And if this anxiety continues, seek professional help. If a person, man or woman, can't handle a push that led to an accidental falling and the opposing party was genuine in remorse [not hostile], then said person should seek therapy or at least a support group. That sounds more like you being triggered from the incident, not the incident being the root.
Both of you honestly, OP and girlfriend, should probably get some help. It's not okay to push another person and you said she felt trapped [and you did technically trap her]. You said she pushed you out of fear, not anger. That's a problem. Never once was I afraid of my husband and we have been together for over 9yrs so a shit ton of arguments. She shouldn't be afraid of you or putting hands on you.
And ultimately, I think the whole truth is not being said here. This is heavily one-sided.
that is this sub in a nutshell, or if its a guy being friendly to another girl ” DUMP HIM CHEATING vs woman with guy friends “SHE CAN BE FRIENDS WITH ANYONE”
It's normal to have preferences and sometimes the things we want to try don't work out. I would imagine he is just being immature and inexperienced
check out my edit – my original comment was off base. I just got the real story from my friend who works in child protective services
Well said.
And if this anxiety continues, seek professional help. If a person, man or woman, can't handle a push that led to an accidental falling and the opposing party was genuine in remorse [not hostile], then said person should seek therapy or at least a support group. That sounds more like you being triggered from the incident, not the incident being the root.
Both of you honestly, OP and girlfriend, should probably get some help. It's not okay to push another person and you said she felt trapped [and you did technically trap her]. You said she pushed you out of fear, not anger. That's a problem. Never once was I afraid of my husband and we have been together for over 9yrs so a shit ton of arguments. She shouldn't be afraid of you or putting hands on you.
And ultimately, I think the whole truth is not being said here. This is heavily one-sided.
that is this sub in a nutshell, or if its a guy being friendly to another girl ” DUMP HIM CHEATING vs woman with guy friends “SHE CAN BE FRIENDS WITH ANYONE”
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