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Molly, 23 y.o.
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Date: October 1, 2022
Molly, 23 y.o.
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Don’t stress. Your boyfriend is with you for a reason.
Security is based on two things, how you’re currently treated in your relationship and how you’ve learned to think of yourself based on how you’ve been treated in the past. So check your relationship, does he treat you with value and as a priority. Does he respect and validate your feelings, does he look for compromises in conflict that work for both of you? And check your past, have you healed from past hurts that made you feel unvalued? Depending on what part or both that cause your insecurity will impact which solutions work best for you.
It is, she had four deaths in the family in the first year, including her mother, I couldn't leave her. Then she overdosed several times, addiction not suicide, I couldn't leave her. She lost her job, I couldn't leave her. Her depression was getting worse and worse every day, I couldn't leave her. I was with her for 10 years because something new would pop up, and with every new thing it became almost easier to say I couldn't leave her, I was cementing in my own head that I was responsible for her. Which, in many ways, enabled many of her toxic behaviours.
I eventually realised that actually, none of those problems are the cause of me, and I had to draw a line in the sand somewhere. I did not say “get out of my house now”, I said “in 4 months I am leaving”, and it's month 1 haha.