I don’t wanna assume she’s cheating, buuuuut my dark side is v angy about that “ice cream with guy bff” situation…If that were my husband/wife I’d be furious
So she's knowingly going outside of the established boundaries of her marriage without her husband's knowledge when they have a baby together, and basically leading you on potentially forever knowing this will prevent you from trying to see other women because you've put her on a pedestal, but that you're monogamous so it actually just means you'll end up alone. It sounds like she's playing games exceptionally well moreso than actually meeting your needs. Other women may not compare because they're not catering to your insecurities in order to gain control/set up a power dynamic, they're just being themselves.
It's like 55/45 and we split bills accordingly
I don’t wanna assume she’s cheating, buuuuut my dark side is v angy about that “ice cream with guy bff” situation…If that were my husband/wife I’d be furious
So she's knowingly going outside of the established boundaries of her marriage without her husband's knowledge when they have a baby together, and basically leading you on potentially forever knowing this will prevent you from trying to see other women because you've put her on a pedestal, but that you're monogamous so it actually just means you'll end up alone. It sounds like she's playing games exceptionally well moreso than actually meeting your needs. Other women may not compare because they're not catering to your insecurities in order to gain control/set up a power dynamic, they're just being themselves.