If he hasn't, he should atleast try to sleep with the baby to se how exhausting it is. You need sleep!
I do think you should look into other solutions too though. Can you get a babysitter or some help so that you can rest?
When my kids were in the same age we put in a cradle and a extra bed in the bedroom so that everyone could sleep in the same room. It made it a bit easier to help my wife.
He left a lot of useful info out of this post. Post partum wrecks the body and mind, and its much worse for some people. Some women don't fully heal for a year, and breast feeding as well as raising a child while your body is so messed up, sex is the absolute last thing you're able to do. The more he pushes instead of sympathizing, he will push her further and further away. If they dont change the way they communicate they will be doomed to a dead bedroom forever, as the resentment will be too much.
as much as you may believe if you talk calmly you may be able to get through to him, but in his narcissistic mind, he didn't do anything wrong, you just experienced the consequences of your actions. This, of course, is not right. But don't waste your time trying to get it across to him. Because even if deep down he knows he was wrong, he's never gonna admit it now. Cut your losses and move on to something more worthwhile.
This is what got me in the end, while I am male and was being treated like dirt by my Ex Girl Friend, I sat there one day and thought to myself, if my 3 years old got treated like this later in life by her boyfriend, I'd throttle him..
There is no abusive. I have never touched him or threatened to take his children away. If our argument is about him not picking up the house or helping me clean he starts recording.
Umm, what happened at the beginning of the relationship?
If he hasn't, he should atleast try to sleep with the baby to se how exhausting it is. You need sleep!
I do think you should look into other solutions too though. Can you get a babysitter or some help so that you can rest?
When my kids were in the same age we put in a cradle and a extra bed in the bedroom so that everyone could sleep in the same room. It made it a bit easier to help my wife.
He left a lot of useful info out of this post. Post partum wrecks the body and mind, and its much worse for some people. Some women don't fully heal for a year, and breast feeding as well as raising a child while your body is so messed up, sex is the absolute last thing you're able to do. The more he pushes instead of sympathizing, he will push her further and further away. If they dont change the way they communicate they will be doomed to a dead bedroom forever, as the resentment will be too much.
You’re in love with someone who you meet live a few weeks ago HOW?
as much as you may believe if you talk calmly you may be able to get through to him, but in his narcissistic mind, he didn't do anything wrong, you just experienced the consequences of your actions. This, of course, is not right. But don't waste your time trying to get it across to him. Because even if deep down he knows he was wrong, he's never gonna admit it now. Cut your losses and move on to something more worthwhile.
This is what got me in the end, while I am male and was being treated like dirt by my Ex Girl Friend, I sat there one day and thought to myself, if my 3 years old got treated like this later in life by her boyfriend, I'd throttle him..
That was enough for me.
How big are you? What do you to to take care of yourself?
There is no abusive. I have never touched him or threatened to take his children away. If our argument is about him not picking up the house or helping me clean he starts recording.