Thanks for the input. Yes, I did message her. She responded maturely. She is stressed with moving so I gave her the space and told her our chat can wait and she appreciated that. Hopefully, she will respond back
The only thing you need to fix is yourself. 4 kids, none are your husband's and you're talking about your affair partner in a negative way because hes “dirt poor”? Girlfriend, do you have a mirror because that behavior is way worse than being “poor” has ever been.
Why, oh, why would you continue to date this person?? And want to procreate with him? What would be on the “pro” list that could overcome this avalanche of cons???
I thought it was more, fiance found them, read them, confronted Notebook Dude, fight ensues, fiance takes books, threats ensue on both sides, etc. No clue if it's real or not tho. Well written either way.
I think she was trying to be very gentle with you when she broke up with you, but she did you a huge disservice by leaving you hope and not ending things properly. She doesn’t feel about you the same way you feel about her.
If you do reach out to her, your goal should be to close this door, not try to open it again.
Age is *a* factor, but at 25 thats also when our adult lives really start taking off. Like I said, stress, sleep, scheduled meals, water intake, activity, the food you are eating, activity, etc are all factors as well, and coincidentally, all of those things change when people are starting their careers and such at around 25.
I really didnt drink “normal” soda very much, but when I stopped drinking diet soda for the most part (I still drink diet pepsi a few times a week), I started to thin out. Not sure if it was just water retention or something.
Just seems like normal 25y/o life stuff, I wouldnt worry, just make some minor adjustments. During the holidays, I gain (not kidding) at least 10lbs from all of the holiday dinners and just my laxed attention to what I eat around the time. Then when I go back to my normal patterns, it drops off in a week or two.
Do not approve it! I would totally say no. He is being a irresponsible little baby at 32 years old! Imagine you being 45 and him being 52. Still wanting you to pay for everything.
She belongs to the streets. Move on. Find someone with common sense and self control. That’s the partner you need long term.
I was coming here to say that… only not as eloquently.
Ohhh dude there is no emoji for the face i just made when i read his edit saying what she weighs… it was some combination of ???
Thanks for the input. Yes, I did message her. She responded maturely. She is stressed with moving so I gave her the space and told her our chat can wait and she appreciated that. Hopefully, she will respond back
The only thing you need to fix is yourself. 4 kids, none are your husband's and you're talking about your affair partner in a negative way because hes “dirt poor”? Girlfriend, do you have a mirror because that behavior is way worse than being “poor” has ever been.
Why, oh, why would you continue to date this person?? And want to procreate with him? What would be on the “pro” list that could overcome this avalanche of cons???
I thought it was more, fiance found them, read them, confronted Notebook Dude, fight ensues, fiance takes books, threats ensue on both sides, etc. No clue if it's real or not tho. Well written either way.
I think she was trying to be very gentle with you when she broke up with you, but she did you a huge disservice by leaving you hope and not ending things properly. She doesn’t feel about you the same way you feel about her.
If you do reach out to her, your goal should be to close this door, not try to open it again.
Age is *a* factor, but at 25 thats also when our adult lives really start taking off. Like I said, stress, sleep, scheduled meals, water intake, activity, the food you are eating, activity, etc are all factors as well, and coincidentally, all of those things change when people are starting their careers and such at around 25.
I really didnt drink “normal” soda very much, but when I stopped drinking diet soda for the most part (I still drink diet pepsi a few times a week), I started to thin out. Not sure if it was just water retention or something.
Just seems like normal 25y/o life stuff, I wouldnt worry, just make some minor adjustments. During the holidays, I gain (not kidding) at least 10lbs from all of the holiday dinners and just my laxed attention to what I eat around the time. Then when I go back to my normal patterns, it drops off in a week or two.
Not a fan of flowers either.
I wonder… was she wearing her wedding ring?
Do not approve it! I would totally say no. He is being a irresponsible little baby at 32 years old! Imagine you being 45 and him being 52. Still wanting you to pay for everything.