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Date: November 30, 2022
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You need to be concerned about this. The fact that he's ONLY single at work (friends and family know about you), brought back 5 people, including him is 6, gee look at that even number of men/women ratio. And would you look at that? She's hard, but he told you, so you can totally trust him. He's either trying to hide you from his work so he can seem more dedicated to the job (I doubt, but hey, gotta give you the option) or he's doing it so he can be the single guy hooking up around the office. Which makes more sense? Does he have pictures of you at his work? Have you heard him mention you (as his gf) while on the phone with anyone from work? You don't have to jump to the fact that he cheated, but his behavior is really shady. I really hope it's not what it sounds like, for your sake, but please keep your guard up.
My dilemma is, do I just wait for life to show him that he needs to get a job and can't turn his nose up anymore at a desk job “which would make him miserable”, or do I express my worries, thus showing my cards and kind of telling him implicitly that I don't believe in him?
Absolutely. At her age, IF she has undiagnosed ADHD, the “help” she's gotten for time management is likely to have been yelling, grounding, lower grades, and people telling her useless shit like “buy a planner!”.
IF she has ADHD, and OP likes her enough to address the issue, he can approach it with a “team player” approach of helping her look up strategies that have worked for others, and helping her implement those strategies. He can give her constructive feedback on what's working and what isn't working, and he can listen and be ready with another suggestion off the list they come up with if one if them isn't working for her in a way that isn't obvious to others.
If she refuses to try to address it, and blows him off… then he knows not to waste more time on this relationship.
Sounds like she doesn’t want you to go ahead with leaving her as that’s when her free ride will end. Do what’s best for you and leave her lazy ass.