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Michele, 19 y.o.
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Date: November 23, 2022
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Thank you so much for a well written response that isn't just “dump her”. However, reading your comment scared the heck outa me. Haha So, i'll answer individually in numerical order.
She's an extremely jealous person. Any friendly interaction with the poopsite sex is frowned upon and will likely make her feel insecure.
Now, here's the thing. She's 100% always been this way. Easy to jealousu. However, it has gotten worse. That's on me. I went out a couple times for a rub n tug to catch myself some peace and relaxation after some of our bigger fights. I fucked up and broke trust there. So, i know i suck. I'd never cheated before and I felt terrible eventually coming clean and reassuring her that I love her and want to be better in that way for her. So, I've done some damage myself.
That in mind, she does have me on a tracking app now. We both are. Honestly, I think she's been a champ trying to get over that. We don't really hang with my friends much cause they all live at least an hour and a half away. She sees her friends a lot though. But she has been clear from the start how she feels about me talking to other women. I made it clear to her that I wasn't trying to build a life with anyone else yada yada. Basically, she sees even masturbation as cheating. So, it's been hot fighting that battle but honestly, i'm better off without the manual release. Either way, she gets jealous quick. Constantly asking “do you promise you love me?” “You promise you dont hate me?” Type stuff which has been going on from the start.
The abandonment issues come in when I would prefer to do my hobbies and she has none. I am her hobby, so-to-speak. If she isn't doing something with me, she wantches tv and goes to sleep. We've picked her up hobby things for her to do per her request after talking about how important space and hobbies are to a healthy relationship. Her friend even lent her a book on how to deal with anger and trauma as she is quite emotionally immature and recognizes that. She still hasn't touched it for about a month now.
So the answer to this one is yes.
Yes. She does this. I've seen her cut ties with 3 different people and rekindle the relationship because she either feels like she can't be associated with a bad person or because they've called her on her shit and she just…can't look at it from their perspectives. She doesn't often bring up good or bad when referencing people though. However, she absolutely plays the victim whenever she can, even when it comes to people being rude to us in public. Sometimes thhey aren't even rude and she'll start talkin shit to me about em like “that was fucked up right?” Uh…which part? Why was that rude? She judges pretty hot sometimes i guess.
In fights, she'll often refer to other things from past fights. Here's where it gets fuzzy. She genuinely apologizes and says she wants to be better after every single fight but then brings those fights back up as examples of why she was right then and she's right now. I hate it because it gets us off in the weeds and shows she has no respect for the topic of discussion or my feelings. She just wants to fight. She also tends to walk around telling me to drop it and then keeps bitching about it super audibly for me to hear. I can be totally silent for 5 straight minutes and she'd still be wondering why I won't drop it. Lol like wut…
She absolutely does the “you always” “you never” statements which are usually wildly off base. She tells me “why dont you love me anymore” “why do you hate me” and will even tell ME (as if convincing herself) that i got upset over something ridiculous and tell me what amde ME mad when i've already told her several times what upset me and she still refuses to think otherwise. Like, last noght even. She thought i was upset with her cause of some semantic issue with wording a phrase. I was upset because after i literally in the nicest tone possible said, “baby, i just want to communicate with you about what just happened” following a little…pre-fight? We took about 15ish minutes to calm down and when i saod that she immediately started yelling, getting defensive, making it sound ridiculous that i'd even be upset over semantics. Had nothing to do with it. I was trying to converse and she kept telling me to shut up and that i need to stop starting fights. All over trying to communicate like professionals tell us to.
Her tantrums are almost excusively reserved for me, her sister, and her friends. Mostly me. She runs to her friends when we fight. Only them n god knows what vile shit gettin said about me in that circle. But yea, primarily me bit i've seen her snap at her friends too.
Yes x10000000. This is a daily experience for me. I literally have no idea when she'll snap. No idea. Her and I have a great time cuttin up and laughin about stuff but i could say something one day and the same exact thing a week later and get totally different responses. She even says she knows she's super sensitive and that i need to accept that about her even though she wants to try and be stronger. But…to me, it's not that she's being sensitive, it's that she's picking up on a vibe that isn't there and almost always follows it with “not what you say but how you say it” which is dumb because i've tested that with her. I can say something in an intentionally sugary tone when i think a fight is going to break out and it does not work. Nice never works with her but neither does being mean.
Reddit has very little sense of nuance so this idea won’t go over well clearly. All morality is purely black and white here.
Downvote away y’all, it’s still true