Thanks all for the advice thus far. For those saying that I need to take accountability for my own actions (which is completely valid) I should’ve provided more context in my original post that I understand that and have started to take ownership within the past several months of my role in my own addiction and seek support to handle it individually ( I’ve been participating in multiple therapies to address my smoking) but still find it difficult to practically avoid smoking when it’s happening around me in my own home. I find the smell and being around him while high triggering at this stage in my sobriety probably because it was our shared activity.
If she doesn't respect you, how will he?
Happy I could help.
Thanks all for the advice thus far. For those saying that I need to take accountability for my own actions (which is completely valid) I should’ve provided more context in my original post that I understand that and have started to take ownership within the past several months of my role in my own addiction and seek support to handle it individually ( I’ve been participating in multiple therapies to address my smoking) but still find it difficult to practically avoid smoking when it’s happening around me in my own home. I find the smell and being around him while high triggering at this stage in my sobriety probably because it was our shared activity.