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There's no coming back from that you need to just leave him alone and let him deal with it
Your point aligns with my thoughts. If I were to end my marriage, it would not be a direct move, but my intentions would be to end up in a new relationship. I have no doubt about being able to make that happen. I know her heart and her personality extremely well. But you're correct. I'd never put that kind of pressure on a new relationship and I'm emotionally accountable for my own decisions. Sometimes we find ourselves in unhappy situations. When that happens, we have choices. I definitely have a decision to make sometime in the not-too-distant future.
Is she telling you she loves you sometimes? Words mean so much more than little drawings on a screen
shut up and make me a turkey pot pie!
He doesn’t sound like a good boyfriend. A good person, who genuinely cares about you wouldn’t do this.
Oh god. Please girl get safe.
A big hug
He’s accused me of cheating, but I also thinks it’s to make sure I’m ok. It’s the fact me can see everything I do on my phone. I can’t do the same
Stop reposting this
If you'd really like him you wouldn't have lied to him. You would have been honest. And I don't think that there is anything to make him talk to you. Give him space and if he wants to, he'll reach out.
If you'd really like him you wouldn't have lied to him. You would have been honest. And I don't think that there is anything to make him talk to you. Give him space and if he wants to, he'll reach out.
I really understand where you’re coming from. I think you need to have a sit down talk with him and tell him that you’re struggling with sex at the moment, and maybe ask if he would wait until you initiate? Or take a break from sex for a while? Talk things over with him, he sounds like a lovely guy who’ll listen and understand. I would also consider therapy for trauma, I have had it and it really does work, it just takes time.
Be clever, dont buy a house yet. Have some serious talks with her instead of the internet. If you cant talk to her like you do with the internet there are more issues then the lie about the job offer when buying a house.
Can you give us an example of said behavior or a situation where they didn’t like it
How long has she been a single Mom? Maybe she can't afford printed pictures of him or multiple pairs of shoes?
But also you simply could ask to see his picture. I don't think that's weird.
Brick?
You have kids with a guy who you know 2 years. 2 YEARS. That's nothing. I guess you learnt your lesson, think about pregnancy when you truly know a person.
Fuck man i shouldve had tou in the corner like a little devil to tell me shit like this and I would have said where the fuck where you to help me out lol hahah
If he treats it like a joke so should you. Next time he says something come back with an eyeroll and a loud “Everyone listen up! I cheated on ex-bf almost 19 years ago when we were 14!” then turn to him and say “See – now everyone knows and you don't have to keep bringing it up!”
If he doesn't like it he can stop talking about it.
I’ve heard that whoever asks the other person out pays but not the person who chooses the restaurant rule. Then again I think every dinner date I’ve been on we mutually agreed on a place or I just agreed to wherever they wanted to go because I had no ideas.
He needs to go to therapy, by not doing so he’s dumping all of his mental and emotional problems on you. I can only imagine how tired and fed up your are, I’m surprised your still there honestly. But things will just downward spiral if nothing changes. He need private therapy and you guys need couples counseling. If not things will just slowly become worse until things implode and someone leaves. It’s time to play tough love and push him towards getting help instead of dumping it all on you
If he was comfortable doing that once to his friend, then it probably has happened multiple times / happens all the time… I’m sorry, that’s absolutely horrible and I feel for you. Sending hugs.
Not at all dear. If you have boundaries that include drug use, please, please keep them. People don’t do drugs because they’re not fun. They generally do & continue to do drugs because it’s the only way they know how to have fun anymore. Huge red flag, there are lots of cute, sweet, fun guys out there, you will find someone who lives up to your standards I promise!
Edited original post to give a little more context. No specific problems just tired of being an “emotional landfill” per se. However, you’re exactly right about me not giving out much personal detail. I guess I never feel as if I have the same “safe space” I provide for many others.
My roommate throws most things out when they still have a quarter of the product left, he throws out his personal care products and sauces with a solid 1/4 left in them and he’ll throw out the toilet paper roll when there’s still enough on there for 3-5 bathroom trips.
67kg that’s Nothing how is ur weight even a problem
Your dad seems to hate being wrong and he was wrong in his decision and you haven't mentioned an apology from him and he'd be wrong for not manning up (at 78 years!!) and showing the respect that his wife and daughter deserve.
If he's generally in good health it might be worth expressing the last couple sentences of your post to him. If it's something that can cause issues and he isn't in great health it might be worth it to just let it slide and let your relationship he focused on the love you know you both have for one another.
If he's in good health and it was my family I'm not sure what I'd do – my dad isn't like that.. And I have a very hot time imagining the scenario. My mom isn't like this either but im much more comfortable being confrontational.
It's very much an “I told you so” situation and if youre dad is grumpy and hates criticism then I'd find a way to very delicately tell him he's not driving with other people in the car if it results in him or others getting hurt. It's fucking irresponsible and (possibly in his case) very selfish and ego-driven if he throws a fit about it. If it gets to the point you could get aggressive and say “if you want to disown me because of your ego then die without a daughter be my guest but I won't sit here and watch you hurt yourself, me, or my mother… Not because you're too fucking stubborn to be a reasonable man.”…. Or some version of that… Of course if he's not well then that can leave you with a lot of regrets if he perishes before there is resolve…
It's tough.. I hope y'all can figure it out. ?
You've warned her that you were going to pursue legal action, I would follow up on that.
I mean I kind of disagree. I treat my friends who are girls like I would my guy friends, but I think in the cases you are mentioning, people take to a level I would never take it i.e. ALWAYS texting this person 24/7, calling, getting super close, etc., which isnt saying that I dont keep my friends away from me with a 20 ft pole, but I kinda understand what you’re saying. But I do disagree regardless, because I still think you can have close friends of the opposite gender.
That's pretty shambolic if you ask me!
I'm a male (32) and him saying male mind doesn't make much sense. I think what he is trying to say is that things that have happened in the past cannot be changed, and that by continuing to hold on to the pain only causes you more suffering by having you relive that pain in your mind. By accepting what happened for what it is and trying to move forward in your life, you will be able to go forward in life and enjoy the present. That is the theory.
Reality unfortunately, doesn't quite work that way. While for some things, acceptance is something you can do easily, but the things you described cannot be. And I think that is what he is failing to see. What you have been through is highly traumatic. While I can relate to the emotional and physical abuse as I have dealt with that myself, I haven't dealt with sexual abuse (which I would consider worse). It will be very hot for you to explain it to him if he hasn't been through something similar. While he can feel empathy and understanding of your situation, he won't know how devastating it has been for you. Someone else suggested to talk to your therapist about how to talk with him. I think that is a good idea. He still won't completely understand what you went through, but they can show him things he can do to help you and support you when you need it. If there are things that trigger you, tell your therapist and she can also work with him on this. If he cares about you, I believe he would be receptive to this.
He may feel uncomfortable going, but this is my assumption since you said he likes to hold on to things internally. He may also have unresolved issues and going to a therapist, even though it's not for him, might make him uncomfortable at first. I wish you the best and hope this helps clear up things and helps you as well.
Your story could have been vaguely believable until this. Create better dialog in your next creative writing story.
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No matter how old the kid, parents should NEVER involve them in their personal struggles. It was totally wrong of her to ask that of you, but I’m gonna give her a little understanding because she’s probably in a lot of emotional pain. Don’t show her the image you took. Tell her there was nothing there. Then tell her you love her, your heart hurts for her and that you’ll help her in any other way except being asked to betray one of your parents. That is something you would carry for your whole life.
I wasn't talking about OP's situation in particular, this situation is a shit show.
I'm guessing you didn't have that ideal childhood since you're so offended by a stranger on the internet, so my condolences.
I can't see them either. Maybe they are shadow banned
She didn't leave out that she has an awful temper, loses her shit regularly and resents him, putting herself in a victim role as his maid while screaming at him.
She didn't leave out that she has an awful temper, loses her shit regularly and resents him, putting herself in a victim role as his maid while screaming at him.
Either that or she has a boyfriend and he's a side piece
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Your boyfriend too immature for sex. Literally.
If you guys can't have a mature conversation about sex that doesn't involve insults about you and your body, I don't see how this can get better.
What do you mean how do you resolve it?? You think this ends with a quick chat? You protect your kid and leave! Im so confused, OP, why are you staying around this person who is abusive to your child and to you??? Why are you letting this happen?
Understandable.
This!
You say that he is extremely codependent but I see it as extremely dependent. Let him depend on his parents and family. You are not equals in this relationship. He may need some time to work on himself before he is ready to be a full partner (for someone else).
Let the past be the past. Focus on your presents and your future: which is with your wife. The GRASS is not GREENER but you will kill your LAWN if you go searching out these weeds.
Very hot pass
It’s odd to me that his first reaction was to turn it around on you and add to it to make it a specific attack. “I’m glad you don’t have a tight pussy”, which you didn’t say “I’m glad you don’t have a big dick”… This level of immaturity at his age is extremely unbecoming.
It sounds like either he tried to get with her and she didn’t reciprocate or he cheated (either emotionally, physically, or both) and now he is trying to make up for it.
I think you need to sit down with him and have a serious discussion about your feelings, boundaries, and why his sudden change in his mood towards you (and not his “she healed” me reasons). If I were in your shoes, I would probably also ask him if he has romantic feelings towards her. He did allude to thinking about being with her romantically and possibly talking to her about being together if he told you “they couldn’t be together because…”
I also think it’s time you determine what you want in your relationship and friendships. You stopped being friends with men because he felt uncomfortable, however he has, in my opinion, been disrespecting you for years with this coworker (his vocal attraction to her and now his closeness with her). Maybe it’s time you get your social life and friends back and not out of spite, but more to take back what you lost because of him. Also, do you want to be with a man who continuously disrespects you and dismisses your feelings?
Good luck!
Please do this. Take pictures or screenshots/screen records of your conversations with him. Keep a record of everything. And have them saved in multiple places.
If this isn't a bullshit story, keep ALL those receipts, sis. You will need them. Protect yourself.
6 months old when my babies moved to their own beds. Occasionally they'll sleep with me if sick, oldest most recently did that when he was sick at about 8yo. Moving them to their own bed/room was my choice though and what I felt was best for me and them at the time. It is definitely harder to “fix” cosleeping the older the child gets but sounds like your gf isnt even doing that, just letting her babe fall asleep with her and then moving her. It's also very common to have a family bed in many cultures, it's mostly white/western people that take issue with it.
Just leave it be, if you push this issue you're likely to lose them both.
The next time he does it, he’s going to pull the damn trigger and you’ll be dead. For what? A man who treats you like shit? A man who mentally and verbally abuses you? A man who points at shotgun at someone’s HEAD? Call the police and leave before he seriously murders you. It’s not a matter of if now, it’s a matter of when will he kill you. Will he wait until you’re asleep? Or will he do it while you’re conscious?
But that's not healthy. YOU are a Person, not a cure for his past relationship. There was no need to drag you into this and analyze you, when he's trying to process his past. The comparison is what makes this whole thing so gross.
She said he was a 10/10 but then called you a pedophile for saying he wasn't your type as she's dating someone who's not only 5 years older but also started dating her freshly as an adult. Lemme guess they met before she was 18 lmfao. She's totally projecting bro.
I’ve definitely done that, needed an excuse to dip out of a friendship so you say some off the wall shit(mine was true though, she hates her kid. What kind of broke ass SAHM dumps their kid at daycare on someone else’s dime so she can “write”?)
His explanation in no way has convinced me he is NOT a psychopath and I don't think any of us should be giving him advice on how to keep this woman.
I mean. I rolled my eyes. No fucking way would I be spoken to this way all the time. Over a nap of all bullshit.
The kids will pick up on the way he talks to her and learn from it far more than a deserved eye roll.
The amount of pregnancy hormone at a given gestational age can vary between pregnancy. There is no way of knowing for sure unless you do a DNA test
Therapy doesn’t fix pedophiles
would u?
You GF is too insecure & immature to be in a relationship.
Your past is your past, and there is not a damn thing you can do to change it (unless you have managed to invent a time machine, in which case, can I borrow it?).
What does she want from you? What does she hope to achieve by carrying on the way that she is? It's like getting angry at you because the sky is blue but she wants you to change it to green shimmer…
And for only 4 months? Who has the time or energy for this much drama after 4 months? Seriously?
I have a decent job and he’s not too poor he just is in my mums eyes. He’s also just started on night shifts to earn more money too and we have a little apartment together so things aren’t awful and I will get maternity leave. It’s more my mum doesn’t like that he isn’t a doctor or someone with a “nice family” because my boyfriend’s dad is in prison and he grew up very poor and is from a bad area but he’s doing alright now. I just am worried about how my mums affecting our relationship, I’m past the point of wishing she’d accept him now because I know that’s not going to happen. My boyfriend had been cheated on in the past and she got pregnant by another man and he thought the baby was his until he found out so he already has trust issues that my mother is playing into. He was already paranoid about this pregnancy and would often ask for reassurance from me but now he’s stopped asking which makes me worried he thinks I’m cheating. I don’t know it’s all so difficult.
So you've broken up because you decided one thing on the internet means she's 'aging' and now you want to woo her back with marriage? Ew.
This reminds me of the guy who’s gf had a “brother “ who was actually just an old friend who she insisted had to on-line with them. The “brother “ was incredibly manipulative and the OPs girlfriend was blind to it.
But I respect him, and feel it should be his call if he wants to continue seeing me after knowing my past.
So you think you should tell him. Your question is more accurately, how do I tell him to give yourself the best odds of him not breaking up with you?
My answer is, I'm not sure.
I’m so sorry. Sometimes when people are grieving or stressed out they just lose the capacity to accommodate others’ feelings on top of their own, doesn’t mean it’s the right thing to do. You’re both young and she’s probably overwhelmed. However, after 5 years it’s right to feel that she owes you a little more than that.
If you’re comfortable with it I might just text her and say something like “I’m sorry about what you’re going through, I want to be here for you however I can and if that means giving you space for now I can definitely do so. However I would appreciate if we could talk a little more in depth about our relationship when you’re in a better headspace.”
I would try and keep it light for now and do your best to give her space while just checking in periodically. She may be reacting to what she’s currently going through and come to regret her abruptness with you, but it’s really very hot to say. Because also to have been together for five years when you’re only 18 and 19 means you’ve been together through some MAJOR life changes. Like, entire personality, turning into a person changes. It’s natural for the relationship to change or grow apart, as much as it absolutely sucks.
I’m 26 & a migraine sufferer as well. How did he get the idea that your age or weight has anything to do with migraines?? Him trying to shame you for your age and weight is not okay!! You’re much better off with some who isn’t so inconsiderate and mean.
I know you don't have kids but for me it was: I don't get to clock out at the end of a day. Why do you? Is that fair?
No. It's not.
No one in a house hold should get to relax before everything that needs to be done is done. Period.
My husband and I have this rule and I don't even OFFICIALLY work. I'm a stay at home mom. But we've delegated nightly tasks. You clean up after dinner? I'll bath the kids and get them ready for bed and make sure their teeth are clean. You're cooking? I'll entertain the kids.
At first the balance was very hot to find. But neither of us are on vacation during the day and both of us are tired. Take care of your responsibilities.
His house is his responsibility. He needs to take care of it! Just as much as you. Sit down and come up with a task/chore list that you can alternate. He needs to do his part.
Absolutely step dad
The thing is that, like I said, I already told him that I'm not interested and that I'm taken. Granted I didn't straight up specify that I'm straight but I don't see how it'd be different even if I wasn't straight. Like if somebody tells you that they're not interested you're supposed to back off regardless of their sexuality. I acknowledge this is partly my fault but that's not an excuse for being creepy and annoying. Also I casually flirt with a lot of people, that doesn't mean they're entitled to anything.
I don't think that it was stalking, def a bit of a weird thing to do but I don't feel like she was being insecure or overly anxious without cause. He lied to her face twice so she was curious to confirm if he was lying or not. He could have easily said, yeah but I'm meeting XYZ not “gotta work” or “super sick.”
No I’ve heard of it before but you message or call when it feels natural to. If it feels natural after an hour, you do it after an hour… if someone has a problem with that, then that’s on them.
If she likes you, she likes you. Texting her too early won't change that. Too much, maybe.
While money is an important factor to consider, long term, I'd say that there are other things to consider.
Does he treat you well? Do you spend a lot of time talking together? How do you deal with arguments?
I'd say that the money concerns are valid, but it sounds like he's doing his best. If that isn't enough for you, then you may have to move on. Just know that you may be throwing something away before it has a chance to get better (you're both very young still).
“Sorry, it seems you absorbed my dick size into your personality.” And then break up with her.
And if she starts spreading rumors about your dick, you start saying she could only get off if she was wearing your late grandmothers nightgown while total eclipse of the heart played on repeat in the background.
Only do this if you are petty.
You don’t, you don’t address it.
Also, you can probably see your breasts (which I’m assuming you mean: outline of areola) through your tank tops too.
you didnt care then because you had just started dating and wasnt so attached. now youve been together 8 entire years, and youre emotionally very intertwined so it makes sense that only now it hurts. its called retroactive jealousy. your feelings make sense, and youre allowed to have those feelings, but its also good that you remember she didnt do anything wrong. both those things can be true at once – you dont have to invalidate one of them to validate the other. id just give it some time, work through those feelings with her, and make sure you reiterate to both her and you that you know she didnt do anything.
right. i guess it is because they just settle. they do not respect themselves to think they deserve a better man. a man that knows how to properly clean himself. ??
Tell your mum. It really doesn’t matter how. She loves you. She’s worried about you. And she will be there for you. You have done nothing wrong, and have nothing to be embarrassed about.
If your mum is as you say she is, the second you tell her, you will feel less alone and less vulnerable, because she will be there and she will help protect you in recovering from your assault.
Just show her your phone with this post. Or write it on a piece of paper if you can’t say the words out Loud. You also don’t have to tell her all the details I’m one go if you can’t. Just start with ‘piece of shit “friend” assaulted me’ and I’m having a very very hot time talking about it.
Good luck. You’ll get there with support but ir sucks to feel the way you do now. I wish you all the best.
But we are still dating? Wouldn’t that then mean we need to break up? She says we are “good” even though I know we aren’t…??
Do not marry this person!
It’s over. Kick her to curb and find someone that’s better for you. You are only this girl’s Plan B now and you deserve better.
It would be 0% for me.
Maybe the mom choose not to send her child to that school? Idk
Private schools are great, but so are public schools & independent schools that are ranked comparatively to their private school counterparts. And the best part? It’s not privilege but rather merit (mostly) that’s responsible for getting those schools. And as a bonus, you’re more likely to be around others with similar socioeconomic backgrounds.
Heck, my dog broke his collar and ran into the street. My worst nightmare come true. He is safe and that has not happened again but if it does, it's okay. Mistakes happen and I do my best to make sure not to repeat one like that but my husband consoled me. I was straight up ugly crying over this and shaking.
OP, your husband is abusive, I'm not sorry to say it so bluntly. You should run from him.
Break up and move on.
At this stage in your life, why makes things so complicated?
Test yourself, give your Dad the results (if it's positive) and tell him he never gets to speak to you ever again.
My POS Mother said my Dad wasn't my real Dad (which is a lie she admitted too) and you know what he said? It doesn't matter either way.
Your Dad is taking the divorce out on you guys, that man never gets to be a parent again because either way, you are his kids.
Then u are literal garbage and i hope she leaves on u with a real man.
So. many. red. flags. Surely you know you can do better than this?