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Date: October 4, 2022
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I can see your husband being caught in the awkwardness and going along with feeding her, but his reaction is sus, especially coupled with the “kiss” comment. I would expect anything from “I know right” to “I guess I didn’t see it that way” but unless you really pressed the issue after that type of reaction, to be upset suggests guilt to me.
Just text him that you feel you deserve better than he is offering you, so you're breaking up with him. Then block his number. He knows what he did.
You didn’t ruin anything. It really doesn’t sound like he was being a loving and supportive partner at all. I would look at his behaviour again towards you because of a medical issue. You deserve so much better. You need to start focusing on yourself again. Keep up any physical or mental treatment that you may need. Start hanging out with friends and acting single again.
To you and to his kid it is not relevant if he cheated. That's a thing between him and his then-gf.
Your kid might be questioning his dads morals later in live!, but thats a possibility to learn for all of them.
He's just reminding you that the two of you are not exclusive. Your reaction is a pretty clear sign that this was necessary.
They're not dating though. They're just friends, by mutual agreement.
Okay we still move
These posts are a dime-a-dozen and so cringeworthy ?
A friendship isn't sexual through words or actions. The second he said anything about emotion, physical touches of a sexual nature that breaks your boundaries that's an emotional affair.
I dont cause i will instant puke, bristles on tongue is a sensation i just something i cant do.
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I wasnt heavily flirting, he did 90% of the talking. But I never told him this is inappropriate, never told him to shut up or never tried to move away. Even when he said lets continue this conversation in my bedroom I just smiled at him.
Op literally said he is not comfortable talking about it and the first thing you assume is that he's upset because he is small
I’m feel bad for OP because of the wording in the post. “Size of my tits” “measuring” etc… At no point does she say the BF said how BIG they were… Little bit soul crushing there for the OP because lord knows if he’d been bragging about how big those tits were the post would have read
My BF told her family about my BIG TITS. And how women measure theirs (takes less time than me measuring mine, because they are so big) and her 13yr old sister told the family I had big tits. Tits big tits tits. Big. But then she went upstairs crying (probably sad my tits are so big) so I had to go comfort her, with my big tits..etc etc
Would this comment be considered appropriate?
Breaking up with a long-term partner of 4 years because you want to dance with random guys at clubs is a very shallow reason to leave someone. But if you were too young when you settled down or don't actually enjoy being in this relationship that much, then you're not going to get much happier as time goes by. You need to decide what you want to do in your life.
She bangs him while you are still together, or she bangs him after you dump her.
Either way, she bangs him so act as you see fit.
Sounds like she doesn't have any of those things.
Yes, it’s flirtatious. How you deal with it depends on whether you were snooping through his phone or not.
This is sounds like a spitting image of my girl.
Teacher turned full time masters student, meanwhile trying to take care of everyone around her at the neglect of herself.
So, everything in her life takes… you need to be someone who gives. And if you want to be a great boyfriend, learn to handle your problems on your own, sparing your GF the additional weight.
The way I help my girl through these scenarios is quality downtime. Be a great version of yourself around her and become that escape for her from all the weight she carries.
To be frank… she could pull back a bit from her roommate. Her roommate has become a demand for her attention/energy. Your GF has enough on her plate already, she doesn't need to deal with other peoples problems.
But… that is the kind of woman we got, someone who goes out of their way to be motherly.
Not sure where your from, but considering she has an artistic side. A great date night would be a paint-nite. May have something similar around you. Sign up for a class, they give you all the supplies and they walk you through a painting (a simple one). I'll dm you the link (not sure If I can post links here).
Quality downtime, be the recharge station for her. ?
You aren't in a place where you can have an open relationship. Talk to your BF about it, or get yourself out of this situation.
He is not looking for them. He is looking at them.
This is just my opinion so take it with a grain of salt.
But based on your post it sounds like you associate SHAME/GUILT and SEX quite frequently. If there is nothing medical going on, this could be the cause of the lack of orgasms.
Your boyfriend is right, take time for yourself to relax, explore yourself, and learn what feels great. Try to release the guilt and shame you associate with sex and masturbation and just enjoy the experience.
Dump her ass, thats beyond a comment that came off too strong, thats judt down right malicious
Given a choice between communicating and not communicating, always go with communicating.
we could raise the baby together
This friendship is already over/ruined if that wasn't obviously a joke
If that wasn't an obvious joke then she doesn't respect you at all. Didn't think about you or your life for a second
What do I do? Where do I go from here? 12 years, wasted, it feels like.
As someone else said better 12 years than 13 or more. You now know how this asshole really feels about you, and it's horrible. Don't give him a chance to gaslight you about this or act like you looking in his phone is just as bad or come up with some excuse for his behavior where he blames it on you in some way. This is completely unacceptable, leave him.
Don't think of it as 12 years wasted. Think of it as 12 years learning what you should and should not tolerate in a relationship, and learning how to recognize warning signs of shitty behavior. You're still young, you're only 30. And even if you were 80 it's never too late to get out of a bad relationship and find someone who respects you.
I was not invited because it was supposed to be a boys night. Sometimes I go have drinks with only my girl friends and don’t invite him as well, although if I’d ask he’d probably say no because he’s just not interested in some of things we talk about which I get. He’s really sensitive so I don’t think he did anything bad, when he came home he basically told me they sat in a bar for hours comforting his friend who just got dumped
You had an agreement with your husband. You started applying and interviewing for jobs, of which I’m SURE he was aware. You moved across the country for him for 10 years with the understanding you would be moving back. It’s selfish that he’s now, suddenly, decided he doesn’t want to move back.
You want different things but you need to do what you think will be better for you. It sounds like this new career path would be amazing for you. Take it.
alright thanks for the advice bro
Most straight men do not want their own or any other man’s cum in their mouth. Do most women? Lol.
youre right
You were too nice. People like this need to be cussed out. Be as rude as you want to be when you tell these people to kick rocks.
He wasn’t on drug’s when I met him. He started working a trucking job and met ppl during his work day. He moved to my city and didn’t know anyone. He started this about 15 months ago. I only have his plugs information bc I added him on fb
If you look back have you notice that there were times where he let you down, or didn't step up when you needed him. But it was easy to brush it aside because you loved him, and you're capable of being independent and doing it by yourself. So why bother him?
Things where if he asked you for help you'd do it, but when you asked he wouldn't.
A lot of these issues are fine when it's just you alone. But when you have kids, that's usually when all the things you ignored become massive issues. Because now you need him to actually support you and be a partner.
You need him to change and actually not be selfish anymore and show up for you on a consistent basis.
I want you to seriously try and consider if this is your situation, because if it is. You need to accept that he's never going to prioritise you, he might be able to prioritise the kid if you're lucky but he won't be able to do it for you.
You also deserve love and attention like he does, just in a different form than he needs. Having depression is withdrawing into yourself and the demands of a relationship can even feel like a burden in that mindset. I know how you feel, I've been there (w/out) the ppd. I would be bed ridden for weeks and I would apologize to my partner at the time that I was so deflated. Instead he would count the days til we last had sex (which sucked bc antidepressants also killed my sex drive, it wasn't personal).
Me and him didn't work out for other reasons. I hope you guys can make do a weekend getaway (doesn't have to be anything crazy like a foreign vacation but if you have the means, right on). Do something that excites you and maybe that will mix things up a bit.
In the meantime, I know it's so nude to feel inspired but be selfish at this time to focus on healing, while explaining you're in a dark place and need him to be your partner through this.
Its through “sickness and in health” right? Well now its time for him to pull some extra weight to Jumpstart you while you are healing yourself. Nows not the moment to be tit for tat bc there's an imbalance here bc you are down and out.
Best of luck, you'll be ok one day. Can't rain all the time 🙂
You clearly didnt see the post on here before about the psycho girl who posted about a guy and a bunch of other girls chimed in and almost ruined his life cause they were all lying.