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Thank you some genuine advice ill will work on myself
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What made him call you that?
I think you’re right, I didn’t consider how hard it would be to separate the longer we stay together. It already feels messy
IMHO, I don’t know how I’d react if I was in his shoes. However, I learned, when something goes downhill, it’s usually all sides to blame (maybe one side less than other). But somebody have to take first step to reaching consensus.
Nah stick to your guns
Has 50 / 50 chance in not ending well
Well, he does watch it a good bit as far as I can tell. Pornhub is always on his “frequently visited” section on safari
I get that the kid is 19 but… what a child, hopefully he grows up from that stage because unfortunately a lot of ‘em don’t.
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Did I say he wasn't a victim or his feelings weren't valid? Jesus. I only said that she wasn't some conniving villain. Why would a lesbian form a relationship with a man? She may not have realized what her feeling were or may have been experiencing outside pressure. Given it was a 10 year relationship, she probably had actual feelings for OP.
She’s a friend of mine, and I sometimes chat about work, and she puts her input into things.. it drives me up the wall sometimes..
Is anger his go to reaction when you guys have a misunderstanding? Doesn't matter. Just weird that the first thing he'd do is get angry and call off your plans.
Personally, I'd bail.
I know it's been a while, but the last time hubby's ex texted him and I saw them chatting, he showed me everything. From her first message. We still fought (because I saw he cussed her out), but I digress.
Spidey sense is tingling? Believe Spidey.
You are her rebound guy……you don't have the money, social status nor material things that he has…she wants to be back with him and this is a chance for the to go out as a family. She never intended to be serious with you, she just needed a younger guy to help her cope with the fact she got cheated on.
I know that’s how it feels now, and you won’t find anyone else soon. But that’s ok. Your life is going to get better the minute you serve her with divorce papers. She broke her vows, disrespected you as much as a spouse can, and now has no problem acting like everything is ok. Getting someone who operates like that out of your life is always a net positive.
When you’re ready, start casually dating and work on bettering yourself, and you’ll meet someone better no doubt.
Oh hell no, this is a major major dealbreaker. He has proven he cannot be there during the tough times. This would absolutely end it for me. To me this is absolutely unforgivable. You have every right to feel absolutely devastated
But that’s on him and has nothing to do with you
Sounds like he has adult ADHD. Does he have any other symptoms? Besides forgetting details and putting you last, does he have terrible time management skills/time blindness? Is it nearly impossible to get him to do chores? Does he have a complete meltdown when you say anything remotely 'critical' of him?
Is he accident-prone/break stuff/lose stuff? Does he make promises he can't keep? Does he have little piles of his stuff everywhere? Is he terrible with money? Impulsive? Doesn't think about consequences? Selfish? Can hyperfocus on hobbies he loves, but can't pay attention to 'boring' stuff for more than 2 minutes?
Does he go through jobs quickly? Does he continue to do things you've asked him repeatedly not to do? Does he have addictions? Do you feel lonely the majority of the time, even in his presence?
If you answered 'yes' to most of these questions, there's a good chance he has ADHD. Knowing this may better explain the reasoning behind his actions, but it doesn't fix anything. I would still stick to your guns about kicking him out, but maybe give him a heads up that he may want to consider getting tested so he can start getting meds and therapy. He'll need both probably, if he wants to help himself become the best possible version of himself. Good luck!
Is this like accidentally falling on the dick?
Exactly! Avoiding exposure to triggering content is a pretty reasonable boundary imo. I turn off anything with animal abuse in it, even if it’s just for a couple seconds. Too painful to even think about. Cheating seems to have the same effect on him, that boundary should be respected.
Simple, elegant and mature, the best way to handle it