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Hell, that's a bad sign my man. It could be a reason she isn't wanting sex with you. I hope not. You really need to communicate with her more if you think it could be a possibility.
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Just say that you can't afford it so you can't go.
Christmas time is a time when a lot of people over-spend and they'll suffer for it in January and February and maybe even longer.
Yeah but what happens when it's women within the family and not just randoms…
That's not PTSD.
That's part jealousy and part insecurities.
You need to have an open and honest conversation with your boyfriend about how those comments make you feel.
Ok so there is a lot of comments about run from him or leave him. Even he may have done this on purpose because he didn’t tell you.
I think its wrong he didn’t tell you 100% that is fucked up. But lets be honest most people don’t know a sociopath. My friend I’ve known for 8 years is one. Yes hes very different but he’s not a bad person. He sometimes cant relate to the things I am going through but he also understands that he needs to be there. Often the best advice I received from friends is his because of his very logical approach to situations. I would take a bullet for him and hes never done a single thing to make me upset. A few times he had to tell me my thoughts were irrational because they weren’t logical. He was right and most decisions made with emotions are sometimes not the most thought out.
I cant speak to the emotions, personality, and actions of your boyfriend. But my advice spend time alone, and research about sociopaths, I have ADHD and learned it a few years ago. It has changed my entire life I realized the way I live is mainly because of my “disability” even though now it feels like another part of me.
Speak to an actual sociopath they have struggled too!! Dont hear the title and hate on the group. When most of you guys dont know a person like that!
It kinda sounds like the biggest problem here is Ambien for 20 years. Are there no alternatives you can explore? As you're seeing, Ambien can be pretty nasty stuff. Anecdotally, I don't know a single person who used it who didn't experience concerning side effects. Before divorcing your husband, I'd look into alternative sleep medications.
She's gonna divorce you. Find the best lawyers in the area and have consultations with all of them. From my understanding, this creates a conflict of interest that prevents her from retaining them.
She sounds like an unreasonable witch who is going to try to hurt you out of spite. By preventing her from getting goods lawyers, you're increasing your chances that you'll have a favorable outcome in the divorce. Unfortunately, in divorces with children, the women are virtually always favored. If you are not aggressively proactive about this, it's entirely possible you can lose your kids.
Save any and all communication where she communicates why she left. My non-lawyer thoughts are that she believes watching porn is the same as cheating (which is grounds for a decision in her favor) and once she learns it's not the same, she'll try to paint you as abusive or sleazy or whatever. Keep everything.
Basically, hire a lawyer yesterday and do exactly what they say. Keep your nose clean. If you drink even a little, stop until everything is settled. Become a fucking saint until this is all done.
Yes, he spet the same the last few years. I know it may sound petty but I would treat him the same as I would treat my own family. Perhaps thats a view I need to change. It just makes me feel like i’m not a part of his family if that makes sense.
I was in a similar situation once and spent years trying to feel better and fix the relationship when really I couldn’t figure out how to heal and rebuild trust. It sucks to find out so much later and it’s not fair. It sucks to feel guilty that your person atoned and new they were wrong and had treated you well for years after their indiscretions. Trust yourself but don’t waste your time and do not feel guilty, it’s not on you.
He’s giving you a huge gift. Byeeeeee
I think a good place to start is to realise that this isn't inherently a men issue. There are plenty of women out there for the sex only as well. Not all men are like that, not all women are like that. Just out up your boundaries from the start and weed them out
Are you just with him bevause you hate his ex?
You wouldn't take a day of to help im after a surgery, but you would take a day of to spite his ex?
A man who says shitty things about you due to wait gain after an accident is the same guy who will drop you for a younger woman when you start to look older.
This guy is superficial.
My husband has watched me balloon up to my 9 months pregnancy weight again after losing most of it during covid. And he still told me I looked amazing when we were dressed up and going out the other night. I was happy.
I'm sorry, but the insane odds of hearing this twice. I'm sorry, this reflects badly on him.
It is not that he didn't mean it…
He didn't mean for you to hear it.
He is upset because he got caught.
I met my husband when I was 20 we were engaged in October and married in December still going strong after more fifty years we did not know each other because back in the day people didn’t live together
Not when it's an undetectable amount though. I mean morally it's still wrong IMO but scientific consensus is it's not transmissible then.
Me too! ??♀️
The problem here is this kid right here and now isn't raised and taught how to behave.
This person is saying the kid ain't raised right. He wasn't raised by wolves, he was raised by you! To reply “exactly” makes it sound like you cherry picked the part about the comment being unnecessarily harsh (which the gf's comment was ABSOLUTELY NOT!). READ THESE RESPONSES and use some critical thinking skills. Oh, and don't get back with the GF. You set her free from this shit scenario already (good for her).
Oh I see what you were saying. I read that as I was laying down for bed and I take “herbal” gummies before bed so I read it wrong lol. But yeah I'm keeping an eye out for an update on this one
You are literally bisexual
May I suggest a 7 line haiku
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I feel your own suggestions are very much to the point. Normalize the relationship. No late night messaging and so on. Meet the family and so on.
I will take a bet that his wife does not realize that he is chatting with a former lover. She is probably asleep when he is sending his greetings.
I think you need to ask her how she is going to solve this. I understand your worry that you feel controlling and it looks like you do not trust her. Maybe you need to accept that intellectually you might trust her – but emotionally you do not. The fact that she is in a contact with a guy she needs to remind that she love him as a friend is not helpful – as in her case – friendship included sex.
Talk with her. Be honest, open, understanding, tolerant and kind – but tell her that this “friendship” and the way it had been conducted makes you feel bad and make you fear about what is going on – if her answer is nothing is going on – then you have to make clear that late night messaging with a married former lover – is like from a play about impending cheating and even though you might think that never happens – you emotionally feel that this is a possibility. Be clear this is how you feel. You could even ask her directly about if he said something about loving her/being in love with her.
Based on her reaction and behavior you can then decide on what you want to do. If indeed he has said that he loves her – then you could be more clear – being in contact with a married guy that says he loves her is bad for your marriage and his.
Eventually if this continues you will have only the option about being clear that there should be no contact and if she says no to that … Well then you have to accept you are not your wife's first priority and act accordingly.
You're not wrong and I wish we could. Even if things could go to neutral between us I'd be fine with it.
Bilateral salpingectomies are the standard of care now for sterilization.
You've come to an live forum asking strangers for advice. You say,
this is one problem in it
I guess my advice is, “You're young, watch for more problems.” Some of us here like to call them, “red flags.'
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In what world did you think you'd actually get any other advice besides “go f**k yourself”? Especially since you come off as a troll or at the very least tone death.
Paternity fraud is one of the worst things someone can do to another and this whole post you've been nothing but me me me oh what will happen to me.. you're garbage, have fun with what's left of your life.
Your cousin isn’t a nice person, and you are? Trying to fuck his baby mama is horrible.
Done and done
Thank you, I appreciate the kind words.
Yes, that is the message I got from her too. It seems really strange to me… but I am trusting of her and trust that she wouldn't be inappropriate with anyone. I find it really confusing but honestly, I am now at the point (especially after seeing the response on reddit), to just not go on holiday at all. This is exhausting and upsetting.
I see your point, but first I want to see if therapy and changing/going off of BC can help
Hey, based on your update?
Advice him to continue with sex anonymous meetings and continue with a therapist that recognizes his addiction as a thing he needs to contend with. After that? Divorce him and leave him to sort his own issues.
The truth is his interest in treatment may only be as deep as his desire to keep you invested and if you're emotional engaged with him, you won't be able to move on. You see like you're ready to move on. Your post sounds disengaged from the situation and it seems like you are moving forward.
where on earth did you get that from? you’re projecting like crazy lol
She wants to get married so bad probably thinks it’ll fix their problems lol nothing changes after marriage so why do it
Well, what happened?
You have to stop posting this.
“Hey, so it sounds like you are out on Vegas for your bday? If you aren't coming, I'm thinking I'll try to cancel tmw, or sort out a different plan. Regardless, I'm sure you'll have a great bday, I'm sure your boyfriend will have something even better planned.”
Just keep that shit light. If she ignores, you cancel. If she is shitty, “yeah, and I'm shocked you expected a scholarship. Guess we both learned something.”
Tho you should go anyhow and be sure to post some great pics on social media.
There is no one right answer to this question. Everyone will have different priorities and different needs, none are wrong.
Personally, I prioritize my children. If you don’t, you don’t, and that’s what works for you.
Again, he would forget pretty quickly.
You are incredibly ignorant to domestic violence if you think that abuse victims should be taken at face value when they say they aren’t being abused.
OP described abuse in his post. No matter what his or anyone else’s feelings are, his wife abused him. Whether it’s a pattern of ongoing abuse, none of us know and OP is obviously not going to tell us, he’s defending his wife.
Do you go over to someone’s house when they are sleep and look around after you were there for a party??
You should have asked but either way she wasn’t your gf just because she was talking to you ??
You are funny though, so you will get another one ?
I would walk away, because he is more invested in his friends and his “GF'S “, to where he dates his GF'S and not you. His time is spent with everyone else but you. Everyone is entitled to friends and spend time with their friends even friends of the opposite sex but when you get treated like a side piece and they don't care, it's time to move on. I personally wouldn't put up with him and I myself wouldn't have any trust in him. I also would pack my bags and leave and tell him as I'm walking out, that he doesn't need or want you around and that you deserve someone who will treat you like a GF and not a side piece. Walk out and walk away because as far as I'm concerned he doesn't care or respect you and treats you like fwb but better friends with everyone else.
This sounds like some sort of coping mechanism, but not a very good one. Maybe she is trying to take back control by proving that she isn’t afraid to talk about it. But either way, she is trauma dumping. And she definitely needs to keep going to therapy.
You need to set boundaries with her. I’d maybe pull her aside or talk to her privately asking why she keeps casually bringing it up and what type of response she’s hoping to get. Depending on her answer, you can go a few different routes. 1. Sexual assault is a heavy topic that many people have experienced. Not everyone may be comfortable with it casually brought up in unrelated discussions, or they may even be triggered by it. 2. Perhaps this is a topic best reserved for therapy. You guys are not trained mental health professionals and are unsure of how to respond to these random remarks. 3. If she is looking for attention or support, you can offer that in a conversation about what happened.
It still looks like you're the publicist of your parents.
Your gf is not right in the head. Let this one go and you’ll find a more compassionate soul to share your life with you.
I'm thinking that you're an emotionally immature adult that thinks dating a child is easier than dating someone his own age. since, yknow, you started dating her when she was a child.
you were going on dates for half a year before she was legally an adult. that's fucking creepy dude.
And OP was hurting his relationship with the one person who always stood by him by his actions. You can’t have your cake and eat it too. Mom doesn’t want to associate with anyone who associates with homewreckers and that’s a clear and respectable boundary. The fact that OP even wanted a relationship with either of them and has such a passive view of things is very telling.
Your girlfriend is a dick.
That being said, chances are you already had HSV1 before this interaction. You along with 70% of the people in this thread who don't know they have it too. Not a huge deal and chances are you'll never have a cold sore in your life. Just doing research on it will calm you down.
No alcohol but maybe a little tired but we had sex before when we were both tired and no Problems
The hardest part for me was learning to separate my emotional support from the ex. He’d call or text needing an ear or shoulder to lean on when things would happen. When the kids gave him static or had expectations that I would normally have managed or mitigated. But I stopped. He has to manage those relationships on his own. I’m no longer buying his family thoughtful gifts on his behalf and signing his name. I’m no longer coordinating family expectations of him. They need to do that without my participation. I was responsible for facilitating between my children and his family to ensure they had access, and I made sure to support my children when they encountered hiccups with family conflict. But I stepped back and allowed them to develop relationships independent of me and my dead marriage. Eventually, a new normal will set in, and it will be far easier and mellow to navigate. Things will get easier once you get beyond the first few stages. Sending you gentle hugs and hopes for healing and happiness.
Are you me? This is exactly it, down to the pixel. The gifts, the mitigation of conflict – all of it.
Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment. I'm realizing more and more that we're headed for a separation.
Yes, but any info is good info in my book
He’s not blowing anything out of proportion. You literally say yourself that 9 out of 10 times, you reject it. The stars literally do have to align for him to get the smallest taste of his needs, which is by no means fair to him.
Sure, it takes two to tango, you have your say, but so does he. What would you do if he told you no? I’m willing to bet I know the answer, don’t bother answering.
Honestly, and this is just being blunt, if you’re not able to provide your partner with their needs, don’t be in the relationship. You’re not going to get anywhere only having things your way. All that will happen is he will grow resentment towards you, and you will in turn resent him when he inevitably goes off for it.
I would say that if you the ask kids in a creative way, they will spill the beans. Kids know everything. They just don't say anything.
It doesn't really seem like OP is trying to just watch only the shows her boyfriend watches, though.
she's the only PoC. yall are automatically racist.
If it looks like you don't take care of yourself – perhaps you can keep the punk ambience but spiff things up a bit. No torn clothing, boots polished, things like that? Be freshly showered, etc. Why don't you ask her for more info.
Dude you reached out to him. This is gross
Imagine if you got thousands of replies to this post and every single one said that you are wrong, the normal thing is to have sex once per day until retirement (and retired ppl have sex 3 times per day since they don't work). Would you say “okay, bf was right, let's fuck every day”?
This is something that varies, each person is different. Some want sex at least 5 per day and some never want sex. If you're in a serious long-term relationship you need to make sure that both partners are happy. You are happy with you current sex life because this is your normal. Your boyfriend is not happy, this is not his normal.
Your bf is right when he said;
we can only continue to have a positive relationship if we keep up our sex life.
Because you need both partners to be happy to continue a good relationship.
It’s not what you want to hear but you already know the answer to this one.
Counselling can help you listen to each other in a “safe space” and maybe stabilize emotions if you do choose to split.
Or maybe you’ll both settle for a dog which might defer the problem till she truly realizes her “last chance” in about 10 years.
Call it now or later but don’t let her sacrifice years before gaining clarity. Get to the real deal asap. Have you talked to her friends or her family about it?
It just doesn’t feel amazing, I thought that’s how it goes, now I see that it can be so incredible and I’m kinda sad that I can’t experience that, it’s just kinda meh. How can I experience feeling super good during?
yup. fucking sucks.
The relationship will not get better in the future. She's blackmailing you and will likely gaslight you as well.
The ultimatum likely has less to do with her not caring about football, and more of an opportunity for her to see how much she can wrap you around her finger.
Run
I am a serial dater and I have never settled down. I have a daughter with one ex girlfriend and my daughter is now living with me. So I would say that life goes on. If she wants to leave and she is taking little things and blowing them out of proportion than give her her walking papers and move on. Life gets better.
You broke the agreement, and technically this is cheating, but man this is the lowest level of cheating.
You made this agreement when you were 21 and she was 19. You were kind of kids. And it may be only 5 years, but a lot of changes are going on in your brains.
Your wife's attitude – and the attitude of anyone who has this strict of a stance on porn – seems to be more that they want to control your body and who you find attractive than anything else. Like Don Quixote attacking a windmill but you're the donkey they're riding.
It's kind of like when men tell their partners they're not allowed to use a dildo because it's another dick. Like, yeah, when there's a boundary, and it's agreed on, you stick to it. But isn't this boundary kind of just controlling someone else's masturbation?
If your wife wants to leave over you watching porn that's her business – she has a point, you fucked up, you broke the rules. But also maybe good riddance if she's this controlling.
You already respect yourself to do what feels right for you, and to protect yourself. F him. If he wants to have sex with you, it needs to work both ways.
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Fantasy baseball league
Good god. You obviously married a woman ten years your junior for a reason, and are now just pissed that she isn't malleable and controllable.
You haven't been there for her as a partner or father, you have allowed your mother to consistently and viciously harass her, you don't seem to even care that she almost died giving you a child because of how “weird” you find it…you don't even take care of one kid, why the hell would you want more??
She's apathetic towards children because she's coping with the trauma of almost dying giving birth and her husband caring more about more children than her life. I would honestly leave my husband for that, no question.
She absolutely needs to see someone professionally about this all, (take it from someone who also had a traumatic birth but at least had a supportive partner). But you need to get your head out of your ass, kick your mother out, and start caring about your wife as a human being instead of an incubator for your offspring.
This guys isn’t for you. I was with someone like this for a few years. I really burnt myself out trying to please him. What a difference it is to be with someone now who appreciates the things I do for him. Even if I can tell he’s not super into something, it’s clear he’s trying to make me feel appreciated and is touched that I put in effort to make him happy. And I do the same for him. Fucking night and day.
Probably a number of times. Most people don't find out they've been cheated on.
One time that I knew of though.
Just have your BF do what most people do: stick their dildo to the shower wall and live their best lives.
Sounds to me like you should be way less concerned with “dating” and a lot more concerned with maturing. That's not a criticism: you're 19 and it's to be expected. You're to be commended that you can recognize this shortcoming in yourself and are taking steps to circumvent it. But it's also one more reason to let her go. Focus on making friends, and less on progressing them to the “next level”. I guarantee you'll eventually come across someone that you're damn sure you actually “like”.
I have an eight-year-old daughter from a previous marriage whom my wife doesn't like because she believes that my ex-wife is using her as a weapon to destroy my current marriage.
Get a divorce. You are going to regret doing this to your daughter. Find someone who genuinely likes your kid! FFS!
I know she can tell that I’m getting annoyed. She’s even asked if it’s annoying that she does it but I’ve always said no because I’d rather have too much than risk losing it altogether.
This is where you messed up. Too much? Tell her. Too little? Tell her. Promote the ability to be open with her. Find a way to tell her it is too much, but remind her that it isn't the action itself it is the frequency. That you want it when you want it.
A relationship based on poor communication and manipulation isn't a good relationship. You can do better. Be kind to yourself and be happy he wants to end the relationship.
No cocaine? No Bisexyal Swinger Orgy?
I don’t trust her that much at all at this point. She’s very convincing it’s more of a gut instinct
3 years? He doesn't feel bad because of what he did, he feels bad because he got caught… I personally would leave him because he felt okay with keeping this from you for that long.
The only thing that makes me stay is remembering the good things, but honestly things like this makes the bad outweigh the good.
The only thing that makes me stay is remembering the good things, but honestly things like this makes the bad outweigh the good.
Yeah get to it. Though couples therapy doesn't fix everything. It is you guys who determine whether it gets fixed or not. One of the most important things is to not drag things out when things aren't working. You are wasting time that could end up being months years or even decades forcing something when you could be living life better.
I swear to god people on this site must think that other people are clairvoyant and can tell them what a total stranger is going to do.
Don’t worry about the girlfriend. Go to the interview and deal with her later. You said yourself this is what you’ve been working towards. Go and find out just in case. Good luck!
That definitely makes sense and sounds a lot like what she was trying to explain, thanks for you response!
You say, in reply to my comment where I also use them/they/their and partner instead of boyfriend.
You can join T in the “You don't know OP's partner's pronoun preference, OP does” Club. If they told OP that he is fine, then he is fine.
Perfectly said.
It was her money, everyone pulled the handle but it was all her money
Finding a life partner means finding your equal who'll take on half of your mutual burdens and be up to the task of taking care of you should you need that. This 25 y.o. doesn't sound like she's quite at age level in terms of social development. That you don't feel she could “fend for herself” (at a quarter century old) is disturbing. A mate is meant to be a partner not a child you have to take care of. She needs a crash course in “adulting”. You made the right call here.
He tends to joke after we have a sex or he kisses me that I should pay him for it. I
Fancies himself as a gigolo does he.
That's a good idea.
Although I haven't used her for sex. This was not meant to happen.
Thank you for the advice!
You say yall have talked marriage…and? What is his stance on it? You could always ask him, too.
I'm sorry you went through hell of a childhood. Your post made me so thankful for having my older sis and brother as they were.
So you want to break up with your bf because your racist brother asked you to? Do I have that right?
Yea I’m fully on team punch racists. Your brother one day will mess with the wrong one and get much worse than a slap
I would do anything my wife thought was fun.
The fact that you are saying this, tells me he has a history of selfish insane behaviour, and this was the final straw for you. If this was out of character, you’d be worried. If this was histrionic, you’d be (rightfully) angry.
The lady boy porn is throwing me off and I feel like people who work with addicts often seem to be former addicts themselves. So just wondering what kind of trust level exist in your relationship
Give her the time she needs. You aren't making it better by pastering her. When she comes back, just sit down and have a calm conversation about your feelings, and it sounds like insecurities you have, unless she is hiking with a gut.
We are long distance and I bought 3 different toys for my GF. She tells me every time when she played and what she used to play with.
It is insanely hot for me to know that she are using the toys to pleasure herself!
I have even used the one toy on her to give her multiple orgasms!
I feel sorry for the guys who are insecure about their SO using toys. They are missing out big time!
I wouldn't say your post is ridiculous and will get downvoted but this is an advice sub and you're not asking for advice.
I guess how I should go about telling her is my main issue. She might get violent, I don't expect her too but I don't know exactly how well she's gonna take this.
Get a smart watch. They just vibrate and will only wake you up.
Following up I checked his phone and he did delete it as soon as I realized and didn’t send it out to anyone. Not sure how to feel. I love him but not sure what to do and whether to forgive him or not. His birthday is this week and I had a really special trip planned, this has soured everything for me.
OP, I want to tell you a cautionary tale about a woman I know who married a pedophile. She had been married to this man for years already, when one day she found out that he had been abusing her minor sister. She forgave him after he confessed and apologized, and promised her that he'd never do anything like it again. Nobody reported him. Years later, this “reformed” pedophile did the same thing to the daughter of the girl he originally abused. The woman in this story is my aunt, and the people her husband abused are my mother and my younger sister.
These people do not change, and there is no such thing as a “no contact” pedophile who just looks at pictures and doesn't touch real kids. If he's looking at photos, he's already crossed the moral event horizon. You have a choice here. You can let sunk cost fallacy and your emotions win, and end up letting this man abuse your family members and possibly even your children, or you can do the right thing and contact the authorities. I'm so sorry you're in this position, and I know it can't be easy since you love him and have built a life together, but there's only one right thing to do here.
Break up with him because he will cheat again.
I honestly have never believed this excuse that people stay in a relationship they don’t wanna be in cause they need to help the other person. To me, I always assume they really are just more afraid to be single or alone.
I'd call it a red flag.
Who cares about weed, be happy you have a girl
It's morning here and just started browsing, yet I have to agree enough reddit for me for today.
But he didn’t communicate before that.
Nuclear option, block all means of contact. But I don’t know how you cheat on someone psychologically.
Get rid of the boyfriend and keep the dog. Anyone that would have you get rid of a living creature that you love because of who gave it to you is not ready to be in a real relationship.
Drop the guy, not the dog. He's trying to see if he can control you.
It seems like however you try theres a probability she’ll take it the wrong way and will blow up over it, but your best bet is just to sit her down and be honest about how you feel. If you can’t openly communicate and discuss then its not a healthy relationship
No no, we’re not together anymore, the post was about him getting into a new relationship so quickly after me, and wondering if he’s going to do the same to her… or was I just not making him happy. Idk…
None were planned. I conceived while on birth control pills, with Norplants in my arm, and with an IUD. It is really obvious to me when I am pregnant. I have never used a pregnancy test and had a negative result.
I’m not sure if I should count 40 weeks from the last time we were with each other or when she tested positive for her pregnancy?
Neither.
The 40 weeks is from the start of her last menstrual period, (LMP) and it is at best, an estimate. It is the only 100% date possible to confirm in a pregnancy (you may know the date you had sex, but you cannot confirm if she actively got pregnant that day, or two days later, as you cannot know how quickly your swimmers moved, etc).
We conceived the child I am currently pregnant with on Dec 15th 2022, and my due date is counted from my LMP of Dec 5th, with a standard 28 day menstrual cycle. So I will assume the same rough LMP and menstrual cycle of the 5th of the month, while calculating her due date. Using this, she would be due May 12th. Keep in mind I am making a few assumptions (LMP and cycle length)with this date, and that having the initial due date of end of May is more than possible with a conception (ish) date around August 15th.
Now. That due date is not set in stone. It changes, due to how large the baby is growing, and is measured at your scans as you go. With my first born, I was initially due August 5th, but my due date got pushed back twice to land on September 4th, and he arrived on September 12th. So big changes in due date do occur, and it is 100% based on how large the baby is measured during scans.
So yes, it is possible that her due date could have been moved a month or so our, no problem, and end of June to mid July is completely reasonable with the initial due date given of end of May. Equally, I tested positive on the 26th of December, so our dates weirdly line up here. It is completely possible to have caught her pregnancy as early as 1-2 weeks , and I know that for a fact as I am indeed proof.
I will also state, that if she tested positive on August 26th, it is likely that she got pregnant earlier than the 15th of August, as most people catch a first pregnancy between 3-4 weeks along.
Now, going back to her due date, two months is kinda getting up there in time, I won't lie. It makes me think, with all evidence provided, that you should be worried about something entierly different than your current fear.
I think that baby is yours, based on how you calculate pregnancies, but more importantly, based on when she tested positive. However, I think that baby is unhealthily small. Like…being DD pushed that far back is a concern, in terms of the babies health.
Tell the truth. Don't make it more dramatic as it is because it will already cause pain.
You are really brave to realized your mistakes, and that you don't want to marry her if you need to carry this burden. So tell her, and pray she will see how much you value her every day, and will do so for the rest of your life.
He's already gone.
Sorry. So sorry. I know how scary that is for you. But it will be worse if you don't understand that now and try to deal with it in November. All the best.
You should leave. You already adressed you boundaries, and what you want in a relationship. She obviously didn't respect it. There is nothing much you else you can do.
This sounds toxic as fuck.
When people comment on me playing video games I just ask them if they'd prefer me to go sit in a pub/bar for hours like a lot of people do as a “hobbie/interest”.
Don't get me wrong I don't have an issue with people doing that but if I'm just chilling not bothering anyone or spending money I don't see how you can have an issue with playing games.