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Date: February 11, 2023
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But why do you need a new car? Buying a used car us so much more worth it. Cause a cars value decrease aso much just after you buy it.
Thank youu… I feel you're right. He will destroy me.
There are a lot of things that are concerning in your comments and post together. It actually DOES sound like your boyfriend resents or at least does not like that you are white – he's openly told you he wishes you were black. I don't think this is a healthy relationship to be in because someone who loves and respects you would not be telling you that he wishes you were a different race.
If he doesn't want to date a white woman he really shouldn't be dating a white woman.
I think he likes having sex with her? But I guess even that’s not good enough for him
Ask yourself this, if you invested 7 years into someone, only to be cheated on behind your back, would you want to be informed about it? In general do you think this is a good thing to do?
I sure do believe this the “right” thing to do. Keep in mind however depending on circumstances many people choose against morally correct actions.
This is not a choice reddit can make for you. I can only tell you the “correct” course of actions.
If you do not want to be in contact with his sister or family that's your own choice, he does not get to decide that you you give her another chance.
Regarding the throwing away of the list, he could have done that with the thought that, if you don't see the list of his sister's transgressions it will be easier for you to forgive and forget and give her another chance. Than you confronted him about it and he knew he fucked up. So that's why he is denying it.
Honestly if you have no other big problems with him and you get to decide for yourself if you will or will not be in contact with his family, than imo it's better to make not hasty decisions. Maybe go to therapy or go together with your husband, decide if you want to be away from your husband for a while or permanently.
Every decision is better made with a clear head.
Handbag is a great idea! I want to get one for my dog whose a mixture of Houdini and Forest Gump but I love the idea of putting it in my bag! And on my car keys too.
Leave the AirTag in a random place overnight every couple of days. Eventually he will demand to know what you are doing there. Then ask him how he knows
Not at all
Maybe cause another person in general was in the bed, that’s the only thing I could see being upset about. If he’s that anal about when the sheets being changed at a certain time
I’m so sorry, my love. I know it hurts to have to walk away, but you made the right decision for you. And you never know. Maybe one day, you’ll meet again further down the path.
If it’s meant…nothing will stop it.
—hugs—
I really do feel ashamed. I already did to some extent, but I really don't want to ruine any of our lives doing something irrational. I just need to let everything go and move on.
Yes, you're being gaslighted. You had plans with her at 8:30. You had every right to be either annoyed or concerned that you're not getting a response at 10PM.
Also, are you for real? Lack of intimacy + lack of inhibition when drunk? I think her “ex” thinks that they are still in an “on again off again” relationship.
Let's cut to the chase: It is not working out.
So what are you going to do about that?
Dating is about getting to know someone. It is perfectly normal to come to know a lot more at 12 months than you did at 2 months. So now you know some stuff and you know what the relationship is like.
I wouldn't stay.
If you like it, stay. If you don't, leave. If you've decided to stay despite the boatload of red flags you really need to be honest with yourself and stop complaining about the things you've decied to accept.
She's been traveling. That's all you have proof of.
You not having the mental capacity to understand why they are doing nothing wrong is not gaslighting. You are not even using the word correctly.
Words have been so overused they have lost all meaning by now…
Insanely intense and aggressive reaction, unwarranted, serious serious red flag.
So you two don’t online together? He counts on you for nothing financially?
Just do that, born again, virginity shit. Get baptized or something and let her know jesus has absolved you of your past sins, and you are a born-again virgin. Then propose so you can fuck her.
I'd see a red flag if he insists it has to be in his account.
Definitely not cheating. People are allowed to talk to and make social connections with others. You can’t be jealous to half to population and try to control your partner that was. That’s likely where the lying stems from know of you being judgmental
Men being selfish when their wife is struggling after pregnancy? That’s hardly unusual.
Why do people write this shit hahahaha
Please get away from this dangerous lunatic asap. You ARE being gaslit. He sounds controlling and potentially dangerous. Tell him by text and block him. He will try to twist things to get you to stay if you talk or god forbid do not tell him in person.
PLEASE UNDERSTAND the TRUE situation. He is getting irrationally angry everytime a guy even looks at you. Despite you doing nothing.
He has ZERO intention of breaking up with you , his threats are idol. Your real problem is will he let you leave him??????
You’re right, the last time we spoke about our relationship he told me he does have feelings for me and might change his mind about actually dating so I think I just subconsciously held onto that and just kept on doing what I’ve been doing. Obviously that’s not going to happen, I’m just struggling with the fact that I do really care about him n everything seems great for months before he blows up like this. And we’ve been together for a bit now so its a little weird to imagine life without him
Came right on in here to say this. It's the OP's big day to make a lifelong memory, not anyone else's.
That day will be special to her long after everyone else has gotten over themselves about it. It shouldn't be a memory with an asterisk on it just to make someone that isn't walking down that aisle happy.
It's not going to change. She is just saying that to keep you from leaving.
Yes.
Those are her companions, she’s already said no.
You’ve been together for 2 months. Tbh you don’t know what any of it is. You’re in the honeymoon phase
Is this a joke? If not, get help.
I wish i could find the guy that sexually assualted my gf to cut his dick off. People who sexually assault others don't deserve to breathe the same air we do.
What is the point of this post? You already tried therapy and said it didn’t work, you don’t want to leave your marriage… what advice are you looking for?
Ok. The number vacillates over time, but it's generally about half. That says nothing about the sheer number of small businesses that a person could apply to vs the large company. Going in person to a small business that you are applying to is still likely preferable.
To those who said talk to her, reread the comments, he did and she said just her “besties” so she made it clear she didn’t want him there even though her friends are bringing their BF.
I’d leave the house and tell her flat out it’s because she has made him feel unwanted and has treated her friends better than she treats you. Close down your phone and stay out as late as you like. When she complains, just tell her “ this is what you wanted, me not included, if it bothers you and got you embarrassed, that’s all on you. BTW, I would have never disinvited you from my birthday but I guess I’ll be rethinking that, along with the whole relationship.”
To those who said talk to her, reread the comments, he did and she said just her “besties” so she made it clear she didn’t want him there even though her friends are bringing their BF.
I’d leave the house and tell her flat out it’s because she has made him feel unwanted and has treated her friends better than she treats you. Close down your phone and stay out as late as you like. When she complains, just tell her “ this is what you wanted, me not included, if it bothers you and got you embarrassed, that’s all on you. BTW, I would have never disinvited you from my birthday but I guess I’ll be rethinking that, along with the whole relationship.”
Wdym, you told him you'd let him know if you went. Be more thoughtful next time.
Oh honey. I'm so sorry that you went through that, but take it from someone old enough to be your mom, who is basically allergic to drama:
You did not overreact, you were not overdramatic, and you did EXACTLY THE RIGHT THING.
I know it really hurts, to have given a year of your life to someone you really cared about, and then watch him let people shit on you when he was supposed to care about you – especially some other girl, and his friends, who I'm sure you'd hoped would be your friends too at some point – and not even open his mouth to stand up for you. But girl, I'm SO PROUD OF YOU for saying, “Nope. This is not okay. This feels gross, and not how anything is supposed to work, and I can't be in a relationship with someone who'll just sit around and listen to people say crappy things about me and not think it's a big deal.”
I was in a relationship like that at right around your age, and OMG . . . this brought back memories. Of how I just sat there night after night, thinking, “Well, but he's going to say something at some point. Like, he HAS to, right?” As his friends made snide “jokes” about me that didn't feel funny at all. Or his best female friend (who was also his ex) made it clear that she hated me, but I was still supposed to hang around her with a smile because “she's my best friend” even though she iced me out constantly. And all I wanted was for these people to like me. I was never rude or hateful to them. I didn't even understand why they were mean to me. And he just . . . sat there and did nothing, and let them be mean to me. Like it was normal.
And when I finally broke up with him, it was awful, and I was so sad because I'd really cared about him, but you know what? I also felt so FREE. Because I realised that that whole time I was hanging out with people who didn't like me and didn't want me there, and HE DIDN'T CARE. And WHY WAS I EVEN WASTING MY TIME ON A GUY WHO DIDN”T CARE THAT HIS FRIENDS HATED ME?!
You deserve better. SO much better. And now you are free to find someone who will not only love you, but hopefully will have friends who think you're awesome too.
He insists on comforting me when what he’s doing isn’t comforting at all and it’s actually making me feel worse
I think people misunderstand how big the RLD in Amsterdam is and how much extra walking it would take to get to certain areas if you don’t go through it.
Also, I did a guided walking tour that took in the RLD and people had their kids with them on the tour. Bit weird but shows how it’s viewed. It’s a tourist trap. Take the tourists out in the evening and there’d be very few people there, just stag do’s and regulars.
i’m pretty independent and solitary and someone who’s supposed to care about me not texting me for two days would not sit well with me at all
Honestly, we need to stop calling teens “adults” just because they've hit the arbitrary age of 18. Our frontal lobes aren't fully developed until 25, 18 is just the age you're allowed to sign your life away to the government for free college.
No one over 30 is hanging out with a teen just because they're “cool and mature” – he is grooming her, this is dangerous. I'm fully ACAB, but the department should have some kind of HR, I would reach out to them. Maybe there's a policy about romance between subordinate and supervisors, maybe not, but hopefully they'll at least see the red flags.
How did the talk go?
It sounds like post event he's asked for the consent paper.
I mean I get why but it's not great.
Not to you. But to the statements so I can also express myself. That's why I said I'm not trying to fight. I want to let it out so I know how unreasonable I might be. And if I don't express it, I wouldn't know from the advice of strangers because you don't know me, you also based it on my statements. So I just wanted to clearly express myself and see where my bad are.
I appreciate your thoughts about this.
I'm tired of giving compassion to people that don't deserve it.
Maybe I'm really the bad person here but I'm just so tired. I'm so tired that I already gave my left hand but people are still asking for the right hand and the rest of my body. I guess I was drained with everything so I'm on defense mode all the time and I'm so tired of trying anymore. Maybe I'm losing the capacity to understand anymore and I'm already at my peak before this happens so I cannot give any compassion anymore.
Thank you for telling me this, at least I probably see what's on his mind too that I don't understand. I just realized that people are really different and it's up to us with what we can tolerate or not.
I'm tired of being disregarded. I'm tired of being the one that always understands while he doesn't even lift a finger to understand where I'm coming.
I don't think “I'm not responsible enough to keep my phone charged and available” is an emergency.