If he can’t trust you, you two shouldn’t be together. He’s being controlling and gross here. I would draw a nude boundary with this and if he can’t accept it, it’s over
Bruh just re read your story and when realization sets in on how stupid this is move on. This just sounds like drama and a headache you don’t want to be apart of
I'm 27 and I got ID'd by a guy I went to school with a couple of months back. looking young does not make dating a teenager okay. There is a huge leap between looking 18 and being 18.
You dating age-inappropriate people does explain why you don't see anything wrong with reversing the situation though. They were gross for dating you,
Honestly, people with ADHD need to see very real consequences for their actions quite often before they can move on anything that might improve.
He won't lose everything, he can find a roommate like the rest of us do. You shouldn't eliminate something that will keep you both safe and able to improve without really think about it.
He is not a good partner to you right now. You need to decide how much of your life and your happiness you're ready to sacrifice for him now so you both know where the boundary is. That's the most healthy and helpful thing you can do.
It sounds like you need to be spending less time with him and letting him figure his stuff out. In the meantime, don't clean up for him around the house. Don't make his appointments for him, don't be his bangmommy.
If he can’t trust you, you two shouldn’t be together. He’s being controlling and gross here. I would draw a nude boundary with this and if he can’t accept it, it’s over
Get a restraining order and change your number. I would also press charges but that might have more future involvement with him than you wish.
Bruh just re read your story and when realization sets in on how stupid this is move on. This just sounds like drama and a headache you don’t want to be apart of
I'm 27 and I got ID'd by a guy I went to school with a couple of months back. looking young does not make dating a teenager okay. There is a huge leap between looking 18 and being 18.
You dating age-inappropriate people does explain why you don't see anything wrong with reversing the situation though. They were gross for dating you,
Honestly, people with ADHD need to see very real consequences for their actions quite often before they can move on anything that might improve.
He won't lose everything, he can find a roommate like the rest of us do. You shouldn't eliminate something that will keep you both safe and able to improve without really think about it.
He is not a good partner to you right now. You need to decide how much of your life and your happiness you're ready to sacrifice for him now so you both know where the boundary is. That's the most healthy and helpful thing you can do.
It sounds like you need to be spending less time with him and letting him figure his stuff out. In the meantime, don't clean up for him around the house. Don't make his appointments for him, don't be his bangmommy.