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Date: October 17, 2022
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Thankyou I appreciate that so much.
100% this!
It may be difficult to come back from that. She seems to think she's tried to explain this to you but you aren't listening to her. But going forward – One month IS too soon to get into the whole partner conversation (and if you actually said, “will you be my girlfriend?” that's a little adolescent). So next time you're dating someone you like maybe just ask if she'd consider becoming exclusive. It's just the more grownup way to ask someone to be your girlfriend. But next time give it a few more months. Unless you're spending every waking hour together no one's going to know in just 30 days if they want to give up dating others to be with you. Good luck.
That is alimony.
Girl.
That's fucking gold right there. Bet he did it to seriously protect himself from you too. It sounds like you didn't really understand the prenup you signed either.
Run, don't walk to the attorney. Bring that prenup. Start drawing up a separation agreement. Once you are no longer drowning yourself for him you can actually potentially go to mediation and see if there's a relationship in there worth saving. Or if you've both stayed in this relationship because logistics.
It's really very hot to understand the difference while you've been hauling his dead weight through life. Mediation while he actually stands on his own two feet for the first time in years gives you two the chance to actually see each other as people again. The chance to decide if you like what you see or you're done. Either way you get a more amicable divorce or to try again after he learns an ounce of respect.
It’s very hot but not impossible. And in your case, sk very necessary. Please do not use “hard” as York excuse to love yourself and your daughter. You serve so much more than this.
Id give u an award if I could but heres my poor womans award ??
you know, after him doing this to you on multiple occasions and you stick around hoping for something different, then this is on you as much as him at this point. Do yourself a favor and move on immediately or he will destroy your existence or any semblance of self esteem you have left.
when guys go to sleep its because they hate you, totally not because we get tired
I don’t understand your comment. She is a teenager and you are in your mid 20s. It’s creepy and illegal in most places. You don’t want to be known as the weird older guy who goes after high schoolers
Well she had the baby at four months and it's survival chances were 1% but they worked really very hot and its doing much better now.
I know. I saw people suffering from terrible long-term effects, like weakened bonestructure in the legs and constant pain.
I can't imagine why anyone would so this to themselves.
so…. you met in september and you’re already pregnant? you have bigger worried
My family is around 2000 miles away. I online in the opposite side of the country. If I do leave I’d have to leave everything I own except what can fit in my car to drive back to the east coast.
Honestly, Reading this mad me so sad for your wife op. Please just be single.
I would ghost him. I mean, what is there to say? It’s not like you guys are going to get back together, he might deny it, you won’t get closure from a cheater either way. Although not ghosting him might prevent him from showing up at your door demanding answers.
These are all good points. I will bring these up when I actually do have a discussion with him…
These are all good points. I will bring these up when I actually do have a discussion with him…
yeah I'm not too sure she is actually carrying your child. I would dump her cheating ass. Either way she should go to planned parenthood.
Honest to god, probably the only reason he got an 18 year old to date him.
I hope you made this up. If not, find someone your own age. Keep the job. Just dump the loser.
I don’t see the point of mentioning it. I don’t give two shits about my girlfriends parents. it also benefits me in no way to rub that fact in her face, so I don’t.
it hurts me in no way to be nice and pretend I like them when I see them. just like anyone else in the world who you don’t give two shits about, you can be civil when you have to be without going out of your way to get close
I used to drink on the way home because my life was in a mess and beer was the only thing I could rely on to feel OK. I lied about it because I didn't want my one source of comfort to be taken away. I was definitely drinking too much for a few years but thankfully it didn't escalate into full- blown alcoholism. When my living situation improved, I was in much less pain and didn't feel the urge to problem drink any longer.
It sounds like a really difficult year for both of you, on top of whatever unaddressed demons he was already carrying around. Is there anything besides alcohol that brings him comfort/relief? Is there anyone he really opens up to about his feelings? You might still have time to fix this if he can find healthier ways to de- stress. Just be aware that layering up even more pressure onto him might make things worse if he's already hanging on by his fingernails.
I used to drink on the way home because my life was in a mess and beer was the only thing I could rely on to feel OK. I lied about it because I didn't want my one source of comfort to be taken away. I was definitely drinking too much for a few years but thankfully it didn't escalate into full- blown alcoholism. When my living situation improved, I was in much less pain and didn't feel the urge to problem drink any longer.
It sounds like a really difficult year for both of you, on top of whatever unaddressed demons he was already carrying around. Is there anything besides alcohol that brings him comfort/relief? Is there anyone he really opens up to about his feelings? You might still have time to fix this if he can find healthier ways to de- stress. Just be aware that layering up even more pressure onto him might make things worse if he's already hanging on by his fingernails.
First of all, please know that this kind of thing can be common amongst millennials and I want to assure you that there is absolutely no shame in admitting it.
That being said, here are some steps to start getting her out of your head: 1. Distraction: Try to focus your energy on other activities like sports, learning a new language or skill, hobbies etc. You can also do things like play video games or watch TV shows with friends – anything that distracts your mind away from this person will help. 2. Limit Social Media & Technology Usage: It's okay to take Facebook/Instagram breaks for yourself now and then – try only checking social media once a day instead of multiple times throughout the day; delete any fake accounts if necessary! Use technology as an outlet for creativity by making music or taking photographs (with camera not internet!). 3 Stop Fantasizing about Them : Acknowledge what draws you towards them in the first place (e.g., personality traits) and let those ideas go; visualize actually seeing them but imagine yourself walking past without acknowledgement; attempt to recall details from conversations they mentioned while speaking in class so those words don't stay stuck inside your head anymore. 4 self-care: Pay close attention to how you behave around others – practice good hygiene habits such as washing face often and working out will make a difference too! Take care of your physical body with healthy eating habits plus plenty restful sleep 🙂 Finally, talk it out with trustworthy people who understand – talking is key when it comes down sorting through feelings or emotions which might alleviate some pressure off yourself without feeling guilty either way!
So he won't date you because the other men you dated treated you badly ? How is that your fault?
This is ridiculous. And i thought i would overthink stuff.
Looking at your post history I’m assuming this is satire.
Perhaps it might be the dosage? Also, some people have better results trying different antidepressants and seeing which works best for them to find a balance between the two extremes your describing.
Right now, she just needs your encouragement and support. But looking forward, perhaps explore the options with a psychiatrist.
INFO: was she prescribed them by her GP or a mental health professional (psychiatrist or psychologist)? If just her GP, maybe go back and ask for a referral.
You’ll be happy to hear it’s been a really long process? I was codependent, looking for validation everywhere but within myself, jumping from one relationship to the next, cheating and being cheated on and emotionally abused. Mainly I took responsibility for myself, let go of being the victim, practised gratitude, started setting boundaries and learned to love myself! I’m single and literally happier than I’ve ever been. I’d love to be in a great relationship one day (and it will be great because now I know how to recognise what’s good and know I deserve it) but I’m in no rush because I don’t NEED it to complete me. Therapy was great but just look up codependent on Insta and there’s a ton of stuff.
So what makes you uncomfortable about this? I think you should date someone older then. Her family relationships will be different as her family and her still very much have a child and adult vibe because she is only 18. She wasn’t 17 not too long ago anyways. You act like she is a super grown woman. I have a sister the same age, she’s in 12th grade (aka highschool). She and my brother are always rough housing even though she technically is an adult now. Although not really because she’s still a teen. Just date someone older if you want a mature type woman. This whole post is so odd and off putting to me. I can’t see why this would make you uncomfortable unless you were sexualizing it which it sounded like in your post. ?
Although I do agree that if you have trust concerns with someone trying to trap you, you definitely should not give them all of the ability/control to execute such trap. I also don’t agree with sneakily visiting your ex for a fight or convo.
But I will caution, just like there have been women who have trapped men with pregnancy (or get knocked up by someone they cheated with) there have also been men who freak out when an accidental pregnancy occurs, snap on the woman, accuse her of things and then peace out. Then the woman and the man’s baby suffer while he becomes a deadbeat dad.
I don’t think from this one post alone, we can draw a conclusion on who is honest in this situation. OP noted he had bad behaviour with an ex of his while dating this woman and he did that first. What else has he also done that he opted to not include in the post.
Why are you on here wondering how to fix him? You can’t. You should break up.
Some things are not worth it.
Could he have Prader Willi syndrome or something similar?
This man only cares about food and blames everyone else around him and doesn’t care to be considerate to you, your friends or your family. This is a new relationship. It’s only going to get worse. He does not care. Believe who he is. Dump him.
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Honestly that made me laugh out loud. That’s gutsy.
A dude who will be approaching 40 soon can relate to a young woman just 2 years into post-college adulthood?
Yo…you can’t be bringing the pussy AND have to pay the full cost of the room. Y’all should go 50/50 or alternate paying.
Something sketch is happening with your BF. The fact he suggesting getting rooms but is suddenly to busy to show…you aren’t his only person.
I recommend checking out r/childfree. There are so many stories like yours posted on there and it might help knowing you’re not alone
You basically have absolutely no reason to be offended if you don't know anything about the character except that he's in a yaoi
Sounds like you do have a problem with being compared to him solely based on the fact it's a gay character, which isn't great at all
Also, maybe you should tone down being condescending about your gf's taste, if you want to keep your gf obviously
He is a LOSER. He’s
Well, only do it once with each scenario, lol. The point is to think of worst case and work your way through it on your head, so you don't have to worry and wonder. You know you can manage, and most times worst case doesn't even happen. Focus on what this relationship brings to you and let the chips fall where they may.
If you have a lot of anxiety in general, talk to your doctor. There's help for that. 🙂
Honey, he is such a waste of your time. If a friend of yours had your post history, what would your advice to her be?
How much more evidence do you need that this isn't a good relationship to be in?
He chose weed over your relationship…. Ball is on your court….
Yeah that makes sense. Thank you, I’m just not even sure what I’m expecting out of me texting him. It’s only been a month since I broke up with him so I can’t see myself getting back together with him right now
Agree. GF has drunk the koolaid and is batshit crazy. Time for OP to set her free and find someone who trusts him. Someday it will dawn on GF that she threw away a relationship for no good reason.
I think you know the score. Execute the plan. Good luck
Yes, tell housing you are being bullied for being gay and you don’t feel safe. They will make it a priority to find you other housing as soon as possible. Personally they should get him out. Good luck. Focus on your grades and mental health not this asshole, he’s scum and not important.
Legendary game my friend. You increased your value with her.
You’re dating an abusive person who gets off on making sure you never feel good enough.
You were lied to, of course that will sting and you're well within your rights for that to be a dealbreaker.
That said though, 4 months in and you literally couldn't tell? She's a woman, I don't really see the issue there
Something to think about.
If you were to go out every Saturday and get back at 4.30 the next morning, would he be happy about it?
If the answer is no, he doesn't consider your feelings at all. He's not worth it.
If your answer is yes, then you'll have to put up with it.
This is definitely rape. It's also not uncommon for rapists not to know what they're doing because for many generations, the world basically taught men that this is ok, or in some cases, even their duty to “discipline” women. Maybe a therapist can convince him and then take it from there but for the time being, you are not safe.
You just…let it go. Yall weren't exclusive. Yall had had one single date. That's not a relationship at that point and yall hadn't agreed to be exclusive. You both did things with other people in a similar time frame. Just…let it go. She picked you. Not the other person and yall have discussed and become exclusive.
You need a blood test for a decent paternity test so she can't exactly present it, other than forms
She's only known this person for a couple weeks, and myself about 16 months. So I don't think that is a productive interpretation, but I'd be curious to know your reasoning.
That behaviour could be overcompensation. If he makes a big show in front of you about always wearing rings, might think that you'll be less likely to be suspicious about him cheating. He'll figure 'oh but she'll just think about how obsessed I am with always wearing our rings, so she'll be reassured by that if she ever thinks I might cheat'.
That may not be the case at all, I'm just saying it as a possibility
LMAO this is what I was thinking too. This person is made of stone and doesn’t have emotions apparently ?
myself as a poly person, i hate interacting with others on reddit who are for the sole reason that they think everyone should do it; i understand that monogamy is very important to people, you should never have to put yourself in those situations because its unhealthy and can cause so much destruction
i hope you heal and know that youre doing good for yourself, i can see how strong you are and i really am rooting for your happiness in your life!
Who is married already and just asking their spouse to friend them on social media?
Did he just make an account? This NEVER came up before? Like did they announce their engagement on social media and don't tag each other???
This whole post is fishy.
You are definitely not ready for a new relationship right now. Yes, you will always love Emily, but that doesn’t mean a new love has to come in second. You do need to go back to therapy.
Yes such a gentleman he just calls you like a pet nothing wrong with that at all
To me, sometimes there should be exceptions to the rule. Is the dress hurt-your-eyes white or an understated white? What will she wear with it? (even a light jacket can completely change the look of what one's wearing) (same goes with accessories and shoes, hats (if you are in a hat to a wedding wearing country) etc.
If you genuinely like each other and she's not a complete or hidden psycho, let it go.
If you want to bring it up, don't do it confrontationally – just maybe ask what she's wearing and then say: I thought it was a faux pas to wear white at weddings!
She does not respect you. No matter what type of person you think she is she has no respect for you or your relationship.
This is going to sound harsh but I am speaking to you as a friend. GROW A SPINE.
You can only bend a stick so much until it breaks.
He hit his breaking point.
You know how some people don't “count” certain things as a sexual encounter or a relationship? I think just over a year of marriage would erase itself from my memory. Poof gone. A bump on my life's timeline.
2 years out of 35 is less than 6% of your life…staying longer is only going to make that number bigger.
It sounds like you got the switcheroo. If I remember correctly, 5-7 years of marriage is when things get very hot. The seven-year itch. 1 year married? Girl…
His sweet caring and emotional availability was one of the things I loved about him.
THAT WAS THEN.
It’s gotten to the point recently where now he’s been withholding sex from me.
The fk? Are there extenuating circumstances? Like mental health? Switch in medication? If it isn't something like that… and he is withholding sex as a punishment… RUN.
He should have just simply apologized instead of doubling down lmao but frogs are cute bruh I'd take it as a compliment personally
I’m currently looking for any well paying job. I have a lot of great experience, but unfortunately a lot of the roles were temporary. I’m tired of being in the temp cycle, so currently looking for something permanent with similar salary. I am based in London where the salaries are disgustingly low and don’t provide for anything.
There are a lot of restaurants that allow no dogs. Also no restaurant I've seen allows indoor dogs. So all the indoors.
Not everything is for everyone.
Maybe he knows he’s a homophobic misogynistic emotional abuser and took “I’m judging you” to mean you know it, too.
Pretty sure they check for gay IDs at the door.
Imagine swapping the pronouns. BF regularly out to 3am with “lesbian” friends and refuses to answer texts after previously having a little text fling with a female coworker. Hits a bit different.