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Date: October 11, 2022
Oh no, downvoted on reddit, what ever will I do!!
Yep
You can just say exactly that. “My honest opinion is I love your nose. I think it is beautiful and compliments your face so well, but I also know it makes you feel insecure and it's your choice what you do about that. I'll support you no matter what.”
This is just my opinion, but I don‘t believe in breaks in relationships. Tried it, never worked out. I believe in talking things out, maybe getting some space, e.g. sleep in different rooms.
But for all that, you provided way too little info, as what are the reasons for your break, who suggested it, whats your boyfriends thoughts on this? Whats your current situation, do you online together, how old are you two?
Based on the info given, it seems like you did not come up with the break and you are not happy with it. And thats exactly what you should tell him in person, not via text. Get together on neutral grounds, prepare what you want to say, what you expect as an outcome and then have a good talk. And sorry to say this, but this may even lead to a breakup, if your expactations differ too much.
And sometimes, as naked as it may sound, a breakup is best for both. Even if you may suffer for a while. Again, I don‘t advise a breakup but I believe that most of the time, „breaks“ are the beginning of the end.
Ok girl, np. Best of luck to you, hopefully everything works out the way you want it to!
So, even more reason to break up. They've both fractured the relationship individually. Now it's time to look to the future, instead of the past,and that future is this pregnancy. He doesn't want to be on the hook for the child of another man. He didn't saddle her with the obligations of parenthood for a child that isn't hers.
Also, keep a record of any proof of abuse you have, and if he turns up at your house, warn him once that you will phone the police and if he doesn't actually do it.
Any proof of abuse will aid you in acquiring a restraining order if required.
We were going the same way
This isn’t a boyfriend. You aren’t an object for his gratification. Please see his blocking behavior as an actual gift to you to take care of you and leave behind the neglect and disappointment of this angry, entitled person who’s lacking in basic compassion and even friendship skills. I’m so sorry for your grief and hope you can be with yourself and your mom with as much grace and peace as possible. later you can feel the anger and grieve losing this “boyfriend” and realize what he wasn’t able to be.
You break, lose or toss someone else's property=you replace it
You better start wearing full body armor around her if you’re that keen on keeping her around dude
They can’t even confirm Mia is a client. The most you could do is call and say I know x is a client this is what’s happening, I’m telling her Wednesday: do what you need to “if” she is your client
Same same same. I see him in out from time to time and cringe so hard. Young and dumb I was.q
What exactly did you do?
If he’s bugging you just use stasis on him and smack him a few times, and when it wears off he’ll go flying away
For sure. There is likely a middle ground you can find here. I understand that she wants to be with someone who is ready to fully commit to her and not waste her time if this isn't going anywhere. That being said, you can likely find a way to show this without the rigid deadlines. Hope it works out for you both.
It sounds like a first love or close to it situation so you’re not only saying goodbye to her you’re also saying goodbye to a lot of the experiences and expectations you had with this person. The best advice I can give is give it time. Don’t try and find someone else new, but rather build a new you that doesn’t include her. Hardest part, I know. Let yourself grieve the relationship looking through pictures or listening to old songs or reminiscing, but then don’t get stuck there. As you’re ready to let go say goodbye to each of those things so they don’t hold power over you.
No advice here. Just finalize your divorce, the relationship seems like a lost cause.
This person doesn't care about you in the slightest. You deserve respect and you're doing yourself an injustice by being with someone that treats you like crap.
Look, I know people on Reddit are always quick to say “end this relationship”, but honestly, end this relationship. Throw the whole man away. He wants you to change your body in an unnecessary way that might impact your health, and he’s making you feel bad about something you’re already insecure about? Yikes. Big effing yikes. You’re only 23, you can do SO much better.
What’s the point of coming on Reddit if you are gonna ignore all advice and make the worst decision you could have possibly made?
You know he's cheating on you again. All the red flags are raised. One thing to remember is if he cheated once he'll cheat again.
This has absolutely nothing to do with you, if you’re afraid to tell her, don’t. She’ll find out on her own.
Do you really have self-respect after a guy did that to you? He sexually assaulted you and degraded you in one of the worst most disgusting things possible. He knows what he’ll do next. You are so young and there’s so much better out there. You were the one violated and you should get away from him and some support or therapy of your own.
He hasn’t engaged with anyone yet since it is kind of a new dynamic but the idea to open the relationship was actually his. He was hurt not because I was with other people but more so because I was selfish and did it in a disrespectful way by not being with him and ignoring him. I understand this dynamic is not for everyone. But yea I am definitely quitting drinking from now on, I believe this was a wake up call to my relationship with alcohol
Well I guess you want to have sex with her since you're saying she's an adult. Technically yes but she's most likely not super emotionally mature at this point. What are you going to do if and when she gets pregnant? Your friend will find out and help me at the end of that friendship, it's just a dumb thing to do.
I bet he's already fucked her and us now in some sort of predicament bc of it ?
Omg I know, so true! She may have picked up on it better if it was just a fair weather friend. But in my life experiences, whenever you are alone with a guy, whether it’s a BIL, sister’s boyfriend, friends bf, when they start the whole negging while telling you how great you are, always expect a come on,and shut it down. Sooner you shut it down, the quicker they get the hint not to try, usually at least. She can’t ever be alone with this guy if his wife still wants him.
You were drugged against your will and your bf is upset with YOU? He should be upset on your behalf. Things could have gone much, much worse and he's worked up over some drunken kisses?
You can't make it better, because to make 'it' better you'd have to be able to make him a decent person.
He's the one ending things on a sour note.
I take this as a compliment haha.
……. Who's gonna tell the OP? ?
Ok you're right I guess
All of the context you provided is irrelevant here. Go to the wedding because you want to and its important to your mum. That said, the context you provided does offer a multitude of red flags. No idea why you'd stay in a relationship with a man like this to be honest.
Nice to know thanks
I don't care what you think.
Your off-colour remark at the end provides me all the context I need for why I will completely disregard your comment, and wear your criticism as a badge of pride.
As a general rule I think all relationships should have open phone/open social media policies.
Personally I make that Crystal clear right up front and if the woman in question has a problem with it, I wish her a nice life and mosey on down the road.
I realize few people handle it that openly though. Sometimes(often, in fact) i can recognize the necessity of looking through a person's phone or social media without their knowledge.
Privacy is something we sacrifice for intimacy, connection, commitment and trust.
So, all that being said…if you're sure you've done nothing wrong then this is probably a blessing in disguise. You likely dodged a bullet. Go collect your belongings(bring a friend) say your goodbyes, and move on.
If for no other reason than curiosity, it might be a good idea to ask him what it was that triggered this.
Don't try to defend it. Don't try to explain it. Just listen, nod, wish him a nice life and leave.
On your way home you can reflect on what he said and decide if whatever made him do this was valid or not.
If so, maybe it's something you can learn from and become a better person in your next relationship.
If not, you can breathe a sigh of relief secure in the knowledge you just dodged a paranoid nutcase-shaped bullet.
He's not home, you have his keys. Go get your things, leave the key on the table and lock the door on your way out.
You did nothing wrong and it’s not your responsibility to soothe her or stay up all night hurting your own mental and physical health for her poorly managed mental health.
This just may not be the right person at this moment.
This wasn’t even passive aggressive. It was civil, straight to the point, and in consideration of trying to make the wedding not about their past but the bride and groom.
Continue investigating.
pretending to meet up as strangers in a bar.
Like Clive Bixby and Julianna?
Don’t text her unless you wanna meet up. You’re both to busy for this text each other bonanza.
What a person says makes them interested is usually way inaccurate, and to accommodate to that is just shooting yourself in the foot.
Just focus on yourself, hit her up when you got time, if she’s interested great, if not move on.
She gave this dude road head. If it was rape, because that is exactly what “blow me or I'll kill us both!” is…. She wouldn't give a fuck about “ruining his life”.
This girl is a trashbag, and it's not just her lies that suck.
This is the best advice I've gotten so far. Thank you for being patient with me.
I was all ready to think he'd hit on her, but I think what he did was lecture her. I would bet his “couple minutes' chat” was an hour's diatribe about how bad he thinks she is for you.
Don'cha just love when a partner does something colossally wrong and then turns it around to blame the other partner??
Honey, if you have to TELL your boyfriend that sexting is not appropriate in a relationship, he's not smart enough to either be a teacher OR your boyfriend. If someone needs to tell him not to sext one of his students' mother, same applies. (They didn't just find out she had a kid in his class when you called her. They knew prior to that, at least that's how the post reads)
So because he won't admit he was wrong, YOU must have been wrong for trying to deal with the other woman. SMH.
You only have four months invested in this relationship. As has been said before here – this is his best behavior!! It's not going to get any better than sexting with other women and then blaming you for your reaction. Just let it go.
She cheated on you, plan and simple. But your the one whom will have to deal with it not us…. Not for me…. Can you kiss her again after knowing that.
Yeah he can also end his relationship with her because its a deal breaker for him.
I forgot to add that he's American and living in Taiwan (I'm Taiwanese) so all his friends are back in America, so that's why I never met them.
This only adds to the fetishization imo. And even if you are in different countries he obviously doesn't see you long term otherwise he would want to introduce you to his friends.
Just planning how to say it lol
Personally, I would go point by point. How he disrespected you, is a man-child and not even close to mature enough to get a gf. But that is me, you know what's best for you!
Look. There’s a very hot life lesson he needs to learn here and sadly since your the only adult between all of them then I think it should come from you. It’s probably going to have to take losing you to get him to fuckin straighten up in life. If you guys had a good thing then you’ll the one that got away because he was a dumbass sadly and that’s something HE will have to online with for the rest of his life. That you can’t just do the thing he did and not pay. If you stay he will continue to think it’s ok to push the envelope with you.
Be the one that got away and moved on and ended up better off for it. It’ll humble him later once he’s had some REAL TIME to stew on it.
The thing about life is that we ARE the company we keep. You don’t need any of them and the more you stick around the more entertainment and jokes theyll make behind your back because of what happened. They’ll never let you live it down either. There’s no turning back at this point and I wouldn’t even accept apologies.
Just because someone says their sorry it doesn’t mean you have to forgive them. You have the right not to. They all not only crossed a boundary but it sounds like they may have waited for the opportunity honestly because everyone knows that BASICALLY if a bathroom door is closed you don’t go in there or you knock first and even if you don’t hear anything you still wait for other signs. They knew exactly what they were doing and to me it looks like a form of hazing.
If you are unhappy, you should leave. If she is angry and aggressive and treats you poorly, you should leave. People change over time. The girl you met at 15 is gone, stop looking for her. Ypu need to accept that she is who she is now. The fact you have wasted years in an unhappy relationship doesn't mean you should keep wasting more time. That is the sunk-cost fallacy. You are young, you will find other partners.
He has two jobs. At the gas station and Amazon.
You need to have a direct conversation that is not to gentle. Were you say what you need and what you need to online with the rest of your life.
My husband will not get on the same page with me with finances. Constantly hides his spending habits & money from me. Tells me I am using him like my own personal ATM because he pays rent/utilities while I cover everything else. We barely talk to each other. I have to constantly clean up behind him despite asking him to do it. Additionally, he has been lying to me for a year. I confronted it right after it started & have talked to him BEGGING him to just be honest every time I catch him lying. He won’t stop.
Why now? We are now over a year of me begging him to stop lying and he can’t.
Next? Single life & focusing on my kids ❤️❤️
Relationship? Currently we barely talk to each other. Walking around on eggshells nonstop & super uncomfortable. I don’t want to talk to him cause he constantly lies (which he didn’t do until 6 months into marriage, not sure what changed).
Yeah that is something to consider. Honestly, a lot of my relatives smoked (now they vape since it became a thing) and they are still alive and relatively well in their quite later years. Thanks for this insight. Probably is my overthinking coming into play, automatically picturing the worst outcome, paired with someone I care about. So yeah I'll actually let it be, maybe mention it, but certainly not change her, as you said. I wouldn't want to push her away for something like this.
Bottom line is, long distance relationships are not real relationships, sorry. I know there's always this person who replies to these kinds of replies “no, but mine actually worked” – sure, that's great and we're happy for you, but 9 times out of 10 an LDR is just a disaster of some sort waiting to happen.
Forget about this debacle, and try actually dating actual people. Having an internet chat buddy for a couple of months is nothing like a proper relationship and your story is just one of the things that may happen.
I think she's a catholic?
we discuss a lot about our future, house plans, work stuff, money, lifestyle, everything except the wedding “party” and ceremony. Because she doesnt seemed like an ordinary desperate woman running her life for the wedding dress.
More painful than….having an actual wedding?
Because if so, find a compromise. Maybe something smaller like 50-100 guests. Or a destination wedding with even less guests but still special, the white dress, etc.
I feel like you’re not entertaining her feelings on the matter and just want it your way, period. For a lot of us ladies, we grew up dreaming about a wedding—not marriage. The latter only happens once you’ve actually found a life partner. And there’s usually pressure from family to have an actual wedding as well. I would have been fine just having a kick ass reception and get married at the courthouse but our families were not going to be okay with that.
I try to keep my circle only with my true friends but It'll definitely be a drama if I just stop talkin to this guy since were in a friend group.
And then this afternoon he told me that he has hsv1 and apologised for not bringing it up sooner.
Red flag. He should've communicated that sort of thing with a potential sexual partner ASAP.
I don't have a very high libido, and honestly have been nervous about the idea of having sex with him because he's very well endowed. However, I think sex is still something I want in a long term relationship.
Two things, 1) Do you think this relationship will be long term? Maybe wait till possibly making any
2) Are you willing to risk contracting herpes / sacrifice sex? You have to really think about how much sex really means to you in regards to relationships. You're also very young still, and probably haven't experienced much since you said you have only been dating around for a year, are you willing to contract herpes and potentially limit future dating options?
Maybe offer to give it to your eldest child? Gender irrelevant?
“You weren't out yet and the ring was gifted to me. It means a lot to me, and I don't want to part with it. But you're right that gender-binding inheritance can hurt. This ends with our generation. I'll be gifting this ring to the eldest of my children.”
I would also reassure her, once, “you're a woman. I don't see you as anything but a woman. This isn't a secret stab that I still see you as a brother and undeserving. This is me pleading with you to understand how important the ring and the connection to grandma is to me. Once we move past this, I would love to loan it to you for special occasions – so we can share this connection to our grandma.”
But truly, I feel for you both and see how complicated this can be. But I think you're the owner of the ring.
It is his moms house yes
This is a respect and maturity issue. Show him this post and everyone's take stating as such. This would be a hill to die on; a good partner would respect you and your family enough to act appropriately.
I don’t understand why you’re being so abrasive. I’m here to seek out advice as I’m aware that my line of thinking will be overly avoidant. I don’t wish to engage with you further.
tell you what, if you are 100% honest with her and she finds a way to make you feel awkward, STA. lol.
Getting an abortion instead of putting an infant up for adoption isn't going to make a family change their minds and adopt a toddler or a 5 year old when they want an infant.
Find yourself husband material.
Okay I hear u. I’ll just take my big boy pill
Follow up question when should I speak up if a situation genuinely should needs to be brought up? Is it just when I straight up just don’t feel comfortable about it?
No, My party phase ended two years before the baby was conceived. All of our children look exactly the same and all like him.
it’s crazy how fucking dumb cheaters are like atleast be smart abt it
But I'm not the one who brings it up and feels like it needs to be a discussion. He gets irritated and just keeps it to himself until he feels like he needs to talk to me about it and it's clear he thinks I'm wrong and even lazy for doing it
Be honest with your mom and tell her that you don't need or want your aunt to come over to check on you and that you were looking forward to having time to yourself at home. You're 23 – that's normal and healthy. You might tell your aunt the same thing – thank you so much for offering to check on me but, I was really looking forward to time to myself. She literally said that she wants to come to your house so she can be by herself, so she should get it right? If your parents can't understand your desire to be by yourself and not be treated like a child then you probably should start looking for someplace else to online because unfortunately they get to decide who comes into their house. You would think because you live there that they would listen to what you want.