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Date: November 4, 2022
I’m not annoyed, I’m just responding lol. To me, if someone cares about you, they’ll show it one way or another. Not doing anything at all (to me) says they don’t care.
You can’t online her life for her. She wants to get pregnant and you can’t stop her. You think you are helping but you aren’t. Stop listening to her crying and complaining. She isn’t taking your advice so tell her she has to deal with him and you are done. By dumping her emotions on you she is transferring them and that gives her room to add more. You love your friend and hate to see her ruining her life, but she’s going to continue to do it until she’s had enough. If that means she’s a single mother because he will break up with her once she’s pregnant, you can’t stop it. So protect your own mental health.
Coffee shop? Restaurant? Library? Movie theater? Friend's house?
I don't have Reddit's weird obsession with age gaps.
But you told him you didn't want to have sex, and he decided to force it on you anyway. That's rape. He isn't grooming you, he raped you.
They are trying to justify to them selves that they don’t want to put in the effort to be like you anyway
I dont think OP is going to do anything. He is this kind of low life. I hope karma hit you bad OP.
It won't go away. My mother slapped my sister in frustation 20 years ago and she stills feel guilty about it. As she should. Taking your anger out on a child is wrong and it's good that you're reminded that every day.
Glad to hear you've changed though.
Sounds like hormones are raging give her some time
Right?! What in the fresh hell? I’d be sooo uncomfortable around him all the time– in our joint home..? Nope.
Yes to all of that. I think my favorite part, aside from the STI’s I got since he was cheating on me and not having safe sex, was how he rewrote history and told his family and friends that he divorced ME because I’m a raging alcoholic. ? even his fam didn’t buy that one. I still haven’t outted him as it’s not my story to tell and I can’t imagine what it must be like to not be your authentic self. But good grief. Not sure about you but I suspected and brought it up many times and offered an open relationship with only the rule that he keep my physically safe. He denied being gay right til the moment I found out about his affair partner of 6 mos.
Anyway. Upwards and onwards. Don’t make things messier by bringing this woman back into your life. No good is going to come of it.
Do not move in with him. Do not have sex with him.
He is ok having sex that hurts you, that is not acceptable.
If you have access to anyone who is a lawyer ask for assistance with getting out of your lease.
Write to the landlord and make it clear that due to an abusive situation you cannot go forward with moving in to the apartment, and are withdrawing yourself from the lease.
You may lose your deposit, but that’s better than being tied to an abuser.
Lawyer up.well and get child support from her, also.bring up.on abandonment as well
One thing that comes immediately to mind is that he has a new or dramatically worse medical condition which is going to force him to stop working and need a lot of care at home. So he may want to lock you down and secure free housing and free casual nursing care for the rest of his life. Men often leave women who get a bad diagnosis, so he might assume that you’d do the same. All in all you deserve to know exactly what is going on before moving forward and accepting (or rejecting) his proposal.
Why do you say that? Just curious.
Is she ordinarily a people-pleaser? Like to the point of being problematic? Does she always have a naked time saying no to anyone?
I mean, regardless, she made the decision to go to his room, which isn’t good. I’m just wondering if this is always a problem with her, and this situation is almost an inevitability.
Especially if her parents are incredibly domineering; there’s a very ingrained habit of just doing what you’re told, even when common sense tells you that it’s bad for you to do.
Again, she did it, I’m not saying to stay with her, I’m just wondering. Much like the same advice I would give anyone whose SO did something unforgivable, like emotional or physical abuse, the person who was hurt by the behavior has every right to leave, even if the SO has a note from their psychiatrist explaining why they had no other way of doing things.
Unfortunately, even if she’s a victim of her parents and her predator colleague who fucks drunk, lowered-inhibitions people-pleasers, this is a lesson that she would need to learn if that’s true.
Sucks for both of you.
If you don’t mind me asking, who walked you down the aisle?
At least it wasn't a turkey sandwich with the moist maker in the middle then the guy didn't even finish it. Ross was so pissed.
Thank you man I really needed to hear this from an outside source because tbh bro I feel like I’m being emotionally abused right now and it’s fucked up
i love how all of you say it's ok and the wife is an asshole, when OP ADMITS the wife has been bullied in the past. so he goes on to bully here, in “public”. I bet this isn't the first time these “outspoken” comments have gotten the wives back up.
Why though? I mean, why date her? It’s great you were able to move on from the trauma, but why date the person who traumatized you?
nuh uh this is NOT ur fault at all
Years down the line, would you be happy or fulfilled feeling this way every day? If not, you have 2 choices: therapy or leave.
I don't like to tell people to breakup at the slightest discomfort, but this is way past that. You're still young, don't waste your life in a dead relationship. Even if she's truly remorseful, her reasoning for doing it is disgusting because she could have just spoken to you instead.
I hate cheaters, so I'm in the “leave her ass behind” camp. But I won't let my bias get to you and will emphasize that therapy can probably help change your perspective but eh… I personally would have 0 trust in her and her judgement. The blatant disrespect and lack of concern for your own feelings prior to the act would have me seething if it was me.
Find a partner who is not willing to risk his or your life, due to a lack of scientific literacy.
Thank you very much!
I've been suicidal and have self harmed in the past, I would NEVER intentionally hurt another person. In fact, when I'm suicidal it's because I think everyone would be better off without me and I'm a burden.
Stop spreading misinformation and demonising people with a crippling, horrible illness.
Ewwww, but yup, that about sums it up.
Why are you so willing to settle for so less. He is a very hot drug user who drinks and drives plus gets into bar fights and has no job! There is a reason you do not want someone better. You are chasing after someone who is dangerous and will only bring you down. Your job is to figure out why? You need to look at yourself and figure this out because if you don’t you will just replace him with another lowlife!
agreed ! it was the first time bc he “insisted” i read their messages
Yup, that’s a classic abuse dynamic!
Wow, how cruel. Honestly, you may as well start the divorce process because this won't get better. I guarantee being a single mom will be better than moving forward in this relationship. GUARANTEE IT.