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How do you want to have fun with me? [Goal Race]
Date: January 13, 2023
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You woke up
You felt the situation was weird
You wanted to leave
Then you two cuddled and sex for some hours (you couldn't have felt that weird)
You said he had no game and proved it during your leave taking. What did you expect?
Frankly, it sounds you wanted to leave and if he sensed that, he just played it straight and let you go, instead of begging for your approval.
Sorry, this sounds as much about you not understanding how you got so wild and unrestrained with this guy, the guy with no game, who treated you a a person first.
You do whatever you want, no one has any place to judge, please be careful though. I had a friend that was a sugar baby for a bit, she gave me her location and always let me know when she was meeting someone. I suggest you do the same with a friend you trust.
You mean Ex boyfriend surely?
Nothing can fix this relationship. He is intimidating and bullying you and has committed criminal damage. ~Report him to the police.
Would you think it reasonable/sane to smash his TV or anyone elses tv if you got upset????
Idk obviously yes, he could be cheating, but it doesn't give the vibes. It plays like he may have been nervous because he was embarrassed to admit he “used them for masturbating”, since he's seemingly being purposely vague, I second the commenters who think he might be into butt stuff.
Important note: “I’m sorry you feel this way” is not an apology. It is a deflection that takes no responsibility for his actions.
OP You need to realize that you are her boyfriend, not her psychologist and her mental health problems are above your paygrade, she needs professional help.
My wife is a researcher too and she suffers from depression and the pressure of the job cracker her, I tried to help her but there bit hings really changed when she decided to look for professional help, she went to a psychiatrist and a psychologist to have a dual treatment andher treatment lasted a year.
She has bad days and now is able to recognize them and we can comunicate better and I can support her better since she undestand better what she is living.
If you want to give a last try to this relationship, talk with her and tell her how much you love her and how painful is to see her struggling so much, how she deserve to feel better and be happy. If she refuses be honest shout how you have reached your limit and can't help her more.
Your poor husband…
I don’t think you’re ever going to see her the same way again. Maybe if she comes to her senses NOW and starts actively behaving differently, but that seems unlikely and I imagine whatever changes she makes when you pull away will be too little, too late.
Actually I do know about those subjects but nice try. There is no solid formula as women are all very different, just like men.
He might not be, easier to justify never putting up pictures or memories with partners if you have no social media.
Yeah this is the take I was coming to, luckily my girlfriend thinks they’re being ridiculous. I don’t plan on interacting with them.
It’s an incorrect inference to say that I’m in favor of snooping. “…me and my wife have an open phone policy.” I think you’re agreeing with me. Your open phone policy with your wife matches the one I have with mine.
In any case, I’ll bet that professional marriage counselors have tons of experience guiding couples on what constitutes open phone policy and what crosses the line into snooping.
Again, I was responding to a comment independent of the post. I wasn't and am not talking about OP's situation. I'm just sharing my experience. I'm just talking about people who are brutally honest.
Grow and spine and kick her out.
People that want to get married are typically loud and proud as well but the fact of the matter is they both failed to have this conversation at any point in the past 5 years
I fully concur with you and some of the responses here are baffling. My husband and I had robust sex lives before we met, and we still regularly interact or run into exes/old flings. But we are married, and we've made a wonderful life together. We have the healthy relationship we have because of all our experiences before meeting. Neither of us has any reason to feel insecure about our pasts, and it feels really unfair to label OP's gf as a liar and a hoe just because she didn't give him a fucking list of her past partners or something ?♀️
I really don't want to make that decision
Thats what i do