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Date: October 5, 2022
This is an unimaginable and profound loss, much above what anyone here can provide advice for. I hope both of you are able to speak with a trained professional and can further navigate. I am so incredibly sorry for your losses, peace and love.
I crave alone time. My husband does not. We’re about to celebrate our 39th anniversary. It can work if your wife is either also craving alone time or has things she loved to do and is fine doing them with friends or has strong interests and wants time for them.
The only problem would be if she feels neglected or unloved if she doesn’t get enough time with you.
My husband and I both travel alone for work. We travel separately when we each want to do something the other wants to do and we travel together. Some people find it really weird that we travel apart at times, that our marriage must be unhappy and about to fall apart, but we don’t care.
I’m self employed and I’ve always been a night owl, so I get up late and stay up late. Husband is just the opposite, so I get alone time and he has things that interest him that he’s happy doing. We’re awake together for 8-10 hours a day, since he’s now working at home and only part-time, which gives us plenty of time together.
We’re happy. We’ve arranged our lives as we want them to be.
You need to talk to your wife, think about how much alone time you want and if she can be happy doing other things or going out with friends. As long as you can convince her it’s about you, not about her.
So far it just sounds like a one instance where he wasn't as explicit as before.
I wouldn't jump to an immediate break up over this since that seems like a huge over reaction.
If he makes a habit out of lying about who he talks to THEN I'd worry. Right now it just sounds like he was being vague since he was in game.
Its not weird since there is no blood relation and its only a cousin. Go for it. You have already slept together anyways so the history will forever be there. Only thing is if your relationship go south/ends badly, will it have any impact to your immediately family. I.e. your new aunt's perception of you and your family.
You know that, by doing this, he just asked her out, don't you?
Keep your eyes open. And don't trust them blindly.
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Stop lending him your car. You have every right to know when you'll have it back.
I will ask him to try pills.
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While I don't agree with the way OP'S boyfriend reacted, OP seems apologetic only after her mom explained things to her. Either she's afraid of getting in trouble, or she values her mother's POV more than anything.
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That’s besides the point. She’s saying that this dude abuses her and he groomed her just a few days ago. I feel like she’s leaving out these details so she’s just getting a skewed response.
Your last paragraph pissed me off
Do you even like your wife? The woman is going through a major medical episode and youre only worried about yourself.
No, absolutely not – you contact a lawyer.
Don't waste your energy guys… This is just a troll who's posting this shit a lot.
Damn. Well you are one tough cookie!
Beard hygiene is cool and all. But as a bearded man myself, Id pick beards over bitches any day ?
Alex and i have a meeting scheduled next week. I've requested that Chloe join but not sure if she will yet.. if not I will have to schedule one separately with her to get to the bottom of this. the review has been submitted but I havent acknowledged it and don't plan to in its current state.
it's formatted in a way that we write lengthy paragraphs reviewing ourselves in different aspects, then the manager responds to those with their own comments and determines a final score. needless to say it's littered with my actual name.
react by improving your life………………………without him.
Dude this is embarrassing to read.
It’s not just the ILY that’s too fast. It’s the sleep together every night, meet his family, don’t get unstuck, upload photos, talk about everything, etc. You sound like you’re gonna keep doing what you’re doing tho so I’ll refrain from offering advice and just stick to answering your original question. It is all too fast, and the faster and more intense you start, the harder the crash. Food for thought.
Girl I wouldn’t even ask again. Move on.
No it’s for everyone. You can’t gain weight if you are eating in a caloric deficit unless you have some sort of medical condition
To diagnose your idiocy
How he looks doesn't matter. How he thinks you look is the question. If he focuses on faces as much as you say, and you look childlike from the neck up, that is something to think about.
1100 isn't too bad to learn how someone truly is. I've lost that lending to family and it does suck, but it also shows their true colors
Do whatever in regards to separation. But please ask yourself why he is so afraid of you.
You sure it's his ex he's meeting and not his wife/GF?
Let's the honest, penetration is a huge part of the deal for most women. So is the love of big dicks, should it be linked to psychological arousal or actual physical pleasure. To a lot of us, penis is linked to satisfaction. In most cases if there is no erection, there is no sex.
And even if it doesn't matter to some women. Being told as a guy that his penis is not that important in sex even if it's too small and that his partner will enjoy more other aspects of sex than penetration is extremely hurtful.
Write the letter, and then burn it
I know you love this girl but you need to love you more! It’s not worth it take it from me. You won’t be able to move past it and she’s lying to you. Let her be with this other man while you find someone so much better!
The damage she is doing to your reputation could be permanent, and she clearly either intends as such or doesn't care. If she wants to be back in your life, it's on her to do that healing. Not you.
As for the mourning, my best advice is not to rush it. Crying helps sometimes, laughing helps sometimes, telling stories about how she used to be helps sometimes, and all of those will sometimes just lead to more crying. Remember that's allowed, and encouraged, when mourning someone so important. You won't get the same sympathy that you might from a death, so leaning on closer friends and mental health professionals might be your best bet. It will hurt, but not more than this. It is nude to accept someone you love going away, harder still when it's their own fault. There are no nude and fast rules for Healthy Grief – best I can say is make sure to give yourself all the time you need, and make sure to take some specific times to think about the relationship you lost.
It sounds like a tough pill to swallow, but what you get is the freedom that closure brings. Understanding that you and this person are done lifts a weight from your shoulders. I have had family die, friends die, and I have had to all but disown one of my family members, and of the three the grief was the same, but the freedom from the third is worth it.
Don’t wait for her to set the boundary, because she already did when she ghosted you. Set your own boundary by deciding if she is or is not worth the energy you spend trying to keep her happy.
Move on from this person. Her circumstances are tough, but you have to protect yourself before anyone else.
If she reaches out, a simple direct response is best. “Hello, Jane. I am glad to hear you are in a much more stable situation. When our friendship ended a few months back, it took me some time to heal the emotional wounds from it. While I'm happy you are doing well, I am uncomfortable restarting a friendship, as I'm afraid it will reopen those emotional wounds, and therefore I'd like to leave our friendship in the past. I'm glad things are going better for you, and I wish you the best.”
Hes a piece of shit. His profession is completely irrelevant. Completely unneeded and pointless to the comment.
Didn’t even need to do a beep boop age difference calculation. Saw the 2 and saw the 4. NOPE.
no one seems to understand what I'm actually asking.
No, it's not that. We just see abuse victims here all the time making the same kinds of excuses for their abusers that you are.
I can’t give up custody because her mother is currently unfit. Not a bad person and she still sees her mom but she needs to work on her alcohol issues. I might ask my brother and his gf to spend more time with my daughter especially on the weekends
You good???
'We went to a restaurant and he kept trying to go and talk to the waitress first ' This is the reason you think he's going to cheat on you?
Are you aware of the concept of a 'self-fulfilling prophesy'? The more paranoid/anxious and controlling you are the more likely you are to drive him away, possibly to someone who does in fact trust this apparently entirely trustworthy man.
Try counselling.
Breakup with her. She doesnt give a fuck about your feelings and even went as far as bringing a guy who wants to bone her to her own house alone. You're too young for this drama dude. Leave her and dont look back. She will do this same shit in the future. What would've happened if she had found this guy attractive??
Ask him for a timeline? Like sit down and have a serious conversation about expectations and timelines. It might be nude, but it's NOT an argument, it's just a discussion. I always recommend telling someone ahead of time that you want to have a discussion with them later, and this is the topic. It's not a threat, it just gives them time to think about it.
When does he want to get engaged, get married, buy a house, have children. Those are adult topics that people have conversations about. You can't just assume that because you've talked about marriage that you're on the same page. Sit him down for a serious conversation and talk about it.
Also FINANCES are HUGE. Talk about money! Talk about what is important to you financially. The vacation talk makes it abundantly clear that you have different financial priorities, which is fine, but NEEDS to be talked about.
It's also nude to tell whether you actually like this guy or you just have a “high school sweetheart” type fantasy. Your words go in one ear and out the other, your opinion isn't in consideration, you only do things he wants to do… like, i'm sure he's funny? maybe? or something? But you don't need to marry this completely uninterested dude just because you've dated him for a bit. What makes him the love of your life? Just the fact that he's in your life? I'm not trying to diminish your relationship, because obviously we're only getting a sneak peak, but it's worth exploring if this really is the person for you.