When I was a hairdresser in a really nice, upper middle class suburb, one day a few clients mentioned to me that they had received invites from another resident to a swinger party at their home. They were weirded out and thought it was funny that these people just kinda invited the whole neighborhood out of the blue to see who would show. Apparently a bunch of people actually went though. That house was really noisy and lively that night.
That stinks. This is not a good place for trolling. Well, nowhere is a good place. But it bugs me more when it’s a sub where people are being vulnerable and in that, it will tug on other people’s heartstrings and remind them of their own experiences.
I am willing to be the arsehole, and that’s all i want to do tbh. The reason I’ve not is because it will upset my partner more. Unfortunately the only thing I can think of that is going to stop and make him be more respectful, is me telling him exactly that and letting my anger out. I feel like snapping is the only way, but it would upset my partner so I’ve not done it.
I do like the idea of being petty and annoying back though. It’s not in my nature, but I think it’s a good way of letting some anger out in an indirect way.
When I was a hairdresser in a really nice, upper middle class suburb, one day a few clients mentioned to me that they had received invites from another resident to a swinger party at their home. They were weirded out and thought it was funny that these people just kinda invited the whole neighborhood out of the blue to see who would show. Apparently a bunch of people actually went though. That house was really noisy and lively that night.
That stinks. This is not a good place for trolling. Well, nowhere is a good place. But it bugs me more when it’s a sub where people are being vulnerable and in that, it will tug on other people’s heartstrings and remind them of their own experiences.
We do lock it, whether it’s locked or not, door closed or open, whether we’re home or gone, she goes for the door knob incessantly
I am willing to be the arsehole, and that’s all i want to do tbh. The reason I’ve not is because it will upset my partner more. Unfortunately the only thing I can think of that is going to stop and make him be more respectful, is me telling him exactly that and letting my anger out. I feel like snapping is the only way, but it would upset my partner so I’ve not done it.
I do like the idea of being petty and annoying back though. It’s not in my nature, but I think it’s a good way of letting some anger out in an indirect way.
Thanks