From the wording he used, and the fact that he got a test a few years later to confirm if he was sterile, I think he is saying his vas deferens is a prosthetic not his testicles.
You get over it just by living your life. Life is a series of hot lessons. When I look at it from the outside, this situation did seem rather doomed. Try to learn from it, and let go.
He is ungrateful, unsupportive, and apparently likes power plays. If you stay with him you will always be doing the majority of the work. It sounds lonely, frustrating & exhausting.
Besides the alcoholism I suspect he may have been a victim of SA himself. From personal experience I refused to accept it happened to me and blocked it out until the panic attacks and anxiety reached a point that I had no choice but to face it and get therapy for it. Unresolved trauma can lead to drinking and alcoholism.
From the wording he used, and the fact that he got a test a few years later to confirm if he was sterile, I think he is saying his vas deferens is a prosthetic not his testicles.
You get over it just by living your life. Life is a series of hot lessons. When I look at it from the outside, this situation did seem rather doomed. Try to learn from it, and let go.
The grandparent didn’t do it just because she felt like it without parental regard. The mother of the children approved.
Appreciate the feedback 🙂
He is ungrateful, unsupportive, and apparently likes power plays. If you stay with him you will always be doing the majority of the work. It sounds lonely, frustrating & exhausting.
Besides the alcoholism I suspect he may have been a victim of SA himself. From personal experience I refused to accept it happened to me and blocked it out until the panic attacks and anxiety reached a point that I had no choice but to face it and get therapy for it. Unresolved trauma can lead to drinking and alcoholism.
How do you know he will never hurt you? He's already smashing expensive stuff and actually throwing stuff in your general vicinity & making you flinch