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Date: October 7, 2022
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OP, try having individual, live! counseling to think this through with a professional.
This is my own take- for what it is worth: It sounds like your wife has coped with the difficulty of having a disabled child by becoming the indispensable expert on his care. That is pretty common when a kid is that level of disabled. If she is going to have to change her life this much to care for him, she needs to feel that it is worth it. She needs to be the only one who can soothe him, or the one who makes the most sacrifice for him because then, maybe it is worth it. Even if you are also an expert, she is the “uber” expert and has taken on this identity.
She is choosing her role as his care-giver over her role as your wife but she may not know it. She may feel like a martyr or like she is being rejected herself. The sleeping thing is a good example- this happens to alot of parents of kids disabled or not. It is harder to train a child to sleep by themselves than to comfort them by sleeping next to them, at least in the moment. For most kids, this solves itself. For some though, it never ends. If parents have some difficulty between them, it becomes even more tempting for one parent to sleep in the child's room.
This is going to take some work and you can only do so much. Telling a professional and getting some advice on how to bring this up so she is more likely to hear it would be the first step I can think of. Other actions you can take would be to find out what services there are for short term respite care in your area. Often there are places that provide respite care for people in your situation. You could also join an on-line or local real life support group for parents of disabled kids. Good luck, OP. It sounds very lonely but I can think of at least a few things you can do.
Run away and get treated?
Honestly I can see why your boyfriend is upset, and it's because of the ridiculous level of timidity in your response to unsolicited sexual harassment.
“Ew what a weirdo”… Really? That's the level of outrage you expressed after such an extreme violation of boundaries? If that happened to my wife I would expect her to be flipping the Fuck out, I would expect her reaction to be more outraged than mine.
But the way you reacted just sends off vibes that you were not that perturbed at all… oopsie daisy got another dick pic from my ex, gosh darn him what a joker. Just another Thursday I suppose.
I'm certain your boyfriend is not asleep right now, I'm sure he's ripping his mind apart right now in anguish for having been so blind to the assumed infidelity you're having with your baby daddy.
Oh she knows I don't let people walk over me. I've just been through a lot and always needed to keep people at arms length, so I am generally trying to be nicer to people, but I never cower. I just don't need to “mark my revier” and I don't want to have to. I also don't want her to know that she makes me jealous. I'll try to find a way to assert my dominance. Any example on how one does that, without actinc like a territorial animal??