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Date: October 4, 2022
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My wife then GF paid for my college and is still paying for my grad school after I decided to go back. I immediately made more money that she did once I graduated the first time, I’m never leaving her. We both invested in our future together and still are. Even after I came out as asexual after a TBI she still supported me (don’t worry we still have sex multiple time a week, mostly for her). There is no reason to leave her ever, there are definitely hotter blondes out there but I only have eyes for her.
you and the cats go on the trip. leave her home and break up with her.
If you are accurate at all in the story, why is she obsessed with the garbage and who touches it? she wants to break your stuff because you didn't put the garbage can back exactly where it goes? the hell?
I don't think you are every going to win with this one dear. you are living like roommates, go find another roomie live! that likes cats and isn't a raging nut ball.
Why has it been bugging you? You typed in all caps how upsetting this was and then you say you want to unblock her and it’s been bugging you? Your emotions are all over the place. What’s going on?
He don’t love u enough to get married then does he really love u? If he loves u he will give you what you deserve and he should’ve made that clear from the beginning but you know men really will fool us until the time comes. You two aren’t on the same page and if I was you I’d leave. He’s not worth crying over, don’t allow anyone to waste your time and don’t let anyone walk over you.
There’s nothing wrong with needing more alone time than “average” but you do need to speak to your wife, because your needs are not more important than hers.
Mind the whole time spent apart vs time spent together is something that should be discussed before you commit (ie marriage), so if you are now pulling away from your wife, would’ve accepted and entered the marriage with the understanding that you will spend a certain amount of time together as a couple, then yeah you are not being fair at all.
NAH ITS NASTY AF
What movie are you going to watch?
Just behave like a friend and not a lover. Minimise hugging, cuddling, kissing. Move away from her personal space. Do not sit beside her – sit opposed her- and so on.
You’ll be fine. Be glad it happened now and not after you started a family with this punk butt.
Your response was nicer than mine would have been. Have a conversation to manage expectations and to communicate openly. If she cannot respect that…you have your answer
I'm not surprised
It wasn't even a big argument and you said it. Why would he think you are sorry if that is all it takes to verbally emasculate him? You do not say things like that to people you love. Why can't you control your anger?
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Yeah super frustrating. May be time to move on.
Coming at them with an accusation like accusing your husband of not trusting you when your husband just wanted to get the family a fun Christmas present?
I said my truth, and one size doesn't fit all. We don't know these people or what thoughts they have, I don't care if I get down voted into oblivion because of the hive mind. We're all different and all have different experiences, I still suggest to the OP to ask her to stop talking about the exes and to be honest about why.
It sounds like you're not happy with him and you're avoiding the naked work of going through a breakup
Start with kissing? Ask her if it's ok before you take things further? Ask her what she wants? There is a whole array of things that should lead up to intercourse.
Most important thing, you need to make sure she's super turned on before you have sex. Lubrication is critical for women, and without that it can be very painful.
If you haven't had oral sex before with her, or fingered her to orgasm, honestly, I'd just start with that. Use your mouth and hands, make her feel good, make her cum before you even think about going all the way.
(You should just always do this, most women will not come from penetration alone. )
That's going to be a way more positive experience for both of you than awkwardly trying to have intercourse from 0. Communicate, ask her what she likes.
Also, wear a condom, bring them with you, do not make her argue with you about it. You do not want to get her pregnant. (I recommend Skyn brands or Lifestyles as they tend to be thinner but also reliable. Practice putting them on at home.)
She lied to go.meet another guy she is trying to get with. Stop making excuses OP.
This is a very specific troll I guess , i provided as much detail as possible
Appreciate the feed back!
Tell him that you’re not going to leave him when he’s a senile old man needing his arse wiped and you’re still in your prime.
I would keep the house obviously.
I don’t know if that’s obvious tbh, he’s the main caretaker for your son, so there’s a good chance he gets child support and gets to stay in the house with the child.
Without someone in my life who needs to keep a regular sleeping schedule, making sure I don't spend the whole day in bed, reminds me to eat and sleep, and doesn't want to see me drunk, I wouldn't be sticking to any kind of a sensible routines.
And this is an issue. What happens if your partner ever has to go to hospital for a few weeks? What if he finds a great job in a different area and you'll live! apart for a while?
If I wasn't with him, I'd probably be on my way to being in a psych ward.
And that's unhealthy….
Now he’s calling me from a different number apologizing and I’m not answering.
JFC!! You absolutely aren't being over dramatic *** AT ALL***.
Him continuing to pressure you to drink after you laid out your boundaries was completely disrespectful, in and of itself.
But blowing up your phone, then SHOWING UP TO YOUR HOUSE to beat on your front door?! And when that didn't work he climbed the fence so he could reach the window of the room you're in?! And then to have the audacity to keep calling you from a new number?! That's predatory. Get a restraining order. This man clearly doesn't give a shit about your boundaries or ensuring his partner feels safe and secure in their own home.
The dreams aren't his fault, but the cheating sure is.
You should've left him long ago.
Based on what? The fact that he doesn't want to abandon his successful business just so she doesn't feel bad? How do you know she's not refusing to sell because she's holding onto a fantasy about them getting back together? You don't, you have no basis to make any claims like that either way. Him existing and living his life is not shoving it in his ex wife's face.
Me too! 🙂 🙂 He's really great. I like that it's not necessarily about his opinion, it's about what we can measure. Nobody is perfectly unbiased, but it's nice when people make an attempt to get closer lol
He went through your phone while you were sleeping, finds fairly innocuous messages from 18 months ago and is demanding you end a friendship with someone who never crossed a line or was inappropriate at all? I think he’s being very insecure and unreasonable. If your friend made a move on you now, would you be with him or stay with “the person you love most”? Either he trusts you or he doesn’t.
I know but it’s naked to when you feel rejection in everyday life and also don’t know what exactly to say to a guy you barely talk to
Dude sorry you're getting down voted. You're the only person talking sense here.
Did you not discuss having children before entering a long term relationship and buying a house together? You say “you're not sure he wants a family” which I take to mean that you still haven't.
You need to talk to him about this. However, you need to be careful not to manipulate a yes out of him because he doesn't want to lose you. That is not going to lead to a happy relationship or a good father. He has to mean it.
If the answer is no then you need to decide how much you want children. You may need to leave as naked as that may be.
Best case, he agrees to get taken off the lease; the landlord agrees to that (which she only will do if you can show financials that support you paying the rent on your own). So you are the only person on the lease.
otherwise he has rights, and I assume he is not going to just pick up and leave just because you asked.
Good luck OP.
Basically every school with a legitimate art program does this. Nudity isn't inherently sexual. That sounds more like a you problem.
Comparisons aren’t cool. They have always rubbed me the wrong way.
That being said and based on your edit, if your partner wants you to watch a movie with her why would you get on your phone? I’d venture to guess that she was indeed upset over those but instead of talking about it chose to belittle you over a completely separate issue.
It sounds like you guys aren’t really compatible.
If youre looking for an answer on if youre an asshole, theres a subreddit for that.
Youre worried that if you stick it out past your plans that she’ll be upset that youre not in it, but isnt she gonna be upset if you break up with her? Kinda sounds like you think she’s going to be upset either way.
Being that you said you wrote a breakup message, that leads me to believe youre gonna break up with her over text or with a note and thats 100% an asshole move. If you actually cared about her you would at least call her or do it in person.
And no one can force you to have sex, the implication youd be forced to after a date is insulting to your soon to be ex. So if you think going on one last planned date means youre DEFINITELY going to have sex then all youre really saying is you dont wanna date her but youd still fuck her.
Dont drag this out, break up with her, and do it like an adult.
Tell him he's a sad sack.
If he doesn't trust you, why is he with you?!
Give him the boot.
Your wife needs to work on her empathy
What is it that you do for her beyond financial support? Which is a situation of dependence you placed her in.
Sounds like you set her up to be isolated, then complain about her being isolated.
Sounds like you provide little to no emotional support, then complain when she asks for your company.
Sounds like you don’t even like your wife. And it sounds like she’s become depressed because of being made to feel a burden to a man who doesn’t like her.
How long before he starts to hit you in the head, kick you in the side or fling you around? Op I would run and once you’re out safely I would call animal control to have them remove the dog from an abusive home
Hug. I wish I had a magic bullet for you. I wish you could find a job in Berlin, New York, San Francisco, some place where you can be yourself.
I mean, it's not entirely Bob's fault they got divorced. OP silently accepted the demeaning comments for years instead of asking him to stop and then when he didn't accepting that someone who can speak to you like that isn't a friend. And his wife choose to spend lots of one-on-one time with Bob and then chose to interpret OP's behaviour as abusive and tell everyone OP is abusive. OP hasn't mentioned his ex walking back those allegations post Bob break-up.
In a strong, healthy marriage, Bob's attempts wouldn't have stood a chance. Husband & wife would have seen through it & cut off Bob while their marriage continued to thrive.
We can guess all day but sometimes with shy guys they can just talk themselves out of stuff
Time to corner him like a wolf and get those answers you need..
Win or lose that is going to make a great story
Should I also tell how I found out? I am really scared tbh
He is?
She needs therapy, meds and frankly is too young for a relationship. This toxic behavior will get worse. She is also manipulative and unable to behave like an adult. Stuff happens like the jacket. It seemed to be a catalyst.
Thanks for your opinion, I’m still working on myself and, the fact is that I will have to make a decision sooner or later, thanks again for taking the time to help 🙂
you don’t have to fight about it
He does. She already stole his shit.
Wow you’re crazy. Your post history is basically finding small things that your partner didn’t do wrong and manipulate it such that you think it’s a red flag and want to break up.
Why do you think of yourself so highly and always assume the worst of your partner? You should break up with him and let him find better lol.
Is your husband named Michael? I dated a guy like that, he was also the cheapest bastard you'll ever meet. I dumped him. If he can't be happy or excited about things that bring you joy that's a problem. Be excited! Jump up and down! Squeal… this is a big deal and you need to surround yourself with cheerleaders not people who push you down. Talk to him and tell him he made you feel small. He owes you an apology.
I should add, just in case anyone actually reads that nonsense I just wrote: these are obviously my personal warning flags. It's usually a few of them in a post that makes me suspicious, or just hugely blatant examples. There are indeed real people who write their legitimate posts like mini-novels and recreate dialogue like it's a short story… but it makes me a tiny bit suspicious.
Just like, if one Reddit story for advice goes viral it *can* lead to other people in similar real-life situations posting for advice as well. But again, it's a sign to me that it might be a karma farmer on a creative writing expedition. 😉
I've been reading this sub for many years and there is no doubt that the number of blatantly false and obvious troll bait posts has increased exponentially. And this was a better place when that shit was (more) rare.
If someone makes up a story that is simple and so relatable that people get some value from reading it? I'm actually ok with that sort of apocryphal post because you know that something basically exactly like that HAS happened and WILL happen and maybe it's good for people to see it and the advice that results.
Anyway, it's a Friday afternoon and I've been reading too much Reddit today clearly.
He knows why this upsets you. He's feigning ignorance so he can get away with doing what he wants out in the open. Tell him that it's fine if he brings a friend, but not that ex.
should i tell her if she wanna hang you for a coffee pointing out it’s for friendship or should i just sale her to go for a coffee?
She is literally high every second of every day. There is very rarely a minute where she’s “conscience” where I don’t here the click of a lighter.
“What a rude thing to say”.
He assumed this, I did not tell him. The first time he brought it up I was thrown off and just laughed awkwardly, it kind of got out of control from there because I was (still am a bit) worried he’ll break up with me over this.
Before I give advice, I'd like to confirm something. You say she doesn't argue with you, make you feel guilty, separate you from friends, or manipulate you.
What does she cry about and when? Can you give examples?
Therapy. You’ll need therapy. This is super sad. And you’re pregnant too, that is even harder. I went through the last half of my pregnancy single. So many emotions and it was tough but i survived.
I would take this as cheating obviously. But you’re going to stick it out. You need to get you into therapy once a week and also to do therapy with the two of you. He needs to consider therapy alone as well. He needs to recognize the hurt he’s caused and validate your emotions every step of the way. He’s also likely addicted to porn and should make steps to leave it behind him. Since it leads right back to cam models.
I really am sorry sis. I’m sending you a big hug. You’re gonna be walking uphill through the storm for a while. I know bc I walked through something myself before with my husband. We’re better than ever now. But my heart goes out to you.
Op shouldn't tell them anything about the baby They clearly dobt care about op or her baby
Prison orange.
That's gaslighting 101. His reactions are not your fault. They're his. Yes, he can express emotion and be upset, but lashing out and blaming it on you is a form of manipulation. To sum it all up, he's already emotionally abusing you. Please, for your own safety, cut all contact with him. I don't say any of this lightly, so please, please, please realize that by reaching out to people on reddit, you know something is wrong, and you should listen to that gut instinct. I know the words of a stranger on the internet probably don't mean much, but I've been in your shoes, I've lived that, please get away from him.
His apologies don't mean anything if he's not stopping the behavior.
Please.
I would say this is likely not the best solution.
You talk to your BF, and make it clear it's on HIM to deal with this. If he doesn't, that's all you need to know.
Don't repeat the cycle you grew up in. Your kids deserve a better life than what the future holds in your current relationship. You need to start planning for a way out, while trying to minimize what your children see, hear, and experience going forward.
I'm sorry this has happened to you. I wish you and your children the best. Good luck
No not currently
I'm sorry – he flipped out at you for being eight minutes late. He knows that you work at a hospital, as a health care worker.
You can do better. His reaction was out of line. He expects you to cater to his wants/ego, and doesn't have any empathy – or respect – for what you're doing in your life.
“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. People know themselves much better than you do. That's why it's important to stop expecting them to be something other than who they are.” Maya Angelou
Why do you want to stay with someone that doesn't care or respect what you're doing? What would the relationship look like a year further in? Two years? At what point would he start to make comments/suggestions about you finding a “less stressful” line of work so that you can be with him more often?
Not everyone is emotionally suited to being in a partnership with someone in medicine. Not everyone is committed to being a PARTNER while being with someone.
Good luck, OP – you are doing what you love, chasing your dreams, and doing good in the world. Don't let ANYONE make you feel guilty about doing so because you aren't around to make THEM feel better about themselves.
I think you have already pushed far too naked. First. You acted like a 12 year old when you asked a coworker to ask her about you. Not good. Second. She’s clearly kept things professional until you totally crossed a line and sent flowers to her home. It doesn’t matter if she has a boyfriend. You are close to being a stalker at this point. She’s not interested.
Agreed. I had an ex who behaved this way. After countless arguments about “my past” he finally admitted that he was jealous that I had more experience than him. And I told him to deal with his shit and stop being pissy about something that happened before we met and was none of his damn business anyway.
You can't do the damage and then be angry that she needs time to trust you again. It's easy for you to move on when you had the audacity to cheat in the first place
Why would it hurt her? It sounds like a very normal thing to do.
Yeah true you’re right ! The thing is I think that his feelings were really hurt and I know my self I won’t be able to just send him a message out of the blue after years of no talking , I feel it’s a bit awkward don’t you think ?
Think he’s crying because he’s in denial of his sexual preferences and is shaming himself afterwards each time
Tell me??
You really thought the FOURTH time would be the charm? Come on
One month isn't enough to get really into each other.
Jesus fucking christ…
A new relationship is about having fun and not laying all your problems on him. Start slowly…get to know each other…give it time…don't break up. Tell him little by little. I once went out on a date and he told me all his problems during dinner…never saw him again…nice guy…but it was too much for me.
This is sick. Every comment is urging you to try to get less time with your kids.
Tell him you're going on a date to a concert he wants to go to and don't fill up the car with gas, don't bring your wallet, and don't buy tickets to the concert. When you get there, explain you were just going on doing it without planning and figured he'd do it. Repeat this with everything he wants to do, or only plan for yourself for events. Go on vacation, he can come if he wants. Don't buy tickets or plan things he'd enjoy.
If he wants to do fun things, he should have to plan them on his own until he learns to plan with you.
My fiancé and I use Google sheets to plan our vacations together. Same thing for our wedding. I'd leave in a heartbeat if he decided he wasn't going to take responsibility for anything. What a child.
Sorry you're dealing with someone like that.
This, she has unmet intimacy needs and they're speaking a different love language. Some partners may enjoy the aftercare and doting on their partner after they've had sex; but I think the issue here is she's not enjoying the sex itself, and seeking another form of intimacy following.