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Date: October 22, 2022
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I posted late last night, my comments came across as rude. I apologize and deleted it. I will try again, this time will be in a better state of mind posting. I also went and read some of your previous posts to gain insight.
I stand by my original post on the main subject of you shouldn't have let a suicidal soon to be ex husband sleep at your place with how you are currently living your life. He probably needed professional help more than a couch to sleep on. You should have called his family or the police no matter the time of day. This could have gone very bad as he was in a terrible state of mind, might have harmed you also as he was feeling there is nothing left.
If you add in the fact you mentioned since the breakup, you have been “having a lot of casual sex” and have evidence of it on your phone via text and videos. You are 27 and have been together since 16 and before all of this, you were each other's first and only partners. He views you much different than a typical couple splitting up as being the only partners. He has you on a pedestal when it comes to sex and seeing you, for lack of a better term, go wild and make up for having the one partner would drive him crazy. Him finding this out was a ticking time bomb and you should have guarded it a bit better.
You probably need a lawyer at this point. The lawyer could issue something to make sure he doesn't do some crazy revenge porn post or such. Also, He now has evidence you were involved with other men and will likely use it against you in the divorce. Technically you are still married, so that isn't good. More than likely it wouldn't effect the divorce a ton, but he could use it to smear you amongst friends and family. You had some verbal agreements to move past this being infidelity in some eyes, but they don't really mean much in court. I wouldn't do any kind of verbal agreement in the future as things change and divorce seems to bring out the worst in people, especially on keeping their word on past agreements.
On a side note, get yourself into therapy. You have posted that you are having a lot of causal sex because you are terrified of being alone. A counselor would also help you out a ton. They could also help you with this scenario as you seem to feel very violated. Take care of yourself first and foremost and despite still caring for the WH still, he needs someone professsional to look after him. There is not much you can do if he is suicidal and now he looks at you different.
I was wondering this too! I have a 3 year old and while he’s not asking about his birth story, he asks me to show him photos of me when he was in my belly( ie pics of me while pregnant with him.)
There are so many other questions to me and reasons why this doesn’t make sense at all about the daughter not knowing the stepmom isn’t her bio mom. It’s so crazy it’s hot to believe!
So you’ve been together a year. Plenty of time to see how he deals with similar events.
So what did he do for your birthday? What did he do for Valentine’s Day, what did he do for Christmas? What did he want to do for his birthday?
How has he shown his appreciation for the things that you did on those days?
Chances are he did minimal on those occasions, because they don’t mean much if anything for him. And if that’s the case, of course he wouldn’t be excited about a 1 year dating anniversary.
And why wasn’t your reply when he said it’s too expensive that you would pay?