He's basically asking her is she's going to be loose while she's still healing from birthing their baby. He should not be concerned about that at all and is being selfish/inconsiderate.
“Normal” is objective. Your trauma is completely understandable and valid, but so is his desire for physical intimacy with his SO. Neither of you is wrong or bad. It just sounds like you two aren't sexually compatible, though tbh.
Omg that’s exactly right
He's basically asking her is she's going to be loose while she's still healing from birthing their baby. He should not be concerned about that at all and is being selfish/inconsiderate.
You might be ace. Just be upfront with your future partner that you have a low sex drive.
“Normal” is objective. Your trauma is completely understandable and valid, but so is his desire for physical intimacy with his SO. Neither of you is wrong or bad. It just sounds like you two aren't sexually compatible, though tbh.