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Are you sure it's not porn? What are his habits specifically? If this were me I'd drop porn and stop masturbation completely to see if that helps. Just make sex with you his only outlet. Does he have trouble getting very hot alone? Considering his age porn is my first thought. Masturbating with an iron grip will prevent him from getting enough stimulation from a mouth or a vagina.
Yes please do, not just so he isn't stuck with your garbage personality but also because you'll be someone's else's problem, I do hope your ex has changed so that way you can be the “dated down” person in the relationship or you can just get fear that he's gonna cheat again either way
Yea, honestly, he sounds depressed but that is not your problem any more. If you are depressed, you get on medication and get counseling, you don't cheat. I would never trust him again. What happens the next time he's feeling sad about life?
you make an astoundingly fair point…. What if I’m the abusive one and was being mean and she is just reacting? I was an irritable kid to her. Sort of being sarcastic. This was her reacting to my boundary that I didn’t want to be the scapegoat of the family anymore. Even typing all this out I’m not convinced that I’m not secretly the villain.
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She doesn’t owe you a sandwich and you don’t owe her sex. If you’re withholding sex because she didn’t make you a sandwich first, you’re an asshole. If you just didn’t feel like having sex (and weren’t a grumpy asshole about it) and she got mad, that’s on her. You should both communicate your expectations—surprise sex doesn’t work for you, rejection is very hot for her. Now you know. Work it out.
She no longer takes care of your children, is allowed over, and all workout sessions end. It's not a simple thing for him to stick to. What would he want from your new male workout pal he smelled in your bedroom, if the roles were reversed?
What the hell was your mother thinking with this? Why didn't she at least let you know?
Anyone being hung up on their partner’s past, body counts, or whatever- I just don’t get it. You’re with each other now, that’s what’s important right? It’s a huge red flag, it’s just immaturity, it’s possessiveness, it’s insecurity. And everyone I know agrees with me!!!!
I am not bothered about him being social awkward, but I tend to despise him when I give him constructive feedback and he is defensive and doesn’t see any issue…
You work 8 hours a day. Lots of adult people do that and STILL manage to do stuff around the house, FYI, because that is part of being a fucking adult. No one is owed an exemption from household chores because they work 40 hours a week, ffs.
I didn’t say I was right. I obviously have issues. I noted that. I know it’s superficial. I’m being aware and trying to correct them. He knows most of them .. and we have talked about it. Luckily, he still Sees beyond that and loves me for me as I do for him even if it doesn’t seem so.
I knows it’s naked to reschedule but the best thing for your relationship is to take the clock off of fixing this. The deadline will add unneeded stress to an already very difficult situation.
Yeh no, you cant possibly speak for everyone when you assume that people dont care about someone’s past. The past can be huge predictors of certain behaviours.
What the past entails definitely is key to whether someone cares or not, but the blanket statement that people dont care about another’s past shows most people lack due diligence when seeking or meeting potential mates.
My guy likes trying weird beers. It’s fun for him to get home to the fridge and there’s a new beer he’s never had before! Or a favorite beer that’s very hot to find.
Cuz he’s good at oral and I might consider therapy and I will start to lay there too especially when I’m on top cuz that’s when he’s the laziest like in every move he doesn’t do anything he’s selfish and I’m gonna stop having sex with him going forward now
Misery loves company. It makes no sense to want your bf and then start insulting him for a learning disability (which is extremely mean btw), she was never really your friend she probably wanted someone else who was as miserable as she was. She disrespected you, your bf and both relationships, I'd cut her out.
Are you sure it's not porn? What are his habits specifically? If this were me I'd drop porn and stop masturbation completely to see if that helps. Just make sex with you his only outlet. Does he have trouble getting very hot alone? Considering his age porn is my first thought. Masturbating with an iron grip will prevent him from getting enough stimulation from a mouth or a vagina.
Yes please do, not just so he isn't stuck with your garbage personality but also because you'll be someone's else's problem, I do hope your ex has changed so that way you can be the “dated down” person in the relationship or you can just get fear that he's gonna cheat again either way
Yea, honestly, he sounds depressed but that is not your problem any more. If you are depressed, you get on medication and get counseling, you don't cheat. I would never trust him again. What happens the next time he's feeling sad about life?
you make an astoundingly fair point…. What if I’m the abusive one and was being mean and she is just reacting? I was an irritable kid to her. Sort of being sarcastic. This was her reacting to my boundary that I didn’t want to be the scapegoat of the family anymore. Even typing all this out I’m not convinced that I’m not secretly the villain.
She’s 36? You’re 23? Predator much.
I was thinking the same thing. I feel like something else may be happening here
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She doesn’t owe you a sandwich and you don’t owe her sex. If you’re withholding sex because she didn’t make you a sandwich first, you’re an asshole. If you just didn’t feel like having sex (and weren’t a grumpy asshole about it) and she got mad, that’s on her. You should both communicate your expectations—surprise sex doesn’t work for you, rejection is very hot for her. Now you know. Work it out.
it seems like the flattered one to me, but he needs to talk to her about her feelings on the matter.
She no longer takes care of your children, is allowed over, and all workout sessions end. It's not a simple thing for him to stick to. What would he want from your new male workout pal he smelled in your bedroom, if the roles were reversed?
What the hell was your mother thinking with this? Why didn't she at least let you know?
I'm not sure. I feel like OP's aggressive approach probably contributed to her awkwardness in responding.
Your boyfriend watches too much porn.
He keeps saying this is how trainers train and that I should have known the code. I keep telling him I haven't heard such a thing yet he won't listen
Anyone being hung up on their partner’s past, body counts, or whatever- I just don’t get it. You’re with each other now, that’s what’s important right? It’s a huge red flag, it’s just immaturity, it’s possessiveness, it’s insecurity. And everyone I know agrees with me!!!!
Don't buy into all of that toxic masculinity bs.
Your girl sounds like a keeper. Treat her well.
I am not bothered about him being social awkward, but I tend to despise him when I give him constructive feedback and he is defensive and doesn’t see any issue…
It’s not remotely unbelievable…
Lol terrible advice divorce the woman and expose her cheating. She deserves the consequences of her actions
You work 8 hours a day. Lots of adult people do that and STILL manage to do stuff around the house, FYI, because that is part of being a fucking adult. No one is owed an exemption from household chores because they work 40 hours a week, ffs.
I didn’t say I was right. I obviously have issues. I noted that. I know it’s superficial. I’m being aware and trying to correct them. He knows most of them .. and we have talked about it. Luckily, he still Sees beyond that and loves me for me as I do for him even if it doesn’t seem so.
I knows it’s naked to reschedule but the best thing for your relationship is to take the clock off of fixing this. The deadline will add unneeded stress to an already very difficult situation.
Yeh no, you cant possibly speak for everyone when you assume that people dont care about someone’s past. The past can be huge predictors of certain behaviours.
What the past entails definitely is key to whether someone cares or not, but the blanket statement that people dont care about another’s past shows most people lack due diligence when seeking or meeting potential mates.
My guy likes trying weird beers. It’s fun for him to get home to the fridge and there’s a new beer he’s never had before! Or a favorite beer that’s very hot to find.
Cuz he’s good at oral and I might consider therapy and I will start to lay there too especially when I’m on top cuz that’s when he’s the laziest like in every move he doesn’t do anything he’s selfish and I’m gonna stop having sex with him going forward now
Misery loves company. It makes no sense to want your bf and then start insulting him for a learning disability (which is extremely mean btw), she was never really your friend she probably wanted someone else who was as miserable as she was. She disrespected you, your bf and both relationships, I'd cut her out.
You're fucking right I do lmao. Thanks