Where exactly are you getting that? His post clearly says this was something they both wanted to do. They picked the guy together and brought him home. The girlfriend checked in with before to make sure he was okay with it – he said yes! Then they both tried to involve him.
He’s definitely allowed realize that it wasn’t for him but nothing in the post supports the way you’re making her out.
Look it sounds like you are not convinced that you should go out with either and that is fair.
You also don't have to stop (or keep) talking to anyone. Just say “look, right now I am keen to work on myself, so I don't want a relationship. I am happy to be friends and I am sorryI lead you on, I was just a bit confused at the time.
She’s controlling and sounds like a narcissist. IMO- dealbreaker and I’d be out of there .
Where exactly are you getting that? His post clearly says this was something they both wanted to do. They picked the guy together and brought him home. The girlfriend checked in with before to make sure he was okay with it – he said yes! Then they both tried to involve him.
He’s definitely allowed realize that it wasn’t for him but nothing in the post supports the way you’re making her out.
Ohh. Oh sis. I’m so sorry. That’s a huge thing to give up just because he didn’t like it.
Look it sounds like you are not convinced that you should go out with either and that is fair.
You also don't have to stop (or keep) talking to anyone. Just say “look, right now I am keen to work on myself, so I don't want a relationship. I am happy to be friends and I am sorryI lead you on, I was just a bit confused at the time.