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Date: October 15, 2022
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Put yourself in her shoes : what would be your state of mind if you were to see videos of her with her ex getting railed, putting the same moves and faces you tend to think are only for you.
Give her space and if that's a deal breaker for her then let her be.
Tell him you got it at a thrift store or garage sale or something.
What happened to no means no?
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Don’t waste your time some guys here lazy and don’t understand shit
I would consult with a therapist. My current husband did not want children, his ex-wife did. He gave in to make her happy, at 40 yrs old they had a child, 3 yrs later they had a contentious divorce lasting 6 years, the child was severely affected by. Do not have a child unless the both of you are fully on board. It seems he does not want them, but seeking professional help may provide some guidance on where to go from this point. Best of luck.
I’m not sure what your relationship with your mom is like, but if that would get you out of this current situation, it might be worth it. It sounds like you’re trying to improve your life, and while it may suck, it could help you in the long run.
I think the issue is the mother's consent. Maybe laws have changed and a court can order a DNA test during pregnancy now? I haven't heard of that changing. I know for sure he is within his rights to ask for one once the baby is born.
Yeah, probably not a good look to get “pass out” drunk with co-workers. Still, it happens (usually when we’re young), just learn and do better.
To all those lambasting you for having such a night, well, betting most have a case of “selective amnesia”, have been there, done that…so take it all with a grain of salt.
As for your co-worker “brother” that friendship has to end, mostly for your benefit (too much drama) as for his wife or him. His wife was waaay out of line to call you names. It’s just easier for her to blame you than look at the real issues in her marriage.
True friendships take time. Give yourself a break, take a deep breath, join a gym, book club or some other hobby/interest. Friends will come naturally.
These aren't the last 2 guys on Earth ya know?
It sounds like neither are what you are totally looking for. You don't have to choose option A or option B, sounds like you need an option C.
10 years older than you and acting like a abuser? Good riddance. Be careful if he tries to love bomb you into taking him back, don't fall for it and try to go out only with friends for a while. Abusers don't like “no”, so just stay safe OP.
It actually is very smart to at least stay apart for a while after breaking up. It is not health or good for anyone if you try staying friends immediately, especially if one partner did not actually want to break up.
Also many people do not want their partners to be in contact with exes. This is a fair boundary and maybe her ner partner is one of these people that do not like you having contact.
It is not her job to care for your wellbeing. Breakups suck, at least for the partner that did not want them. Blaming her for not wanting contact is just plain stupid. Why would she care? She does not want a relationship with you, neither romantic nor a friendly one. So why would she have to stay in contact? What does “this is not what we agreed upon?” solve? So you can say she did not uphold your agreement to stay in touch and now? Do you want to stop being friends with her as a result? She already does not want to be your friend anymore. She also does not have to “leave things well”. She wants you out of her life, so just stay out of it.
So you say you are happy for her moving on but you still feel the need to tell her that. So you are not happy and you do not have to lie to yourself about that.
Here is my advice. You can't do ANYTHING about it other than getting over it. So you can now grow a pair and be strong, try to distract yourself if you start thinking about her, try to live! your own life. Delete her number so you won't get tempted to reach out to her anymore.
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what if the police would have believed her side?
This is where you're lucky…very lucky. I'd keep as much distance from her as possible.
It's not your job to teach anyone you're dating how to be a decent human being. And if they haven't learned by 30, the chances of you successfully changing them are slim to none.
Be open to differences when it comes to style and looks and taste in music and all those external things. Take no prisoners when it comes to character.
I don’t mean to downplay what he did when I say last minute jitters. What he did is incredibly fucked up.
But I don’t think there is a possibility of someone else coming along. He had an infatuation with this other woman. It’s not like he’s a dog constantly looking for his next lay, he was lusting after her and letting it cloud his judgement. It’s incredibly bad behavior, but it just does not come across AT ALL that this kind of thing would ever happen again with him. And I can guarantee you that he hates this woman with the fire of 1000 suns lol.
But reading what OP wrote, I don’t think this would be a loveless marriage. She says she still loves him. I guarantee he loves her. The issue, to me, seems to be medical (and the fact that OPs friend was able to conceal the fact that she’s a demon walking this earth certainly comes into play). The way she talks about herself now, and the fact that this happened right after pregnancy (which other commenters have linked to PPD, which I won’t because I have 0 experience with anything related to that), leads me to believe that there is some issue going on that needs medical treatment, and she won’t be able to actually process her emotions until that’s fixed. Because the way she talks about herself just doesn’t align with a response you would expect from this kind of thing. I’m not minimizing or dismissing her feelings on this (because this is an incredibly difficult situation to process), but I just think she should be putting all her effort into the medical side of this.
I agree you shouldn’t stay together for the kids, and I totally sympathize with your experience. But I just think there is something else at play, and if OP is able to work on that, then processing her feelings on what happened will be easier. Maybe she will still want a divorce, and I would understand that.
I mean there could be 1 of 2 things going on here.
I see a post by a 20 year old dating a nearly 30 year old, where at some point she has been convinced by herself or him , that she calls herself crazy and irrational. You then proceeded to tell us your “boyfriends theory”, a story about how are you are jealous of other womens bodies and that is the root cause. A theory you seem to be adopting as part of your truth, so much that you might need to see a therapist
You say you’re jealous over little things that don’t matter and only give us one example. What are other examples?
Does your 28m spend all his free time watching movies with hard women? Does he watch p0rn a lot, and want you to watch it with him? Does he say “she’s so hot” or this one has great — and she has a great —— but this one has the best —— all the time in front of you? When you’re at restaurant to eat with him does he stop the conversation with you to say how attractive the waitress or another woman is? Does he give you pointers on how to eat healthy (“it shows he cares”) or tips how to loose weight? Does he positively affirm how look, your body and your face? Does he criticize you without makeup or high heels? Does he say his ex was hotter, or she was better in bed? Does he point out your flaws under the guise of Helping You Improve?
Or it’s possible he is right and you are crazy and irrational and should see a therapist. But I think there is more going on here that speaks to why you are thinking and behaving this way.
If you want to see a therapist it’s always a good idea though. Even though you’re 20 you may have issues just from growing up in this world and it’s better to address them sooner than later. Even if those issues have nothing to do with being jealous and insecure and more to do with choosing a person for a boyfriend that causes you to be jealous and insecure.
I wish you well.
That depends on where they live!, as it's prescription only in a lot of countries whereas diphenylamine can be obtained very easily over the counter.
Here’s a revolutionary idea, try asking him.
This just happened two hours ago.
Police. That is blackmailing and rape. Gather as much evidence as you can. Also get a restraining order.
I am a people pleaser by nature, and never go to bat for myself but have no issues going to bat for those I care about.
It’s something that I know I need to work on myself, 110%.
I bring up that I feel like I’m being gaslight and my feelings pushed aside, and it got to the point where I was so tired of feeling like I wasn’t being heard/ I started to believe that maybe I was trying to start a fight by saying something, that I just stopped putting it out there and started harbouring all of these feelings.
I feel like I’m never angry about anything anymore. It’s like a disappointed feeling, maybe something a little more than that, but never pure anger. BUT I also feel like I’m prioritizing my own comfort by letting it go because I absolutely hate feeling shut out when I try to bring things up. I don’t know if that makes sense.
Thank you though, your comment is very eye opening.
Yes, you pay for where you live!. Period.
I didn't tell him to get therapy with her. I told him to ask her if she would go to therapy herself.
I am in no way making OP's life worse. Harassing the guy to leave when he refuses to do so isn't going to do him any good, although I imagine it will make you feel great for the few seconds you spare to think about him.
Sometimes you really need to look at what the OP is asking for advice on, here. If they say they want alternates to x route, you need to think about them.
If you disagree with my advice, feel free to offer some of your own to OP. For now, I'm not going to bother to respond to you any longer since you're clearly here in bad faith and don't have a brain cell to spare.
Peace out.
Why don’t you just ask him?
my best friend and her current boyfriend dated a year before they made it official. she doesn’t like hard drugs at all and he was definitely a recreational user. she told him, before we go further you can’t do that anymore it’s a nude no for me. and he kinda chickened out and they broke things off. so she said, fine I’ll keep dating cause we weren’t that serious and all that jazz. bruh he missed her so much he quit doing it and then he waited for her to be single again. now they’ve been together over a year and just moved into their second apartment together.
drugs are addictive and sometimes it would take a drastic change to get people to see the consequences to their actions. not saying that what happened to my friends will happen to you just saying that these situations happen and ending a relationship because your boundaries are being pushed to an uncomfortable level is okay.
Sue her pants off
Thoughts and prayers for Taco Bells everywhere after 1am ?
???? none but money is that the “questionable behavior” her husband was dabbling in wasn’t tiddly winks… it is either drugs or sex or both and that is WHY she wants him to wear a condom. Usually drugs & sex go together & many men are down low and they normally do a bit of P&P. Keep your head in the sand but there are lots of people who are bisexual & keep it from their partner. Just saying.
Just explain like you explained it here. Talking to him about it will likely ease your mind.
It's a normal boundary to ask your partner not to keep hard pictures of their ex.
Therapy. Now.
I mean if you're 100% certain you want to try and live! with this I'd recommend you get some professional help. Get yourself a couples therapist and preferably a personal therapist for the both of you too.
There's clearly something not right in the relationship dynamic especially not after what happened. Your husband needs to learn how to deal with his feelings without drinking and needs to figure out where this urge to cheat came from. You need to heal from this, if you don't deal with it personally you'll have a dent in your self esteem for the rest of your life.
It sounds like she is very broken and reverting to childhood comforting. She needs a therapist to help her. She was severely abused for 3 years and it's not going to be undone in 2 weeks or even 2 months. She needs professional help.
If the cuddling makes you uncomfortable, for sure talk to her, gently. She is just seeking comfort and it still scared he's going to come for her. She knows daddy will protect her.
I don’t think the “taking dozens of pics till it’s right” is as normal as you think it is. Sure, I retake selfies sometimes, if my double chin’s being large and in charge. Maybe once or twice I’ve retaken a photo ONCE of me and my partner, but doing it over and over- that’s overkill.
Has it occurred to her at any point that she doesn’t have to log every moment of your relationship on Insta or wherever?
She sounds like her priorities are all wrong and I’m not sure how you get a person to stop being that way other than by sitting them down and having a serious discussion about their obsession with things looking good. It’s shallow and selfish.
It was so thoughtless to throw out your celebration because she would be hindered from posting photos of you. Personally, I’d have posted the pics. In years to come, you’d laugh, and have a story for the black eye.
Lol… some of you really need to go back to school and learn reading & comprehension. How many times must it be pointed out to you that he DIDN'T TELL THE THERAPIST THAT SHE'S PRETTY? He was chatting with his friends and described her as pretty.
DO. YOU. NOW. GET. IT???
Look, just tell her that with the way she's keeping her body hair now, it would be better for you if she freshened up before you go down on her. You can just use a damp rag to gently wipe her down if she is amenable to that.
It doesn't have to be a big deal. You don't have to tell her she smells like piss and you don't want to to swallow any more soggy toilet paper. Just simply that there's been a change so you need to adjust the routine.
I didn't delete any comment?
We can just end the discussion here if that's the line you're taking. You've dragged me into the mud deep enough as it is anyway.
Enjoy your life ??
I deleted the post
I’m bisexual and would never do that to my bf, EVER! Of course it’s still cheating, the idea that it being with the same gender “doesn’t counts completely demeans being bisexual or gay to begin with. Smh follow through with that divorce
it 100% is absolutely about race. she even point out how he’s just a regular black man vs the one they want him to marry. imagine if she was dating a spanish or white guy they would loose there shit. and i’m not just talking about this one off scenario this is just how other people “cultures” are. unless ur a white male like me where not allowed to have any cuz that’s also racist
haha u say it’s not about race but is about there heritage and nationality. that’s one in the same.
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Wow lol this is just so crazy to see how confident men are that we prefer big dicks, or at least as big as we can get until the point of pain, right?
No, not even a little lol. Right up onto the verge of pain is my LIMIT. Not my preference. Small/average dicks alllll the way, and I am prepared to die on this hill.
Um my only response would be a statement that someone you loved and trusted to be your MOH ghosted me before the wedding and has refused all form of communication since, that any attempt to text or talk about whatever the fuck is going on her life has been ignored.
That without any information about why she stopped talking to you and bailed on your wedding and not a single word as to why, you are not prepared to fly across the country without a damn good reason and some dialog first.
So if she wants to talk to you please pickup the phone.
Seriously? It very much could be related based on the location size and surgery. Can you share more information about the specifics of the case? Was she placed on any medication? Like for seizures?
You can both love someone and also know they're not good for you and walk away from them. If you stay don't be surprised when she does it or worse again bc you're telling her it's acceptable behavior.
Three weeks is not a “rush” Heart emoji after a week is a lil early but nothing terrible. Stop stringing him along and please don’t ghost him.
I have people that way in the office. It is just their personalities.. Their DNA. I've leaned not to take it personally. Sometimes, I will throw a little sarcastic dart their way, and they see it as fun and leave me alone.
I think that's the case on Facebook, or at least was.
Yeah, this. Probably just isn't sure where yall can store the totes without them being in the way.
Could also just be the way he's always done it, and there isn't much thought put into it.