You can let her know that at this point, you are not interested in this role until you two have a marriage certificate and you two are legally married. Since there is no guarantee you will make it to that stage it's perfectly reasonable to establish financial boundaries both before and after. Did you two discuss how finances would be established before moving in together?
All of these relationship subs are determined to dilute the meaning of the word gaslighting for some reason. I don’t get it. We can call it manipulative, shitty, gross – why do we have to use the word gaslighting when some of us clearly don’t get what it means?
Gaslighting is a very specific and deliberate thing. It doesn’t mean “person is being an asshole”.
Thank you, not engaging with it is honestly what I plan on. I hope she will see she is the only one with an issue with it
You can let her know that at this point, you are not interested in this role until you two have a marriage certificate and you two are legally married. Since there is no guarantee you will make it to that stage it's perfectly reasonable to establish financial boundaries both before and after. Did you two discuss how finances would be established before moving in together?
Jesus, I can’t even stand to read this. Why on earth are you still together if there’s cheating and complete inability to communicate??! Get out
All of these relationship subs are determined to dilute the meaning of the word gaslighting for some reason. I don’t get it. We can call it manipulative, shitty, gross – why do we have to use the word gaslighting when some of us clearly don’t get what it means?
Gaslighting is a very specific and deliberate thing. It doesn’t mean “person is being an asshole”.