Idk why everyone is criticizing you so much. My advice is get a lawyer, get a formal custody arrangement and breakup with her. She was manipulative if she didn't put your name down on the birth certificate for 2 months just to hurt you. I don't care whatever people say about the age gap right now (yes it is concerning, but not out of ordinary plus the two of you know the dynamics better). I also don't care about people trying to justify her actions. She was wrong plain and simple.
That headache you're talking about… is it metaphorical?
Therapists are “the best” on paper. You habe to chose who works with you and what way works for you. Not every therapist has the same approach, not every therapist has the same energy with you. Nothing works after 4 sessions, that therapist can't be “the best” if she gives up on patients that quickly. You were a piece of work for her, she wasn't patient enough to really work with you. Heck my therapy lasted almost 3 years, some people go to weekly or biweekly sessions for 10, 20 years. You go until you see improvement and then some. But you can't be walking around with bipolar and not being medically overlooked somehow. You're on a path of self destruction.
Idk why everyone is criticizing you so much. My advice is get a lawyer, get a formal custody arrangement and breakup with her. She was manipulative if she didn't put your name down on the birth certificate for 2 months just to hurt you. I don't care whatever people say about the age gap right now (yes it is concerning, but not out of ordinary plus the two of you know the dynamics better). I also don't care about people trying to justify her actions. She was wrong plain and simple.
That headache you're talking about… is it metaphorical?
Therapists are “the best” on paper. You habe to chose who works with you and what way works for you. Not every therapist has the same approach, not every therapist has the same energy with you. Nothing works after 4 sessions, that therapist can't be “the best” if she gives up on patients that quickly. You were a piece of work for her, she wasn't patient enough to really work with you. Heck my therapy lasted almost 3 years, some people go to weekly or biweekly sessions for 10, 20 years. You go until you see improvement and then some. But you can't be walking around with bipolar and not being medically overlooked somehow. You're on a path of self destruction.