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He doesn't want a baby – and in this economy, I don't blame him.
We know you obviously have feelings, but you're thinking purely emotionally and not logically.
Omg I had friends like that ??
It’s good that you confronted your husband immediately. He needs to know and accept where your boundary is.
I noticed that some females, as soon as they see you in a relationship with a guy they show flirtatious interest in him. that could even be someone that they wouldn‘t be interested in normally without a girlfriend or wife.
I see it as some weird competition. Sometimes they are also bored in their own marriage. To deal with their insecurity they play around with the other woman‘s partner to make themselves better, more interesting and potentially make their husband jealous. It‘s a form of insecurity.
It doesn’t necessarily mean she wants to sleep with him, she just wants to be the most desirable woman on the table.
Now, when I observe this, I start giving their husband those signals that they give my husband lol.
Works like a charm.
I've dealt with all of it. His names not on it nor is his money invested
So you aren't letting your child meet his father? Wtf is that?
If you feel bad about something you did or said it's always a good thing to apologize
Ask yourself this question. Would you stay if he choked one of your current children the way he has to you? Because staying is risking this -if not with them, with future children.
If the answer is no – ask yourself why it’s ok then to choke you.
Best of luck in finding the power to leave him.
It's her call, not yours.
But you're right, this guy needs to be fired. He is misusing his office for personal gain, and violating the privacy of the public.
My friend had a bank employee pull this shit with her. Dude was fired immediately when reported. If he is going it to her, he will do it to others.
Cancel that dude. It's clear that he doesn't respect your wishes or you in general. Don't waste anymore time in seeing him.
I'm 27 and have been with zero women yet. A different world. He shouldn't sweat it.
Calling it a boundary is pretty manipulative. Making a friend wait outside in the dead of winter in the middle of the night? That's a toxic level of possessiveness. He said it's literally because she lives in one room. She doesn't have a separate bedroom.
The funny thing for me, and I didn’t know this was a thing, but my dad instead got radicalized by MSNBC when he retired. He’s always been liberal, but now he’s rabid about it. All the things you think about with the retiree radicalized by Fox News and NewsMax, that’s my dad but with liberal stuff. Posting shit on Facebook all the time, the whole deal. I’m cool with it though because I’m pretty liberal too and he’s not psycho about it outside of our house.
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If she wants to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t watch porn, that’s her right.
If you want to be in a relationship where you can watch porn, that’s your right.
Obviously you all should talk about it, but you might just be incompatible in that area. You need to make clear what each other’s boundaries are and then decide if that’s something you can work with. If not, there’s not really anything you can do other than break up.
The post very cleary says she doesnt want to be woth him because of his issues.
Its not abiut the kid% because she never said she changed her mind on kids% just about keeping HIS kid.
Get individual counseling to determine what’s the underlying cause of your perseverative behavior. Sounds like having sex with other men is your primary focus.
You absolutely did the right thing. And never let those friends borrow your car.
You keep trying to dig yourself out of your hole but it just keeps getting deeper ?
You start with that information, because it's more important than this perceived kerfuffle about appearances.
Are you interested in a Long-Distance Relationship?
Counterpoint.
You’re better off getting a scholarship and taking responsibility for yourself.
You’re father is stepping up for a child he had abandoned and who grew up without her father. Good for him.
Keep encouraging your father to come clean. Give him a deadline. Then encourage reconciliation.
You know, I think you're right. We both text very casually with shorthand and gifs and emojis so it certainly would be formal in comparison. We have already been texting today but I don't know how to word it or find a relevant segue. At this point I think I'd like to do it in person so I can see/hear his response in the moment and can read his body language.
He sucks. Mentally a child. His religion destroyed his marriage,
Seriously this! I've been through SO MUCH trauma, and many people have called me “strong” as well because they don't see the panic attacks, depressive episodes and complete breakdowns I go through behind closed doors. Just because people don't advertise their internal issues to all the world doesn't mean they don't exist. Of course Samir wouldn't show that stuff to OP because she'd probably dump him for showing weakness. This is so icky to me.
That’s why men are made to schedule an appointment to go back after the healing period to get their sperm count checked after a vasectomy, but they never actually go. That’s what real doctors who perform vasectomies say. If men actually went to their checkups to make sure everything was healing fine, there would be an almost 0 chance of the vasectomies “randomly reversing”. And it’s not “somewhat often” anyway.
They make life uncomfortable at home so you don’t want to go out. It’s the roadmap of abuse. You can’t change who he is, he sees you as less than. You can decide to online like this or leave. Your call- but it will escalate.
Imagine still thinking the major problem that led to her dumping was you deleting those messages – and not when you literally told her she's difficult to love, you're miserable, you hate this relationship and you don't think it'll work. Not to mention you fully admit you've said things like this before and have threatened to leave her to get her to back down when she's angry – and you also seemed to just expect her to forget you said that and pay it no mind when she woke up from crying herself to sleep. Everybody has a breaking point. She didn't dump you just because you talk to other women and you deleted messages which looked sus she dumped you because you're incredibly emotionally manipulative douchebag who repeatedly treats her like shit and then negs, gaslights, and emotionally manipulates her into ignoring it.
I'm sorry but i can't take this seriously at all. There's no way something like this actually happened irl, right? It sounds like the most basic smut novel plot ever. Next thing you know you and colleague's husband will start running into each other coincidentally at work or whatever, you start getting to know each other and eventually fall in love after overcoming emotional struggles together. In the end both couples will break up, your husband and colleague never find love again while you and colleague's husband get together and online happily ever after. Sheesh.
As far as my wife is concerned I am treating her very well. She brags to her friends and they all wish they had OUR relationship. She will never know & I will never tell so the rest of your paragraph is useless.
thanks, i'll definitely scroll through there. again, i'm not judging. i know people who cheat aren't always bad people or serial cheaters. this is just different from the man I knew very well.
Your wife is spoiled. Get a pet before kids. See how she feels when Fido has to go out at 6am and you’re in the shower.
You decide whether or not you want to be a single parent at 19, is what you do.
Thankyou for this post (lol)
We do the same thing, and it's often strange to contrast with the “it's your job as a functional human, you don't need a cookie or acknowledgement” themes on here.
Yes, everyone should be pulling their weight and bringing their A game so it shouldn't be about marching bands and gold medals for phoning in the absolute minimum effort, but on the flipside where everyone's doing their best I reckon noticing and being appreciative of all the little things is a great exercise in mindfulness and building a shared life and home.
OP's girlfriend is about 15 years too old for any of this to have sunk in, and closing in on 30 most peoples personalities are well and truly set. Sorry, OP.
I'm quite supportive of people adopting traditional men's/women's roles where it works for them but a huge part of that being successful and healthy is acknowledgement of the effort put in by the other partner. If it's unreciprocated… sorry, bye.
She's keeping you from your friends and family. That's not okay at all. She has no right to get mad you play video games after she's asleep. Your hobbies don't have to be what she likes. You're allowed to spend time with your friends.
Has he talked to his doctor about fibromyalgia? Has he been tested for rheumatoid arthritis or Lupus? The pain sensitivity sounds more in line with those types of medical conditions, and the overstimulation from noise can go along with fibromyalgia.
I've had fibromyalgia for years and didn't know what I was feeling wasn't normal. I joked that I was always in some degree of pain to a doctor I had never seen before, and she stopped me and asked more about the pain. She (GP) ordered blood work, referred me to a rheumatologist who ordered more blood work, and… it turns out it was fibromyalgia all along.
I have an extremely sensitive nervous system. When the fibromyalgia flares up, if I barely brush my toes against a naked surface, it feels like a knife is slicing through them. If my cats or dog puts too much weight on my arms or thighs with one of their paws, I feel like I'm being stabbed. There's no actual injury or physical harm, but the pain is real. Loud, repetitive sounds can also overwhelm me sometimes, or just higher-pitched noises (even at low volumes), and sometimes they cause a pain in my head that's not any regular type of headache.
A lot of what you/your boyfriend are describing feels very familiar to me, and I have a health condition I didn't know anything about until last year.
He is getting a hell of a dopamine hit from every time he is able to play the expert with you. Your age difference also gives him a bit of a power dynamic; a sort of fatherly, professorly superiority.
All people, but especially men, have a fundamental need to feel important. Your relationship is dysfunctional for him as it is for you, because the main way he feels important is by effectively having you on the psychiatrist's couch and feeling like he is helping you with his expertise.
That's not a healthy way for a man to feel important and valued in a relationship, and on the flip side it's a downright toxic dynamic for you. You want to be a partner, not a project. You want someone who likes you, rather than seeing you as a house that needs fixing up.
He's using his education as a way of avoiding self reflection in arguments as well- if he can apply Freudian whatever to what you are saying, he doesn't have to reflect on his own behaviour and realise he's being an arsehole. He's in danger of never seeing his own faults or culpability like that.
You are never going to be “fixed” and you have to ask yourself what is there in this relationship for both of you other than his “therapy”? If his helped worked and you somehow got totally over your trauma- would he actually want you?
Poly is not something you just turn on and off again.
Leave him alone and work on yourself.
Poly is not something you just turn on and off again.
Leave him alone and work on yourself.
You own it, sell it and move back near your family!
I'm going to say this and I want you to read carefully.. I have been married to my husband for 10yrs. He's had this laptop for 5yrs. I could not tell you what is on that laptop. I have my own laptop but if his is closer I grab it and go online to do what I need to do and that's it.. I'm his WIFE and I would NEVER EVER do something so disrespectful and I actually have permission, I'm his wife!! We use each other's cellphone depending on which one is closer and I cannot even tell you who he texts, what he texts, whose called him etc.. Trust issues is a thing, I absolutely understand that but it's not a one way street. Just because she has trust issues that does NOT give her the right to go through your personal things without permission. This would be an automatic deal breaker for me. What she's saying is, HER feelings and comfort MUST come first over your own. Then, to question you about things from years ago like what she did was no big deal is an even bigger sign of disgust in my eyes. You do not need to explain your past, everyone has one. Nta