I feel you! I was quite similar not too long ago, and it was really nude to distinguish between “baby fever” and actually wanting to raise a human. It takes a while to figure out but I'm sure you can get there, with your husband for support
These are not unreasonable expectations at all, they're run-of-the-mill expectations.
You need to stand your ground on important topics like this because otherwise it WILL be for the rest of your life. Don't be submissive.
Is he such a wonderful and amazing person that he's worth becoming a stay at home mom/cook/cleaner for? You should answer that question because it's what he's asking of you, quite plainly.
I've been with my partner for 10 years and we contribute 50/50 when it comes to income AND household chores. This is becoming the new standard.
That doesnt mean he no longer osrtakes in our monogamy.
I had feelings that i could be bi and i have no desire to break up my perfectly good relationshio for it.
I think this is something your husband needs to talk to a therapist about.
Pump the breaks on everything before this completely and irreversibly breaks your marriage and remember what you got into whike married.
Suddenly realising youre bi is not a get out of monogamy free pass. It doesnt mean you can suddenly decide to break down those parts of your relario ship or vows.
He either wants to fuck others or he doesnt. Regardless of gender or sex.
If he wants to be in a monogamous relationship he needs to stop everything.
If he doesnt then you need to decide if you can realistically on-line like this because it sounds veru much like this is tearing you and your self esteem apart and you have EVERY right to tell him that.
You are not depriving him of anything. He agreed to monogamy when he got intk the marriage. If you dont want to change that no matter what his sexuality then that is your right.
You have nothing to lose at this point cause it sounds like if you continue with this youre going to end up with no marriage anyway. So be honest. You deserve to be happy and respected too. Stoo feeling guilty for reminding him of something he fucking well agreed to when he put the ring on.
I feel you! I was quite similar not too long ago, and it was really nude to distinguish between “baby fever” and actually wanting to raise a human. It takes a while to figure out but I'm sure you can get there, with your husband for support
These are not unreasonable expectations at all, they're run-of-the-mill expectations.
You need to stand your ground on important topics like this because otherwise it WILL be for the rest of your life. Don't be submissive.
Is he such a wonderful and amazing person that he's worth becoming a stay at home mom/cook/cleaner for? You should answer that question because it's what he's asking of you, quite plainly.
I've been with my partner for 10 years and we contribute 50/50 when it comes to income AND household chores. This is becoming the new standard.
Sprry but my partner is bi.
That doesnt mean he no longer osrtakes in our monogamy.
I had feelings that i could be bi and i have no desire to break up my perfectly good relationshio for it.
I think this is something your husband needs to talk to a therapist about.
Pump the breaks on everything before this completely and irreversibly breaks your marriage and remember what you got into whike married.
Suddenly realising youre bi is not a get out of monogamy free pass. It doesnt mean you can suddenly decide to break down those parts of your relario ship or vows.
He either wants to fuck others or he doesnt. Regardless of gender or sex.
If he wants to be in a monogamous relationship he needs to stop everything.
If he doesnt then you need to decide if you can realistically on-line like this because it sounds veru much like this is tearing you and your self esteem apart and you have EVERY right to tell him that.
You are not depriving him of anything. He agreed to monogamy when he got intk the marriage. If you dont want to change that no matter what his sexuality then that is your right.
You have nothing to lose at this point cause it sounds like if you continue with this youre going to end up with no marriage anyway. So be honest. You deserve to be happy and respected too. Stoo feeling guilty for reminding him of something he fucking well agreed to when he put the ring on.
You honestly know nothing about the details of his marriage and you shouldn’t. It’s none of your business. Leave this MARRIED man alone.