sorry. Please see if you can call a family or close friend to be with you. You need support right now. Please also when you have a chance, please get some therapy for yourself. Sending you a hug.
I’ve suffered with lifelong chronic depression. An essential skill is learning that it’s an explanation, not an excuse:
So no excuses. Bounce in on her and tell her, “Come on! Let’s neaten the spade! It might make you feel better.”
Don’t let her hold you hostage to her disorder: it’s not kind to her or fair to you.
Sounds like he was ready to bang that woman, and you just be a bystander in his fantasy. When the tables were turned he threw a tantrum. What a strange encounter. And now he’s mad at you? And defending his colleague who’s being nasty to you? Nah, move on from this tool bag.
Lmfao tell him and divorce? what is wrong with u what advice did u expect to hear? that u did nothing wrong and live! on happy? no
Then tell her to tell you. There us no “I am working on it” here since she isn't. Keep in mind if you plan to pressure to the points she either bends or breaks you should do it if you are ready for potential break. Granted at some point uf things do nit change you absolutely should be ready for that.
Tacky to look at X rated sites especially dating a woman with teen daughters. It is disturbing no matter what.
MEDICAL SCHOOL!!!!!!!!
It was God's leading to me and moved my heart to address the issue to her. I did not want to do it tbh but I just want to obey God on this. To the point my quiet time with God is blocked already if I did not reach out to her. It sounds strange but after I message her, my relationship with God during my quiet time is now ok and I communicate with Him clearly now
Tbh, I could have just let this go like I did before, cut her off with my life and moved on. But God convicted me to do this, so I did it. I hope she does the same..
Not exactly proper bloke behaviour. Bruv can’t handle the fact that he’s gonna be a daddy soon, innit
Girls ghost men too. It's a general thing.
And it's a coward way out because they want to avoid confrontation.
It happened to me not that long ago.
It's cruel to leave someone left out like that and dissapear on them. Even if it's just for “space”, 2 days of time you can send a little notification to let your SO know you are out for 2 days.
Let it go and move on. This person is at best unbalanced and at worst manipulative and evil. You don’t need that drama in your life. You’re missing the person you thought she was, not who she really is.
Yuk… you know why this is wrong but you feel as an adult then people should just accept your decisions. That is not the case.
Understand if you want to continue dating him this will be the reaction the vast majority of people will have if they ever found out he was your teacher. So you can hide that part of life which basically proves a point.
As long as you understand this and all the damage that this could cause and accept that then do what you want.
Leave him
Leave him
So? It's still shitty behavior.
He wants you to get home safe.
As others have said, unless you saw the test results he could have just lied to you so he could get laid.
Even if you saw the test results it is entirely possible that he contracted the STI too recently for it to show up on his test results(not sure what the incubation time on that one is but some can take 3 months to show on a test). But that would mean he was with someone without telling.
You decide what to do with this info.
Honest don't bring it up. He feels insecure in your relationship. You coming in again saying you're unhappy that he followed your instructions will create a much more deep feeling of insecurity.
Try to find ways to show him “security” and confidence. It's rough but that's the path it's taken.
Also don't let these comments make you feel bad. What you asked for is not unreasonable or cruel. Your husband is just reacting normally to a normal relationship issue but the other issue was that it would end so you gotta do what you gotta do.
Stay out of her phone unless you want your feelings hurt bro.
Naw that’s not my tradition. And it is one of the reasons I don’t want too.
Right. He claims his savings are “for us” but refuses to contribute more equally for her benefit. If they broke up today, 100% he would keep the “shared” savings all to himself- leaving her with nothing. She is definitely getting the short end of the stick no matter how things are sliced.
Love doesn't conquer all.
When Virgil wrote “Omnia vincit amor,” he didn't mean love overcomes all obstacles. It's a line set in the mouth of the character Gallus, who is going insane and is going to die of heartbreak.
“Love conquers all” means love grinds everything and everyone into dust.
Whilst I agree a Dr is absolutely a good place to go, it's worth talking out concerns and finding a Dr that will work with you and not jump to extremes, if OP is American it may be that the standard approach is circumcision which may be why there is resistance to seeing a Dr at all.
There are creams you can use to help the skin to be able to stretch and stretches you do with cream applied to help, then there are surgical options which vary in how extreme they go (from a relatively small cut to circumcision)
Ultimately though, it's entirely up to the penis owner and I'd suggest frustration isn't likely to help him feel ready to follow up on the idea something is “wrong” with his penis. That's a pretty tricky thing to confront especially with elements of the unknown.
Best of luck OP.
I’m curious, did he delete, delete it? Cause I delete pics but they’re still in my deleted album for 30 days. Is there a chance he didn’t delete it from the deleted album? (An iPhone user)
He sounds like he’s acting very suspicious.
You need to get out and stop giving her money. Your dad needs counseling to stand up to your mother
She isn't going to get better all yoy can try and do is contain your exposure to it.
Sorry
First of all, you need to grow thicker skin.
After the intense trauma to your skin,(which is what happened) it does look bad in the immediate aftermath.
He apologized and did not mean to hurt your feelings.
Be an adult and move on.
You need therapy. This level of insecurity is profoundly unhealthy and it's poisoning your relationship. Your boyfriend has no clue what's going on with you, and he hasn't done anything wrong. Your issues are being unfairly inflicted on him and if you want to stop that then you need to take the step to seek some help for them.
You have gotten major red flags about this guy. Marrying him or staying with him would be a disaster. I truly believe this guy will get physically abusive with you if you remain in this relationship. He's not a good guy. A good guy wouldn't threaten to shoot your cat and call you selfish on your birthday because you want to go out to eat. He sounds like a monster, honestly. Please end this and find someone who treats you with respect.
On the one hand, if you are confident and comfortable being a single mom of 2, awesome. As others have said, you may be in for a lot of battles over financial support, and i would not redirect him to be involved given his current behavior (but he may change his mind in the future so still consider what kind of parent he might be, given that you're ending the relationship because you feel used). If you will regret not having the child, then that is huge.
On the other hand, your children cannot pick their father, but you can.
I am the only child of a single mother, dad was not interested in being involved and she was fine with that. I am as well adjusted as any of my peers. She had a lot of family support so it was doable for her.
You've already had a baby so you know how naked it is. If you feel you can do it, do!
I was getting ready to roll my eyes at the story of “accidentally cheating”. No cheating here, just sexual assault. Your gf's “friend” is a predator, and she will try to assault you again. Get the fuck out of there.
I know a lot of people in long-term open relationships that work for them. If both partners agree to whatever the boundaries are and stick to them, that’s the key. When one violates the boundaries they’ve agreed upon together, not so much.
Anyway, you’re welcome to your opinion and judgement.
Dont worry! I saw u were here and were listening to both sides and thats a good thing. Anything I said about being forceful and weirdos isnt applied to you, it was to commentators who were pushing that rethoric. Im glad u came here with open ears and listened to both sides
You’re not being dramatic. He brings nothing to this marriage and actively makes your life harder while also complaining about how much he doesn’t want to be there.
Love it an action. He may claim to love you but that’s worthless if none of his behaviours reflect that, and they don’t. Stop letting him pay lip service to your marriage while he continues to drag you down.
You’re 23, time to get your life together, work on yourself and move on.
Made up romantic story + drama = karma
Math adds up to me.
I don't think even blocking numbers deletes messages.
Why not? They were together for 7 years. 7 years wasted on trying to built something, whating to have a family, marriage, kids possibly. She has a right to text him.
Breaks are bullshit. They're not a step. They don't solve problems. The delay addressing reality.
Take a step back and decide if your relationship is over or not. If it is, you don't go on a break, you end things. Break ups hurt. You're never going to avoid that. Good luck.
Well turns out it isn’t a healthy and mature relationship now
Stop playing games and have some respect for yourself.
That poor victim. And you and your kids. Just think of you and your kids.