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Date: October 9, 2022
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If you don't feel there is a chase or flirting anymore then add some. Relationships take effort to maintain in every field. Even ones like sex that seem much more naturally moving in the beginning of relationships. Of course it's possible that things have changed for you. But you said it yourself you are still attracted to her, physically and other ways. Be spontaneous and sexy with her, see if it changes her approach as well. Causes her to be more flirty and sauce in her end of things. Explore kinks, roleplay, sext more frequently.
Exactly, it’s not as simply as “she won’t have sex with you? Sit her down and talk to her or leave.” There could be other things going on. He really didn’t go into much detail about what her life is like or how she feels, just that he’s suuuuuper horny.
You already know what you need to do. It’s okay to get a divorce, and that doesn’t mean your daughters’ lives will be ruined. To be blunt, in a situation as bad as the one you’re describing, it’s likely that your daughters already know something is going on. Staying could hurt them just as much as getting a divorce.
Definitely follow through on the therapist, but I would also recommend meeting with a divorce attorney just to discuss possible outcomes if you got divorced. What would happen with custody or finances, etc? The first step will be the hardest, but once you start the process, it will become easier
Stupid. Why would you want the kid to not have a father in their life?
He didn't tell you he watched porn and you kicked him out? WTAF. What is wrong with you? And don't blame pregnancy hormones because I know that's not it. I was pregnant twice back to back and no matter how much pork my partner watched(if he did) I wouldn't kick him out. I'd be happy I don't HAVE to have sex while being nauseous and exhausted. Seriously, what else happened? There's no way you kicked him out ONLY bc you found porn on his phone. Right?
I think being doctors and whatnot, they very likely have a different perspective of what is expensive and what isn't.
You have to just tell him in plain, simple but clear terms that this is unaffordable. Not just now, but for the foreseeable future. If he really understands and wants you to be there, he'll just cover your costs. Not everything in a relationship has to be a matter of paying people back or making sure it's an equal split.
It's not just a fear, it's reality with him. He doesn't want children.
Red flag
This is going to sound different than anything you have heard…ask yourself why you feel threatened by her being friends with an ex. God created one man and one woman for each opposite gender…if you are meant to be with her, her love will stay with you…if not it will not…trust your intuition…ask yourself: Is she the one?
Best way to say it is that your not his mother, and a grown ass man can do his own laundry if he wants to pretend he can have shit on his ass everyday, if he doesn’t start wiping then there will be severe consequences for him in this relationship.
It looks like you should move on bro. There are partners who will gladly share your passions with you.
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I'm sorry. I think he IS a bit traumatized but he also is “settling” for you because you don't cause all that ruckus. It's the weirdest thing but the more ridiculous and childish women act, the more men seem to “love” them. If you're calm and chill they just take you for granted. Couple's therapy could help or My personal suggestion is to ditch men altogether and make a life you like without the bullshit. Best of luck to you
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I did suggest therapy, and perhaps I wasn’t clear enough – I meant a medication intended to treat anxiety and depression long term. A benzo can help with panic attacks but it seems quite possible that this situation needs regular treatment.
If you want to really see what she values, tell her that “You agree to her idea of the plan b. However, as she wants to stay in her home country there's no point moving forward with the visa process, so you've cancelled it. But obviously you'll still be there for her if she decides she wants to be with you.” Then see how she reacts about the thought of the visa being cancelled.
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I could see that it might work for some women, but you don't seem to be one of them. He's probably not going to drop the idea, so you may be incompatible.
At the beginning of our relationship we used to have tickle fights. My now husband is very ticklish so if it got too much he’d just grab my wrists and pin down my hands. It was all fun and games until he did that. Then it was terrifying because I wouldn’t be able to escape that grip at all. We talked about it. We stopped the tickling and he’s never pinned me down like that again.
'Ads blasted all over the internet' — lol! Soul of the hypocrisy. Most guys have no problem, looking at half hot women on the Internet, as long as it's not 'their' woman.
“Forgive me for cheating or I will deprive our children of their mother”? That is stone cold crazy.
“you have to work on it. It's your shit not mine.” Here, that's the problem, that's not how it works, sex takes 2 people and his attitude just makes things worse
Though*
Is it “normal” to be anxious?
Sure.
Is it a warning that you’re rushing yourself? Almost certainly.
A bigger bed would be super helpful and I should seriously look into it.
Idk if it’s the right or wrong thing to do (i don’t have pets myself) but her cats don’t have specific meal times. She leaves dry food out for them to have whenever they want…but my mom feeds her own cats wet food in the morning and early evening. Maybe doing that would help, i have no idea. My mom’s cats also sleep in bed with her the entire night – no jumping up and down. Wish hers were like that…
That what i thought and always told him. But he said that he thinks he needs to be able to find that peace within himself alone to not drag me around and always have that doubt. He says he doesn’t want to be “lukewarm” in a relationship, he wants to know without a doubt. He says he was never in the mindset of having a real gf so he never was able to get into it the way he says he should be
I guess a fuckbuddy is more important to her than a fiance
Even if your wage was TWICE what he makes, he is still being insecure, immature, and downright ridiculous about this. He also sounds like a misogynist too, thinking that you somehow don't work for your money like he does.
Does he think he's 10 years old and splitting allowance money with a rival sibling? Does he know what it means to be a partner to an adult?
What a LOAD OF CRAP
I once lived in a roommate situation in a five bedroom house. My boyfriend and I shared a room and my daughter had a room in the basement level. The roommates were on the top level and we shared the remaining two levels (LR, DR, and Bonus room) We split the rent by bedrooms. We paid 2/5 of the rent. We kind of divided up the kitchen in 4ths. We got a new roommate and she thought it was unfair. She thought that since we were three people and they were three people, we should pay half the rent. We said OK, in that case we get half the cupboards in the kitchen and half the refrigerator space. We also got half the house space. That got shut down quickly. That roommate only lasted three months until we kicked her out.
“It’s just a joke” is never a joke. He probably would rather be banging an 18 year old, but he’s a creepy 43 year old with an unhealthy attitude about woman so that game only goes so far.
And are we even going to talk about the fact that when you WERE 18, he was 31?
Dude showed his true colors, believe him.
Honey, how he responds is an indication of your future. It's better to find out now that he'd rather throw a fit than communicate with you about something like this. You should not be scared to tell your partner that you don't like watching graphic depictions of rape. It's okay to not like those things.
Has he previously had bad reactions to your boundaries?
No one does. You have a lot of growing up to do.
I don't have any advice for you regarding your relationship but I do have some for you personally. I think it is important for you to have a life of your owb outside of your relationship. This is always important for everyone in life. Have your own hobbies, interests and friends and find happyness and fulfilment on your own.
They are never going to get him out on threats alone. They need to get an eviction notice as soon as possible. Go the legal route otherwise he’ll keep mooching of them.
He’s being a baby. If you don’t want to have sex, don’t have sex. What about couples therapy?
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I can't even fathom how someone's mind can go “Yeah, cops are a gang that will harass you en masse for inconveniencing their morally corrupt members simply by shining light at their immorality. This is a group I staunchly support”
You better walk that stage! If they wanna be mad that you decided not to miss on the biggest achievement of your life so far instead of going to his wedding then let them be mad.
If she wanted to go out with you to dinner she would have said 'yes'. Don't press the issue and make it weird.
OP, nothing good has ever come from opening up the marriage in a situation like this. im little suspect of the following statement too
“When I asked her if the desire for the non-conventional relationship is because of him, but she says it's not because she wants to be with another person but because she thinks I'd be happier if I could work more and worry less about her.”
so she wants you to worm more and become even less engaged with her. you know this would come back to haunt you and you have to know this is the opposite of what you need to fix your marriage, something feels disingenuous about your wife's motives.
sir please don't go stupid in this situation.
You did the right thing. Ignore him. Hes not mature.
Agreed, I remember having to take my partner home from a Halloween party after he did a really bad Hall and Oates impression and fell asleep on the table. This is part of being in a relationship when one of you overdoes it.
It really does happen to the best of us, sometimes we don’t eat enough before we go out or miss the warning signs from our bodies and overdo it. If this isn’t a regular occurance, you didn’t hurt anyone, didn’t say anything offensive and didn’t get violent then personally I think he should let this one slide.
As some other people have said, his rigidity is a small red flag so keep an eye out for any further policing/shaming of behaviour he deems ‘embarrassing’.
The general protocol for when one partner goes a little too hot on a holiday is to bring them a lucozade in bed and assure them that ‘it wasn’t that bad’. Not treat them like they’ve punched your mother and say they’ll never be forgiven again.
I don't even know what this is supposed to mean. But the term “person of colour” is pretty self-explanatory. How can you be of colour if you're literally white? Halsey, for example, is not a person of colour even though she's biracial.
Hispanic people can be any race. Being Hispanic makes her a minority, even if she passes as white.
The Jewish thing may not count as anything if she isn't Jewish herself, but it depends on a lot of things.
If she identifies as Latina, who are you to take that away from her? Her interests don't matter. Assuming she grew up with her mom in her life, she was raised with heavily Cuban influences. It's not really your place to take those experiences away from her.
who says you have to accept it…
If he actually asks you your perspective on it then use your words and tell him. If he doesn’t ask, keep it to yourself. It’s that simple.
Someone here is definitely a huge AH. And I'm not talking about OP's wife.
Wait till you can safely move out. And get an std panel done asap.
I had this experience with someone I dated in my mid-20s, and it broke my heart. I was fixated on why we were going break up when we got along pretty fine and nothing was wrong, and in a superficial way, everything I wanted was being fulfilled (mostly through my machinations and sometimes a lot of emotional distress worrying where his head was at). On surface, things were cool and we were having fun, and I expected us to continue to develop intimacy and become the kind of deep relationship I wanted because we had no real conflict and definitely had chemistry.
The reality in retrospect (which was painful to come to terms with at the time) was that he just wasn’t that into me. Despite the chemistry, convenience, overlapping social groups, and equal footing, I was all steam ahead for this guy, and he just wasn’t for me. It hurt to realize he didn’t want to stretch out what he knew wasn’t for him, because my fantasy was over.
It was absolutely for the best and the best thing that ever happened to me. I took a pause from dating and got a dog, lol. I stopped searching for love and was content with the love of a new puppy and not feeling distressed over being single.
Then I met my current partner (my life partner), and here I am 8 years later. And from day one/date one, I’ve never felt I had to convince him to invest more in this relationship. We’ve both been all in. He experiences that daily growing love I never got (or FELT, when I look back at my own feelings) with the previous man I dated, or any number of the others I wanted to want to be with me. It really just took time and taking a step back.
It feels bad now, I’m sure. But there is someone who will enthusiastically in love with you and all-in on developing a life together. It just isn’t this dude.
It sounds like it’s run of the mill straight sex where there’s 2 seconds of kissing, some titty groping, then 3 mins of thrusting, if that, and he cums on or in her and walks off and goes on his phone. Sounds like she wants him to clean up his mess, maybe get her off, and spent some close quarters qt after the deed. He doesn’t wanna do any of that bc it’s just busting a nut to him. I wouldn’t stay in that personally, but that’s up to OP. Fact is, she can’t change him. She spoke up for her needs, many times, and he blows her off. It’s up to her if she wants to stay in that. I’ve only dated one man, and he did the “spa treatment” as he called it, warm rag pussy cleanup on aisle “we both got off, me first via head and him second via PIV” – that was equitable respectable sex. After him, when I realized I was a lesbian, I’ve done spa treatment to every single woman and they love it. Makes you feel pampered and cared for, which is super important especially after hetero sex which is like 10:1 better for the man bc he gets off basically every time and she only gets off if he puts in the tongue/finger effort.