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Date: October 18, 2022
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Some peoples rooms are disgusting (see: selfies) or maybe they did it on the backpack. Some people’s kids.
It sounds like you were raped, I'm very sorry OP. I'm not sure if you plan to take it to the authorities or if you just want to move on with your life, it's your decision.
It's up to you if you want to talk to him about it or not. Perhaps don't write him a final letter. It's a tough situation, so I'd say just follow your intuition on this one.
It’s definitely very strange and abnormal
Wishing you peace ✌️
It’s getting harder than I thought because everything that I ask for, she does try to fit in my needs. She won’t do anything about my parents, family or friends but myself needs she really show me what I wants… But still not as much as I want. She’s hurting me but at the same time loving me and I don’t know if it’s her fault because I did a lot of mistakes if we can call them mistakes but I never did search for love anywhere else so I know that I want her but she isn’t showing me this « energy » this one and only energy for loyal love… She tried to find love somewhere else but never went that far but she did try, so I don’t know if she’s really into me or not… Even when I try to talk to her about it, she keeps on blaming me… I’m really lost man
But, for some reason, he skipped his small snack yesterday.
He chose to skip, so his problem.
I could feel the hangry clock ticking and I needed a solution quick.
What? No, his problem. A normal adult can handle being a little hungry without turning into an abusive asshole. If he can't, be that through lack of emotional strength or a medical condition, it is HIS responsibility to make sure he has foodstuffs on him at all times to mitigate that. You have literally just said “a situation out of my control was taking place so I needed to act quickly so he didn't abuse me”. I hope this is hyperbole because otherwise why the fuck are you with this man?
He looks fine with it,
So he is fine with it. Because he's an adult, so if he isn't fine with it, he has the ability to open his mouth and verbalise “sorry honey, I skipped my snack so I don't think I can wait that long. Can we find a drive through or fast food or something? Apologies for not being able to make it through the sit down meal I know you wanted” and then you would have both left. But he didn't, so yes, he was fine.
my boyfriend is in complete distress by his hangriness. He can't bring himself to even say a word. He apologizes in advance for potentially being rude,
So he literally can speak because he apologises. So this isn't a medical condition. And he agreed with trying the other restaurant. And he knows he's grumpy and rather than fucking work on that, he's just warning you in advance that he might abuse you and that makes it OK. Wtf.
Did we order yet?? ???” We haven't ordered yet, of course. And now I'm feeling like taking him to the bathroom was a bad decision because otherwise I would have been able to order and fix this man's hunger even sooner.
What the fuck is wrong with both of you. You're talking like he's some sort of inanimate bomb; totally unable to act or take responsibility for himself but also might explode and kill all bystanders at a moment's notice. Are you genuinely trying to say you are responsible for whether or not he urinates? And you alone? Never mind feeding him. What. The. Shit.
When our waiter left the table, my boyfriend asked me rather snarkily, “Did you forget I wasn't eating cheese?”
So he sat there all through the order and only said after you had placed it.
I'm going to skip the rest of this because it's irrelevant back and forth and say this:
You need to dump him and then you need to stay single while you get serious therapy for your codependent tendencies. Because this whole being responsible for him every whim and catering to his every need and the fact you both cooperate with that is fucking out there. Organising a date doesn't mean your partner is rendered dumb and deaf for the entire experience, and him knowing he gets grumpy when he's hungry doesn't give him free reign to lash out or put the responsibility for ensuring he never gets hungry onto other people, even if they are his romantic partner. You're both broken, in that he's abusive and you have some incredibly unhealthy relationship beliefs that make you very vulnerable to that abuse.
Drop him. Seek therapy ASAP.
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Well, maybe they don't but now she's gonna go see him again, without you, and go jump on his d.
The age gap shows she is a creep. Why aint she dating men from her age? Give her an ultimatum of paternity test. Dont sign on any birth papers till then. Or if you can get her ex husband contact and talk to him about their intimacy in recent times.
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Perhaps, but OP caving in and going to their family's church service would spoil OP's Christmas experience. At some point they have to prioritize their own well-being and stop putting the family's religious agenda first.
Noooo. Nope. Here’s the thing – a grown adult that loves a person isn’t going to need someone to explain to them that judging their SO for their choices on reproductive health issues & weight isn’t love. Unless it’s your own vagina, you don’t get to have an opinion on what to do with it. The end.
Sounds like he's been putting space there for a while and is too much of a coward to say the words.
Turning maps off implies he's with someone else or trying to be.
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Yes, while that might be perfectly fine for some couples, I know for a lot of people – myself included – this feels like it’s at minimum hinging on desperate need for multiple sources of validation she’s hot or whatever and at maximum leaving him an in. You can shut that down quickly and clearly…if he won’t listen he’s not still her friend and if she won’t do it, well…
And if you make an incorrect assumption about why someone said something and bring up their insecurities over it, you’re the asshole.
Neither of our units have own space. Both are tiny.
I understand you are unhappy to be forced to damage relation with a friend, but in the same time, it's not just your gf that would be a bit uncomfortable with your behaviour. She has accepted your explanation and believed you haven't cheated on her. That is good, however her request for you put distance between you and your friends is reasonable.
She has reason to believe you become increasingly emotionally invested in her while also becoming physically “familiar” with each other. Physical bonding is something that is meant to be reserved for your partner. You can still talk to her and all, so it's not like you can't be friends.
To make it easier to understand you aren't just supposed to not cheat on your partner, but also act you aren't cheating on them. Do not do things that would put it into question. Your friend might need some who will support her emotional and bond with her also on physical level. However this what partners do for each other and you already have one.
Girl I know two years sounds like a long time, the memories, the intimacy of knowing a person deeply, but it’s really not that long. You can meet someone else and you have a long life ahead of you. You can make new friends or reach out to the old ones. It will take 6 months to a year to move in fully, but be glad you got it over with now instead of in your 30s or with kids.
Well the stalking part isn’t so strange, but the sexual assault part is very questionable indeed. Usually offenders have some sort of past.
I would get curious at this point.
You could ask friends or ex girlfriends of him? Some police history? If you find some additional facts too then it’s very clear how to act.
Stop buying into stereotypes.
Who said I’m not listening? I am hearing repeatedly that I’m a POS cheater. What am I supposed to do with that information? Bring my kids back into an emotionally toxic situation? End my happiness? Nah. I’ll let the haters have their miserable lives settling for financial support and half assed spouses. I am taking things slow with the bandmate. I took things very very slow in leaving my marriage. What I need is to speed things up and cut that guilt out. Thank you all for your help!
You are incredibly immature and insecure
This…. Is fair
“It doesn’t bother me at all, but—“
I stopped reading and glazed through the paragraphs following that sentiment. The fact that you wrote paragraphs after it means it does bother you. Like someone else here said, the only body count that matters is if they’re a serial killer.
Just manage your expectations. Once it's more trouble than it's worth, I'm sure he'll understand.
Question – have you ever gone on a fishing trip the two of you planned?
I can understand but wanting to have you join guy time, it might not even be about you. They may have a girl in the group that always wants to come, they may use the time to talk about really personal things. Or they may just be sexist idiots.
However, if your bf knows you like fishing and won't even go just the two of you on your own trip then he has a problem with women doing “guy stuff” and he doesn't sound that great.
Kick this man out.
If you aren't ready for that, then at least set down some rules for yourself, starting with, there are no “wife things” that ANYONE is “required” to do.
If he wants a partner who will function like an old school wife, well then he should be an old school husband and financially support you. Oh he doesn't want to do that? Of course he doesn't, but then why would you cook and clean for him?
Please, set some boundaries:
ALL bills need to be split 50/50, if he won't pay them directly, then he needs to give you X at the beginning of each month for internet, electric, and groceries. He has to do 50% of the chores, end of story. If he won't do the dishes, then don't cook for him
You deserve better than he is treating you, not just on Valentine's Day, but every day. So start by being honest and calm with him that he needs to step up and be an equal partner, and no, you are not required to do “wife things” for any man, especially one that isn't pulling his “husband things.”
Did you plan anything for your anniversary? At any point did you tell her that you expected her home to celebrate with you rather than going out with another man.
Her behavior is wrong but you’re so passive and are not setting boundaries or saying what you want. She might have more respect for you if you advocate for what you want and set expectations.
And she’s given him a multitude of reasons for why she won’t do that. His feelings are valid but so are hers and she’s the one actually making the babies so…
Exactly. It's not like we can choose who gets pregnant and who gives birth but a lot of people still ride on mothers being the main parent. Whoever is present is a parent
He told me they got into a fight over his sibling coming out, his family is very conservative or so he told me and his sibling lives abroad now so he has a hot time staying in touch. He said one day I might meet the sibling but not the rest of his family
Agreed with the first paragraph, but…
That last part sounds just cruel – give her the requested hug but make sure she knows you're only doing it because she demanded so and not because you're ready to signal the end of the conflict? I don't think it's the way.
My husband had that issue (he noticed it when he breathed) and fixed it by rinsing more and scraping deeper. He thinks it was tonsil stones.
He's asking you to be toxic.
If you stay (I wouldn’t), I would find out if any of her friends knew about this and cut them out completely.
I would ask her if they used condoms (yet another level of betrayal)
Ask why she hasn’t blocked him, if she truly feels so bad
Did she love him?
What would she have done if she’d have gotten pregnant? Probably would have very quickly flown to you and fucked like crazy to make you think the baby was yours.
Above all: Do not get her pregnant. That would be a hugely unnecessary complication for you to divorce. Be wary of hyper sexual activity in an attempt for her to get pregnant. In fact, I wouldn’t have sex with her at all until you decide what you are going to do.
Should have checked the time stamp
Yeah, you have no idea how many partners I've made feel safe and heard and comfortable. I've only ever been called a creep by neckbeards like you on reddit.
You can tell yourself I'm a creep all you want, if that helps you forget how toxic and misaligned your own views are. Go touch grass.
No it hasn’t changed, we believe in different religious sects and i just don’t want to bring that stress to his life
Date someone your own age.
Tell him he has a magic peen that makes all the girls scream
i don’t know what i want at this point. But my relationship with him was so good. and it’s like i can’t let go of that, not yet anyway. it’s so much easier said than done to just walk away
He is using you to remain close with your mother. You need to confront him.
Ladies, please do not procreate with this looser.
Yeah I guess I fell for her feigning accountability but it looks like she's suffocating under that mask. I appreciate your perspective.
You snooped in her phone and she stalked your ex…. You’re both terrible people to be in a relationship- you deserve each other.
She should be insisting on her employer giving her what she's owed immediately.