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Date: November 25, 2022
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I was bringing the cat home from the vet when my vehicle was hit on our road not 50’ from our house. When I came in to the house with the police officers and told him I had a car accident, he immediately asked if the cat was ok. He was more concerned with Not me, but the cat. I left home soon after and he actually asked what he did to deserve that.
Just so you know, I took the cat with me when I left.
Thank you, I honestly blame tiktok I see so much negative stories about cheaters I get in my head so much, but that’s why I haven’t left him or anything yet he willingly says take my phone if I ever make you feel u comfortable about something , of course I would feel weird doing so but I think someone who’s hiding something big wouldn’t offer that.
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Why do you care so much about your friend's relationship? Do you want his girlfriend?
She’s clearly using you. Wake up!
Always early, as long as they didn't expect me to be early as well, I'm the kind of person who shows up exactly when I said I would
I completely understand your reticence. It's very difficult to reconnect with (and forgive) someone who has done us terribly wrong. Perhaps you can meet her once in some neutral place such as a restaurant. That leaves you open to get up and leave if you want or sit there and see if it's worth salvaging. Good luck to you and please keep us posted.
Keep in mind she had a crush on you when she didn't even know you much. She was attracted to how she has seen you, not you as the person you are. It doesn't matter you couldn't make a good pair regardless, but it is something you should keep in mind.
Of course you should get to know her better, before doing anything more. With that said you should make it clear at some point that you aren't dating people who are already in relationships. Incidentally should she break up with her boyfriend to pursue it do not feel obligated to her. What I mean is that should things not work out eventually do not be afraid to break up, just because she has left her previous boyfriend for you.
If it was a close friend of the family, honestly no I would have no problem. What would the problem be?
Your should invite a group of your girl friends over for dinner and have them ALL farting like their ass is demonstrating the new years fireworks.
Those are not nececities, I just need a roof, food, air and water, and the phone is an extra, that's he's logic, and technically he's not wrong so he hang from there and acts like everything else I say is not valid, it makes me so frustrated T.T He can get he's brothers to the movies and take them out to eat, but if I don't wantà to go to the movies then I don't get to do anything at all for months, he also says I was to go to the movies early but then I'll lave you home aànd I'll go work again,.we amt even have a full day out doing something I want to do, it's just always the movies, thel leave me back home ??♀️ I just want a normal.noce date night, not 2 hours of your time to see Avatar and leave me back isolated at home m
Nah. She cheated. She broke it off with you to fuck other people. She never told you the truth also.
Would you break up with her, fuck a girl and then not tell her and get back together two days later?
She lied to you about the reason for the breakup and lied to you when she didn't tell you about sleeping with her EX. Maybe next time she wont even break up with you to bang other dudes.
Whether he realizes it or not… It's really bad either way. Like, very hot to say which is worse.
Chalk it up to a learning experience. If you meet another guy who reminds you of him, you'll know what to do.
It's pretty much cocaine or blowjob imo. You know her better than we do
I grew up in a house where we avoided conflict. My wife prefers directly communication. I am so used to asking questions or observing and assessing. My mother and I used to predict where the person was going with those actions and not even need to be more direct, so I don’t even realize I’m not effectively communicating. It is something I’m working on, but keep in mind it may be coming from a well intentioned place.
Next time you see your female neighbor I wouldn’t ignore it. I’d say something like, “hey I know you were probably joking but I’d appreciate if you don’t make jokes like that moving forward. It’s not my kind of humour.” That should get the point across without being overly combative.
If one person has power over another (directly affects their income, say via tips or a contract, or complaint leads to getting fired or demoted) it's not appropriate for the one with the power to put the one with less in the position of being concerned whether their income may be affected based on how they respond. See how that's coercive?
Just because you had no difficulty saying no doesn't mean everyone's the same way. And it doesn't make it okay that you were put in that position in the first place.
A doctor can absolutely help. There are ones who specialize in this because there are so many men who face this issue.
I guess he was prescribed way back in high school with some behavioral citations. He told me he’s never seen a psychiatrist. He goes to the same pcp I go to and she draws his blood once a month for it, that’s about it
Dude's a legend. An actual ghost, and OP deserved it.
I think your NB friend has a crush on you. If they can convince you that you are actually gay and just don't know it yet (?), maybe you would agree to date them.
Even in liberal areas, I've observed that it's sometimes very hot for NB people to find friends who unconditionally accept their gender fluidity, without making it the major defining characteristic of their personality. So when they have a good friend who's kind and fun and completely sees them just as they are, it's very easy to fantasize about what it would be like if that close friendship turned into a romance.
Nonetheless, the way they are behaving right now is not acceptable. You shouldn't have to cope with being constantly badgered and belittled by someone you consider a friend. Also, it's just plain ridiculous that they continue to insist they know more than you do about your own sexual identity, after you have been so considerate in learning how to be a better ally for them.
IMO you need to set very firm boundaries, and put an end to this. Please do NOT say thank you for their acceptance, as that will just encourage them to continue their BULLYING which is what this is, at its root. (Imagine if you actually WERE gay, and your so-called friend kept insisting that you showed all the signs of being straight, so they refused to believe you could really be attracted to girls.) You've probably gone above and beyond to demonstrate that you are a staunch ally of the LGBTQ+ community. And you can still be an ally, without having to tolerate disrespectful crap just because they are NB and you are a cis straight female.
Tell them instead that you are sick and tired of hearing their gay jokes, that you know you are straight and you find it extremely insulting whenever they do it, and it ends TODAY if they still want to be your friend. After that, you need to be prepared to break off contact – at least for a few months – if they continue to disrespect your wishes. They may need to learn the hard way that if you want to keep a good friend, you need to be a good friend.
No, nothing for you to feel sorry about, really. I took it the right way.
I'd say more like he dodged a tactical nuke.
Its pretty normal for this to happen when youre both inexperienced or have a break. Just please her in other way.
He did say he regreted it.
I'd be interested anyway if you dont mind, but yeah I've been thinking that for a while but pushing the thought aside
I've mentioned it before when we're home and have opportunities to do things with them together and he always says that he doesn't feel like it's his place. When it comes to things like going to trivia with friends, having dinner with my family, etc. I tell him he is invited and the people there want to see him. Then he'll offer to drive me but won't stay and that's usually that. I thought that was clear in my head that I want him to come and do these things but writing it out maybe it's not coming out as clearly as I thought
This is what you do:
SAY “FUCK NO”, TO THE CHEATING SCUMBAG!
Even if you found someone that wasn’t your son’s best friend, it is still VERY messed up to prioritize that relationship instead of going to your own child’s important events. There is no excuse for that kind of behavior and you crossed a big boundary here. The way you described your relationship seems like an unhealthy obsession, and it’s even made worse by the fact that KID was so young.
You don’t seem apologetic in that you literally said you were relieved that your son left, and you actually married his ex best friend, so if you are planning to apologize to him, I don’t see how you could do so without being inauthentic.
Good luck on the meet up with your son, but just know this negatively affects your relationship with him for the rest of your and his life.
It’s wild to me that people think that behavioral issues can come from something other than choices made by the parents.
Children do not have autonomy. The only freedoms they may have are granted to them by their parents. Their friends are people their parents take them to see. School? The kids don’t pick that. After school activities? Chosen by parents. What they have for dinner? Parents!
If a child is struggling, the issue can almost always be found in the home and solved in the home. It’s so rare for an issue to be occurring outside the home, and once again if that is happening and the parents aren’t aware? Parental negligence.
When did these situations become normalized? I haven’t had the need to date for a decade, but I can’t recall these situations being common before.
Move on and leave him alone.
IDK, there isn’t enough evidence here. I work in a mental health facility, I guess you could somewhat say it’s along the lines of health care, we were always getting exposed. We tend to laugh at things that others may find inappropriate. Reading her text is not raising any red flags for me.
You need to look a little deeper, honestly if I saw this text between two of my co-workers I really wouldn’t think anything of it.
your salary is above like 60k right? bc imo thats the min teachers deserve
I haven't because I don't want it to be awkward. It would be obvious that we called. I do want to though, as I think that will be the only thing that works.
Rule of thumb, if you break up, stay broken up. But guy, that would be a very hot no for me. Not only was she hitting everything that moves, but it's on vids and on websites?? Sorry, nope. I can't believe you went back and have made it a year before feeling a certain way about it. I have a question for her though. If what she did wasn't that bad, I would be curious to know what she would consider bad??
You should stop wasting your time. If that's truly the only reason why she broke up with you, then you're dodging a bullet.
Dump this cheater of a person.
She is not worth your time.
Let her keep her side-kittys and move yourself out.
Her son needs his mom. Period. You are trying to balance your own personally wants, don’t even pretend for one minute you are a massive POS.
We would stay at each others places but usually only for one night at a time. We’ve been together about a year and a half, and we bicker on and off around small things but I don’t think we argue well together if that makes sense. The most recent was again a really small thing around washing dishes, and I prefer to wash the soap off, but he didn’t see the point and thought I was criticising his washing skills.
He is usually good at following through on plans, although he can sometimes forget we planned stuff, but not maliciously as he won’t have made any plans in their place usually.
She's 40, you're 33…. she's got a little boytoy that she wants to hold onto. Love? Maybe on your part, not on hers.
That’s definitely why. You guys are lacking the physical touch and quality time.
The underlying issue is you miss your girlfriend which caused you to think of your ex because you guys had much more time together .
When you get horny, masturbate to a picture of your girlfriend. Ask her for sexy pictures if she’s comfortable with that. Sex talk on the phone. Do things to make your relationship more fun.
I think it’s important for you and your relationship with her to make your way to her more often. Try to visit her at school or have her visit you and save up money for eachother tickets and dates. The time she spends in school is crazy. It seems like you have to be the one to see her more. Maybe on The Weeknd’s. When you do see her make the most out of it. Not just sexually but romantically too. Because forming a deeper connection with her will make it easier for you to not see her as often because you have the emotional connection to hold on to
im not able to see the comments on this post aside from the one ive replied to…slightly frustrating.
As much as I wish I was a robot, sadly no
A proposal doesn’t mean much to our families, in fact a lot of my generation living in western countries have it after the official cultural ceremony if they really want one or don’t have a proposal at all. I honestly wasn’t even expecting one, and he surprised me. Our siblings do know, but none of the elders are aware, mostly because it’s looked down upon to have a proposal before the official blessing.
Traditionally, couples who attend a dance together may find themselves with another dance partner for a single dance, or possibly two. At a ball, the ladies might even have a card where the men could reserve a dance. And, if the guy was too hands on with her, a man might cut in on the dance to rescue her.
This is all a lengthy way to say dancing in and if itself is not cheating. Now, if she was getting handsy and enjoying it in a sexual and flirtatious way, where she was thinking how her current dance partner was superior to you in various ways, then that would explain why she wanted to be distant from you when she returned. In her mind, the attractive stranger is superior to the reliable boyfriend. Shirley Glass explains this in her book, “Not 'Just Friends' “. The new shiny opportunity always looks better that the solid partner at home.
I'd expect things to develop. She will return to dancing without you and eventually want to move on…perhaps while staying with you.
To the people complaining about you use of 'let her', ignore them. Rational people understand you implied:
Your relationship boundaries did not restrict her ability to have fun nights out without you. You and I understand you were not trying to 'own' her ability to leave, but rather her going out was not cause for the ending of a relationship. I swear, people get offended over everything. I've been accused of being a slaver for using the phrase “my wife”.
Ghost her but tell her that. What she did is the worse form of betrayal
Golly, it’s almost like their mutual friends know her and posting anonymously on the internet is completely different or something!
Clown.
Is it really that toxic to tell OP to go on a trip that her boyfriend has been pretending to be okay with for years, only to turn around and throw a bitch fit once she actually booked it? Yall are wild.
I’m sorry OP but it more likely that he cheated on you and got his OP pregnant and now he’s planning to have you raise their child..