Well, like I said in his mind he probably had a fantasy of how all of this was going to turn out. And then now that he's gotten what he wanted the fantasy is gone. And now he's realizing that having sex with a friend completely changes things.
Let's not be naive here drunk guys have sex all the time. And unless somebody was like dying sick that wouldn't stop them either in most situations. These are nothing but excuses. Because he's just trying to avoid talking to you or dealing with the changes in your relationship.
Probably not abusive love-binging per se, but definitely an inability to talk no for an answer that can evolve into an abusive situation later.
Oh Lord forgive me dear sovereign word police. I apologize for offending thy sensitivities.
I hope i don't burn in enternal hell for it!
She's not that into you mate
Well, like I said in his mind he probably had a fantasy of how all of this was going to turn out. And then now that he's gotten what he wanted the fantasy is gone. And now he's realizing that having sex with a friend completely changes things.
Let's not be naive here drunk guys have sex all the time. And unless somebody was like dying sick that wouldn't stop them either in most situations. These are nothing but excuses. Because he's just trying to avoid talking to you or dealing with the changes in your relationship.