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Eww.
You need to be bold enough with the person you love and put this guy out of the equation. It’s called shooting your shot. Being ‘selfless’ in this situation just puts you in misery and serves no purpose as it shows them that they aren’t incredibly important to you enough to make you move mountains for them. If it doesn’t work out then that’s ok still be her friend but show her she is worth it
Normally I think it’s messed up to ask for a paternity test but if I was him I would ask for one too. Cuddling someone in a towel? Really? You couldn’t wait for him to put on clothes? If you really care about your child having a father who wants to be around you I would work on your behavior and do the paternity test.
So I'm all for whatever you do with your friends as long as you respect boundaries. But I can also relate to a man coming home to find his woman cuddling with a man in a towel, around the time of conception, and wondering about paternity.
Read what you said out loud, but pretend you are him.
sorry half of the post did not pose
Maybe you are overwhelmed by evryday life. Having to be dependent on someone else and them depending on you. And it might be overwhelming because sometimes it is. But( it might sound deferent to what other people say),we need others,we don't like admitting it but it's true,and as we get older we are going to need them more,we are not going to be helthy and comfortable forever. You are lucky enough to have a comfortable life so far,with an understanding patient partner. That might not be the case forever. If you find someone who can tolerate you and you can tolerate them hang in there. Because one day you might need someone to take care of you and Noone might be there. Of course dating and vacation is fun but the rest of our lives are boring. Life is a series of random events until we die. You don't have to hold someone's hand all day every day but sometimes we all need it. So maybe work on your boundaries guys,maybe you don't have to eat together all the time, maybe you don't have to talk somedays that much,maybe you need separate bedrooms for some days of the week. There is no one way to on-line your lives.
I mean, it's fucking 3 days man….it's not neglecting…the sub is very intense.
I think you know your marriage ended when he brought up having a threesome.
You should be asking yourself questions right now. Will you ever be able to trust him again? Will you feel the same way, knowing that he wants to sleep with someone other than you? Is this man making you feel safe? Secure? Do you feel heard when you speak to him? Does he treat you like his equal? Do you think he's cares for you the way you care for him?
Do NOT let this man manipulate you into believing you're at fault for any of this. He believes you're stupid enough to guilt and gaslight into doing whatever he wants. His marriage is failing, so he thinks adding another person to the mix will fix things, and all of this is now your fault somehow?? Yeah fucking right.
i don't think it's anything too serious. some lesbian porn is more “woman friendly”. it's honestly kinda hard watching some gorgeous chick going down on another. more of the mentality that a woman knows what another woman likes. but if it does bother you, communication is always key…
I have a question, how does she even know about the complaints of your parents?
These issues seem to be very minor so I am wondering how they were delivered.
Did you tell her about that?
Or did your parents complain to her about it? Did they yell at her or talk with her in a patronizing voice?
There is a unclear dynamic here that will determine whether your gf or family has issues.
I agree if the underlying problem would be lying / fronting. If that could be avoided, then there is a potential to wait. Idk about Zoom from a personal perspective, it just doesn’t sit right with me. I’d be more inclined to agree under a longer time span, but there’s only 2-3 weeks delay.
I guess OP needs to follow his gut, it seems like something he’s pondered for a while and needs to get off his chest
She’s preparing an exit.
Seriously, I haven’t even seen any comments about if he paid for the vehicle outright or if he’s making monthly payments. I’d I bought someone a brand new car and had a loan on it I’d be the one paying the insurance, not them.
So give me one valid reason for not wanting to write one simple letter. If such a small thing is too much effort for your SO you have to rethink your relationship.
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And all of that within mere 12 MONTH long relationship! How tf is even beyond me…
And all of that within mere 12 MONTH long relationship! How tf is even beyond me…
As a last ditch baby myself don’t do it dude. If she’s this toxic it will get worse with a baby and that child will grow up thinking that the way you two act is how a marriage should be. Get out now that you can.
You are allowed to have your feelings and you've expressed them to him. I also wouldn't call this game “a bit sexual”. It was sexual, period.
All you can do is talk about it and both express yourselves and come to expectations regarding boundaries. I think a lot of partners wouldn't be happy with the circumstances you describe.
Frankly, I dont blame her for asking. With the same frankness, I think you need to ask yourself if this is something about her or something about you.
You lied to your girlfriend by omission when you choose not to tell her everything.
And you said you did modern grinding dancing, and then immediately said you didn't touch her inappropriately. I don't understand how both can be true at the same time, though.
Her friends didn't make it worse. Your lie made it worse.
Are you OK with this or do you want her to move in with you sooner?
I recommend the brand 'Get A New Boyfriend'
If you ask for the bare minimum, it'd be no contact with the affair partner (AP) and a timeline of the affair. If she isn't remorseful, just regretful that she's been caught, then I wouldn't bother attempting reconciliation.
I realize your relationship wasn't perfect and that you weren't the best spouse. That doesn't excuse her affair or justify it. Stop blaming yourself, your wife's an adult, she must have made a number of choices leading up to it, and after, and that was all her. Feel free to take ownership of whatever faults you want, but leave the affair to her.
Ok, well, that has nothing to do with this post and the above reply. I don't think it's fair to expect people to track down all the posts from one person to comment on one of them.
Fair enough
I can tell you from recent personal experience that if you break up, even if it’s not that bad of a breakup, you do not want to be living with your ex for a long period of time. It’s AWFUL. The things you love about them fade quick and the annoying things you put up with out of love start driving you insane. And then when one of you starts dating again, or bringing hookups home? Neither of you will handle it as well as you may hope.
To me my wife knowing my exact location is a bit much.
A hammock.
What are you trying to save, how are you going to save the woman, ready to run to bed?
you know they're having an affair and you're watching, the number of texts and phone calls prove it
passwords changed,
you saved the messages and went to your wife, you should have gone to the lawyer
You should inform the social circle about they relationships, your lawyer can write to the man's workplace.
And you know your wife doesn't take you seriously
I hope you know it’s not judgement, it’s concern. I also grew up in a very very poor place in very rural TN, and I have seen so many of my friends lives get stuck in place because they had children sooo young. My middle school best friend is still living in that town working at McDonald’s. Abortion is always someone’s personal decision, I’m 25 now and if I wound up miraculously pregnant I would want an abortion, but I understand why someone would not be able to go through that painful decision. As for your boyfriend, just like there’s nothing he could do to make you abort or adopt, there’s nothing you can do to change anyone else’s reaction to the situation. Even though he’s panicking at the thought right now, there’s no telling what will happen and how he will feel after a whole nine month pregnancy. All you can do is get a test ASAP. I know you said you’re having symptoms, but it’s impossible to tell if its side effects from your birth control, hormonal changes bc of a stomach bug, ect. Just make sure to tell yourself that you’re going to be okay 🙂
Dude, just be honest with your GF and tell her exactly what is going on. Either she believes you or she doesn't. Either way, you will learn how much she trusts you and values your relationship. Or doesn't. She's 19, so it's gonna be a toss up.
Never operate in a relationship from a position of fear. There be dragons, friend.
So much bad stuff happening:
Most companies have policies against superiors sleeping with people under them.
You’re 18 and drinking on “business trips” which is illegal depending on where you are.
I appreciate this comment very much, it made me laugh quite a bit. Because we have the same stand on this comment.
That doesn't make any sense, he can be tempted anywhere, get prostitutes anywhere, drink etc. Tbh it's pretty insulting to think the only reason to want to visit someone's country is to cheat and sleep around. Yes people do this but your boyfriend has no history of cheating or acting suspicious and simply going somewhere isn't suddenly going to make him cheat.
I left him 6 years ago. He is still trying to stream and his audience is still very small. He made less than $300 a month. His Twitch stream was always a higher priority than I was. I was once in hospital for a few days and he would leave me there alone to go stream. We wouldn't visit my home country because he couldn't go more than 5 days without streaming. I was always a low priority.
I'm not saying your partner will be the same way but this is why I suggest setting up extremely firm boundaries.
There are so many other nicknames out there why would he call you a butthead. You said that you don't know what Butthead means calling somebody a nickname that they do not like is a butthead move. I would not answer him when he calls me by that name. Every time he called me a butthead and expected an answer I would ask him what do you want fuckboy.
Seriously. She needs to stop calling and move on. OP is giving off vibes like she wants to apologize, but the friend really should be apologizing.
Stop calling. Stop texting. Start doing your own ignoring.
Lol if you could have avoid this situation then he has made conscious choice to cheat on you. He has the audacity to still complain about it to you.
You have done very well handling that guy. You have gone as far as changing jobs. While it was the right choice of course, your boyfriends does not deserve your devotion to him.
Wow so vicious. It doesnt matter whether its a day before, after or a hundred days later, your children will feel awful that their parents are getting divorce.
Its how you both plan to break the news to them is what counts.
Umm.. he got another guy two suck his dick .. twice lol ? I'm done .. your bf is Bi you also need to deal with that let alone the cheating , set your ship to sail. Plenty of fish in the sea.. who don't get there dicks sucked off by men ..
That's so smart! A great way to learn!
Break up with her and this time insist that she move out. Then go no contact to avoid her doing this to you a third time.
I am choosing to believe you are actually 13 so I can get on with my day.
Yeah sure. But why would it be a problem? Doesn't look like the husband wants to form a unit with OP right now since he was loyal to the boss rather than to her.
And the right thing to do would have been to discuss the issue with both of them. Maybe one would have agreed to stand down of their own accord.
As it is, OP would be perfectly justified in taking revenge.
I mean, he has a point saying that. His whole thing is wanting to spend more time with you and if you had time for a side guy, then you’d have time for him obviously.
BUT……….
The whole idea of wanting to even get a side chick is b.s. My wife is busy af. I see her a lot, like every day, but she has s as home business and works a part time job. I don’t get nearly the time I want with her as in non-work time.
If I went up to her and said “Hey wife, i know you’re busy making money to build our life together but would it be ok if I started banging another girl? I mean, I love you and want to be with you but you’re so busy and my needs aren’t being fulfilled sexually so is that cool? Just a little banging. I wont get too crazy.”
Knowing my wife she would be like “Sure! Go get your sex on with another chick while I’m over here busting my ass for both of us. When you head out, make sure you take some clothes because you won’t be staying here ever again.” She’ll say it all smooth too because she’s a baller like that.
OP…fuck that. Tell him to piss the fuck off with that nonsense. He’s doing this to try and manipulate you, control you by giving you two choices you can’t do. The first is to accept him fucking another girl and the other is to give him time you say you don’t have.
Know your worth. You do not have to accept either scenario. There are people in this world that will accept your commitments and be overjoyed to accept what you can give, when you can give it.
People are going on and on about his motivations. That doesn’t matter at all. All that matters here is knowing normal relationships don’t give their partners ridiculous “or else” bullshit. It can be hard sometimes. Sometimes we don’t get, or give, everything the other wants and we’ll-adjusted adults don’t play games like this.
If you’re cool with an open relationship than cool. If he wants a side fuck, you get one too. End of story. If its one-sided, that’s you being manipulated. Find someone better. You deserve it. We all do.
And she would be getting traumatized again and again and again. As the courts said, he didn't abuse the child. The child has OP's family. where is the cut off point where you have to give up your safety and wellbeing for another person, even them being your child. what should OP have done? what is your solution
Thank you! This helps a lot!
I have done this for the past one month but it's not stopping. Three days back on our holiday trip he literally stayed on phone for six to seven times meanwhile I ended up staying with our friends . It was a horrible experience. Our other friends' husbands were busy clicking pictures of their wives or of them together whilst I stood bizarrely waiting for my husband to finish his calls
We both enjoy having sex with other people, sometimes individually sometimes together
Thank you! I think we are compatible I can go without sleeping with women. I’m going to the mall to buy him shoes and a game after work
Hshe
I’m sorry. In what world would this be a turn on? To get a zillion dick pics in video form? Am I missing something?
I am not saying this is true for OP and their situation, and I truly hope he takes his time and finds a much better future for himself..
but off topic, it made me think…
Is this what abusive partner’s stories look like? We often hear from people on here who are being abused in some way or another. What would the other side of the story look like – I’m so great to her. Everything I do is for her and our future. Her coworkers turned her against me. Her mom and dad were so angry and crying when we talked – maybe that’s because they were so happy she was finally breaking up with you and dad wanted to murder you but couldn’t.
Sorry, I don’t know what’s wrong with me.
Yep, woke up from a nightmare thinking my ex and I had gotten back together, I was a mess, I went crying to my dad in hysterics and after I said everything he was like “you're not back together, unless you just haven't told me…” Then I was like “wait a minute” and checked my phone, we hadn't texted in months. (Then of course he texted me some time that week ?)
Another time I woke up and went to my dad upset and saying I didn't understand why we were moving, we loved our house, it was home, and he looked at me like I was bonkers and told me we aren't moving. (Then 3 months later he decided we were moving ?)
Another time I had a whole ass conversation with my mom, I was sitting up in my bed with a book in my lap and my eyes open, apparently we actually talked for a few minutes, I didn't remember a thing.
Your brain can make up really strange things while you're asleep, make things feel incredibly real.
I'm not saying OP's boyfriend isn't cheating, unfortunately that is possible, but there's a possibility it just was a bad dream.
I’m missing something: can you elaborate on why you think his views are worrisome?
I personally don’t think there’s an issue with his views. But he has past trauma associated with cheating, then that’s something he should be working on.
Further, how is lying to me about his communications with her not manipulative or toxic on his part?
If her casual acquaintanceship with someone is messing with your sanity, you should speak to a therapist because the problem is entirely yours.
Sounds like your bf is the person with dead feelings, not you. He's projecting onto you as a way to hurt you and possibly as a way to either ruin your self-esteem or get you to break up with him (or both). Time for you to sit down by yourself and really evaluate this relationship. At a minimum, who would want to on-line with someone who compares them to a dead person?
Which would you prefer: finding out this is idiocy on her part or finding out it’s malice?
You said you two shouldn't talk anymore, and he's agreed. You're the one who cut him off here, you don't get to decide “backsies” when it suits you.
And that's why you never date coworkers or work with partners.
Get proof of the blackmail and go to hr.
Or just ignore him.
He thinks you’re being dramatic for having a gun pulled on you…? Repeat that multiple times and think really hard if you should continue that relationship.
Sometimes relationships don't work.
Take your offer, that's a given. You'll come out then other end better for it.
If you ask him to move he may say yes and miss his chance, or regret it and blame you. And who's to say that during the next 4 years you won't change, you're both young and figuring things out.
My thoughts exactly. We also had polar opposite political views with her being pro-life and me being pro-choice, so that was a struggle because if she accidentally got pregnant, I was kind of screwed. I’d have a baby momma on the other side of the country and a small business where I can’t move, and also in a position where I don’t want kids.
“ Men are not romantic with each other and choose to show that by avoiding anything that can be seen as intimate such as physical affection.. which is why you have the problems you have today with men’s mental health.”
That a complete load of BS. Men’s mental health problems have absolutely zero to do with touching other men (except maybe a closet homosexual).
Good lord some people try dress up the dumbest points with fancy language and pretend to be smart.
Men are not dysfunctional women. We don’t have problems because we lack the thing (some) women do.
Seems like you have the language based on your post. Be honest.
If he cares for you, he will make changes. If he is anything less than enthusiastic, then you know who he is and how much he values you.
Don't let anyone question if you are good enough or not. Dot let a guy seed insecurity in you. You are perfect the way you are.
By the way this picture is gorgeous , i love your smile and the energy you radiate ❤️
My gf has ADHD.. this has never been an issue
YOU SHOULD BREAK UP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND
BECAUSE HE SOUNDS GREAT
AND YOU SOUND LIKE DOGSHIT
Sorry I figured all caps might help you understand more. Since you seem to be mentally deficient
How can you ask forgiveness when you haven’t even acknowledged what it is that you think is the reason your husband hurt your son?
The odds would be 1 to 19.
For you. Consequences for you. You're being selfish and self absorbed and meddling in your son's marriage to make your own life easier, rather than opening your eyes, realising that your son did a shitty thing that jeapordised his marriage and is now abiding by a perfectly reasonable boundary to try and repair it.
I broke up because he was acting like that
Hmmmmm…..
I think he would enjoy a bj
It’s a dead end. With red flags and a pack of wild bisons on it!!!!!!!!!!!
Well if he can't pay rent, you ask him to leave.
Don't be so soft.
Get him to sell everything he owns or get out.
Depends on circumstances, but unless you have proper reason to believe he won't do it again, then never. In this case divorce is your only option.
Write him out of your life, he a bully who will abuse you.
You will continue to feel insecure until your partner put in months and months of effort into making you feel secure.
Not hard to guess why they are out of state.
When I've had therapists, they've always has evening hours.
Look Op I hate to say it but you two need to break up it sounds like to me that you've been carrying the weight of this relationship which sounds very one-sided that you've been doing everything taking care of her during her depression making sure the house still stands make you do everything you can for her but it doesn't sound like she's done one thing for you I mean honestly she degrades you for wanting to make a smart decision in my opinion
For I will be honest this is not sound like a smart move to move to the richest country and for only a 3-month trial period because remember there's no guarantee she'll get it so you'll be stuck it's time to let It go if she wants to move and make it possible decision letter but it sounds like to me you've done too much. Stop trying to keep her warm by setting yourself on fire it sounds to me like you're not getting anything out of this relationship and honestly your whole post gave me anxiety just reading it because it sounds like to me you're acting what's end please put yourself first leave she is not worth it I don't care what y'all been through with her she's not grateful for anything you've done.
Don't you see OP all you are to her is a safety net for when things go bad she knows she'll take care of it but nothing more bro she literally said she'll leave you if you don't want to go with her that should tell you how she feels about you in this relationship she don't care she just been using you as a way to take care of yourself and you need to provide you don't really care about you.
It's time to move on get yourself some therapy put yourself first for once and get out of this toxic relationship and move on I promise you'll find somebody who actually cares about you and will treat you the same way that you treat them and will be willing to actually talk about issues and not just make impulsive decisions that would destroy you both please you deserv
Listen to your parents. Drop that zero and find yourself a hero.
Honestly, OP, I'm not trying to be mean or insensitive. And I know you probably like him a lot, but if you could get in a time machine and travel forward to when you're 40 years old, I'll bet anything that the 40-year-old version of you would tell you not to waste your time on a guy that treats you like this.
Then she would tell you the secrets you need to know to become a billionaire, but that's beside the point 🙂
Time to dump her and put on your crown
Time to dump her and put on your crown
I am if you have links I'll look into it.
I'm actually interested in the correlation of gender and the brain. As a cis person I can not comprehend what it is to be trans, so I'm looking for logical explanation.
Sadly tho I went and deleted my comments, i felt the information I was trying to express and the way people were taking it was too different. Plus if it was actually causing people discomfort it isn't worth the conversation it starts. However it got to -150 votes so I'll be adding $150 to my donation to St. Jude.
He’s thinking a Sahm is best for the baby after both of you being in the foster system. In his head. This is best. He assumed you thought so too. He forgot to ask. Get a counselor and work through this. This isn’t a deal breaker unless he refuses to see how this isn’t ok to make someone do. You’re thinking long term. College savings and etc for the baby. Y’all just need a third party to help you through this.
She’s asking if it’s ok for her to cheat with your permission. This is the bottom line, and the only thing you should think about.
Perhaps exploring your newfound sexual orientation shouldn’t be done while in a relationship…
he was late for work and frustrated
You're already making excuses for him.
OP don't make your children think this behavior is normal. You went from one abuser to another.
Im not sure how that doesn’t come up, especially when you’re in a bar and the most common assumption to make when giving a number in that scenario is to hook up. I just know i’d be breaking up.
She just has or wants to hook up with someone that she knows she can't be in a relationship with. She also knows you're a “schmuck” so you'll wait around while she “works on herself” (aka someone works on her in a bedroom).
I don’t see what the problem is. He has a past? Did you think he was your girlfriend or mama? He’s not supposed to keep private stuff to himself? This was way before you, and you still have a problem? You have never told a lie or withheld private information about yourself from anyone? No regrets, mistakes, or skeletons either? I often wonder why many women revert to toddlers when they find out that others are not like them; have different experiences; or have had relationships before them?
You said yourself nothing was untoward with the conversation so idk what sort of like you think is reasonable. You can not resolve your trust issues by limiting who another person can or cannot talk to. There is going to have to be an internal solution.
I'd ask him why and what he means by that.
he is expecting me to move to his area or something?
Probably this. Or it could be some kind of wall of crazy.
Not sure why he expects you to have your big life questions resolved after meeting him 4 times. If he wants something specific, he needs to say so.
It honestly sounds like he isn’t happy any longer. People often stay in relationships they are not happy in because it’s easier than leaving, or because it’s easier than starting over. It sounds like he has checked out mentally.
Whether communicating is easy or difficult for him, it isn’t an excuse to ignore you, and not even respond to his own name…
It sounds like you’re beating a dead horse here. The way I see it is you have two choices, either you tell him this can’t go on and he needs to get help, or you get yourself together and you leave.
You sound intelligent and outgoing, and a fun person to be around with a lot of personality. If you stay there, and nothing changes, you will lose yourself and before you know it, you’ll have spent another five years and you’ll be wondering why you wasted so much of your life on someone, that couldn’t be bothered to give what he gets from you.
I know making the choice to leave when you love someone is difficult, but girl, this type of relationship is absolutely soul crushing.