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Date: October 17, 2022
If I said that to my gf I'd be agreeing with him .
On the contrary, many fathers, especially, are a spouse first before a parent. It's why I don't recommend remarrying after divorce with kids.
He will do it again.
His reaction tells you everything you need to know about how emotionally supportive he is. If you need emotional support from your partner, this dude isn't for you.
Just read your post history. You need to get out of this relationship asap. It isn't salvageable, nor should you even want it to be.
HOWEVER, constant sexual rejection also kills a relationship. And if you're feeling rejected–NOT just sexually frustrated, but emotionally rejected–it's okay to talk to your partner about that.
mixed race, grew up I'm a toxic white environment, basically a cult, so I got to see how far whites can go when unchecked and believe all non-whites and guys are after them. took me years of being around only my non white side and other queers lto finally release that feeling of inferiority, be ause we absorb other people's opinions of us and how they treat us. without doing that, I'd probably be wayyyyy worse off. find your tribe, maybe follow other mixed raced people on social media, there's also a great subreddit for community and venting. just know that being mixed, while it can feel isolating, it's a huge part of human evolution and its been happening for a millenia.
You’re 19, get a new boyfriend who’s not a jealous weirdo. Screams controlling
Just say you don’t want to expose your identity and she can do what she wants with the information. You let her know and that’s all you can do.
If you insist on staying with her then you buy a house under your name only. She is not dependable and has lied. You need to protect yourself financially. She can still live! with you but if things don't work out you need to be able to split cleanly.
If you stay ur crazy
Run
My bet is OP fancies him and is looking for ways to make them break up in a “justified” way.
You are being overly paranoid.
Most likely you are right in that she was flirting with him but you need to understand that we as men are different to you gals. He is likely to have been hit on a lot less in the past by women, due to the nature of how dating typically goes, and be oblivious of the fact that she was flirting
Even if he did notice that it was flirting, it would be an awkward situation for him to navigate. Now that you have made him aware of it you can have the expectation for him to be wary of such attention from her and for that to not become a genuine problem.
how about you tell him what you did?
No idea. Maybe not a fetish but she be OK giving her husband his needs that she can not provide.
Again this is something you have to choose to figure out or ignore actively.
That's just what happens. It's ok to be sore, let it heal and don't self sabotage
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they're both scummy as fuck
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The right relationship energised you and brings you up when you’re down. You aren’t compatible.
She isn’t too clingy – she just has incompatible emotional needs to you. She will meet another man who absolutely adores her just the way she is
In that case I normal kiss my family too. We even sometimes do an exaggerated thing, where you’ll say MMMMMHHHHH-KISS!!!!!! while kissing someone. Assure you, I’ve never had sexual feelings for my family though.
Does she plan a date and pay for it? Does she get you gifts and be romantic towards you?
If the answer is no. That is the same answer you should give to the whole relationship.
Stand up for yourself. You're an equal, and she should treat you like one.
Yes, it isn't any of his business. She wasn't sleeping with the guy anymore and ended things when they started dating. So she was truthful when she said that she wasn't sleeping up with anyone when they started sleeping together. If he can't handle her having a past, move on, but he will have a very nude time finding a woman who doesn't have a past, especially the older her gets.
Where do people find these men, Jesus
I'm OBVIOUSLY just explaining what my body looks like so that I don't get a million comments saying “maybe you're not that hot”.
You need to address your saviour complex and lack of boundaries before they do you real damage in life.
This guy is Benjamin Button! 3 days ago he was 44m, same day 43m, now 41m??
Tha fuck.!
Definitely tell her how you feel though, but remember she’s going to tell her it was YOUR idea lol.. hey maybe it’ll help if you get to “help more”
You don't have to stay with someone whose values you don't fundamentally agree on
The fuck is your BF on?…
Everyone I know who is in a reletionship lives with their GF. I am beyond excited to move in with mine.
Not only does he have a terrible POV, he also interjects ego into his statement.
What? You're embarrassed to live! with your girl? Moving in together is now a chore to him and he is embarrassed to have the same living space?
Go find someone who actually wants to move in with you. Guess being a father is for p*ssies… You have a wife? What are you? Some kind of p*ssy?
I hate your BF.
This is 100% true and as a woman it grinds my gears. AITA is like this too, if not worse.
I wish it was fake! I don't want to psychoanalyze my family on here, but my guess as to why she's with him is the same as any woman in my family: He's nice and most likely won't kill me. I had a very hot breakup with someone–not because they were a great boyfriend, but because I was worried that the next guy I dated could be abusive or a total creep.
In my sister's case, here comes a guy who doesn't look suspicious and seems more oblivious than malicious. He seems interested in her despite her having body image issues and mental health concerns. They exchange numbers and now she's got that honeymoon vision of their relationship, oblivious to his age, his lack of interests, his lack of intellect, and the fact that some of the family talk shit about him.
I was able to get through to her at one point. I'm known as the more outspoken one in my family. If I have a problem with you, it's gonna come up sooner or later. I spoke to her about EVERYONE'S issues with her bf and the next day she was considering breaking up with him. Unfortunately, I believe she doubled down.
Your not married so packing up and leaving while he's away would be really easy. He's untrustworthy and uncaring as a fiance and uncaring and an untrustworthy as a father. I also had a friend that called her BF a trashy drunk and left him , he didn't like that she called him that and he went and got sober. Good luck to you
Every time I gave her money her “love simply came back to me“ I feel like I was being used as I pay all the bills when we are out and she didn’t always ask for money but she simply goes out expecting the top of the top lifestyle which led me to go and gamble most my money in effort to make more so I can give her more. I know it’s stupid to do so and I just made it worse
Your wife said you can have sex with anybody just dont tell her, you immediately ask should you tell her. Well, no.
The fact that you know it sounds wrong seems to show the area between the understanding. Your wife is ok with you having meaningless sex but you want to have sex with somebody and in your gut you know it will be meaningful. Idk dude
Don't you have a duty to report or something?
Did you tell HIM that you were breaking up with him “so you could work on your self” ?
That's isn't the myth, and your source is beyond biased. The myth is that people who have one cosmetic surgery go on to have many. They don't.
He still doesn't understand or get why I can't do it all.
This is the only statement I feel that needs addressing here. He does understand and he gets it.
He just doesn't care that you're working yourself to death while he does nothing and hoards his money.
So until you understand and accept this, there's nothing anyone else can do for you.
But after you figure it out, ask yourself this: what good does he bring into your life? He's a shitty husband to you, a shitty friend to you, and you clearly can't count on him for support during tough times. He has no kindness, respect and empathy for you. Honestly, I don't think he has any love either, because no one would treat a loved one the way he treats you.
So what do you get out of this relationship other than stress, financial difficulties and extra labour at home? I won't even recommend couple's counselling, because I genuinely think you're too young to throw your life away on someone like him. You're becoming old before your time, and for your own wellbeing you need to put a stop to it before you become even more trapped by having kids.
He won't divorce you. Why would he, he has a sex maid at home while he continues to behave like he's single. You need to save yourself.
I actually think you should talk about it for hours, in therapy.
Not necessarily for this specific issue, but for the obvious ongoing struggles we all deal with as humans and which seem to be bouncing around in your head quite a bit. Therapy isn't a punishment or a replacement for other internal work, it is just a (in my opinion vital) piece of a mental and emotional support system. Nearly everyone can benefit from therapy, and you are certainly included in that. Food for thought.
Even if he agrees with your proposition, the relationship will be miserable
The sheer irony of him calling his old boss/colleagues “idiots” … someone needs to look in the mirror and stop thinking so highly of himself because that is one of the stupidest things I have ever heard of a “professional” doing.
Right? These FWB people should have to answer the following question before posting: “Is this something I'd be okay with a friend doing?”
ez pz
Your boyfriend sounds like a 17 year old. Move on and don't let him do this to you
Is that an actual thing? Like studied somewhere?
Not be a piece of shit and make my wife and family my number one priority
“would you fuck me, I’d fuck me. I’d fuck me hard”
Tell the truth. Or just show her this post where you clearly lay out your reasoning. You were following the spirit of your girlfriend's wishes even if you weren't doing what she asked to the letter. Just apologize for keeping a secret and not trusting that she would be understanding about the hotel situation.
At this point just end the relationship.
I don’t think you can improve your relationship without improving your situation.
Tell her how you feel and ask what she wants. Simple as.
thank you!!
Fucked if I knew. I am confused about those responses as you are. It’s not often you see people talking how swell some guy is who told other woman he held a torch for that he would like to fuck them, while shaming the gf he wronged. Have we entered the twilight zone?
Hell to the no, burn that letter, don’t even look at it.
of course not, the different is that a dude who is ONLY watching porn, on repeat, doing dodgy shit isnt the norm
You didn’t give up on the relationship. He did.
The other person doesn’t have to be a raging asshole for you to be incompatible. The two of you likely aren’t seeing eye to eye on some fundamental things namely religion on your part and anti-religion on his and a disconnect on PDAs and showing affection.
This doesn’t mean either of you are bad people, just incompatible. Break it off and find someone who suits you more.