OP, your fiancé did you a favor and showed you your priority in his life. Waaaaaay down the list from the one and only: BROTHER. Frankly, he’s treating the brother like his significant other and you like a blow up doll he takes out of the box when he needs it.
This incident just saved you a ton of money and heartache in the future with divorce lawyers, courtrooms, and custody battles. Can you imagine the pain for any kids that have to face the fact that daddy loves uncle more than us? You need to nope the hell out of this relationship. Find someone who will prioritize you and your needs and be present in your life together. Take your vacation with the people that truly love and care for you. You really need to think about what you want your future to look like. It won’t get better—it never does. If anything, things will get worse once you’re married.
The fact that he didn’t immediately take the phone and cut her off while she was yelling at you tells you how he will react to his mother forever. He says he is going to cut her off, but what is going to do? Words are easy. Don’t be convinced with words. If he lets her talk to you like this over the phone in the presence of your own parents, imagine what will slide when it’s just you with her.
“She’s just like that”. “She’s my mom”. “She’s always been that way”. Here are some common phrases to be watchful of. But like also, the fact that he let her keep talking is a massive red flag and you should strongly reconsider
Yes, I’m trying to cut back especially around family but I haven’t seen his stepmom since last year but she literally hates my guts now and she’s acting like I killed someone. Boyfriend has accepted apology and is fine now, he’s frustrated with his stepmom too
Your bf is a hateful little troll. He’s being transphobic and homophobic to a radical degree. Dump his ass.
OP, your fiancé did you a favor and showed you your priority in his life. Waaaaaay down the list from the one and only: BROTHER. Frankly, he’s treating the brother like his significant other and you like a blow up doll he takes out of the box when he needs it.
This incident just saved you a ton of money and heartache in the future with divorce lawyers, courtrooms, and custody battles. Can you imagine the pain for any kids that have to face the fact that daddy loves uncle more than us? You need to nope the hell out of this relationship. Find someone who will prioritize you and your needs and be present in your life together. Take your vacation with the people that truly love and care for you. You really need to think about what you want your future to look like. It won’t get better—it never does. If anything, things will get worse once you’re married.
The fact that he didn’t immediately take the phone and cut her off while she was yelling at you tells you how he will react to his mother forever. He says he is going to cut her off, but what is going to do? Words are easy. Don’t be convinced with words. If he lets her talk to you like this over the phone in the presence of your own parents, imagine what will slide when it’s just you with her.
“She’s just like that”. “She’s my mom”. “She’s always been that way”. Here are some common phrases to be watchful of. But like also, the fact that he let her keep talking is a massive red flag and you should strongly reconsider
Relax! Let her have fun!
These guys are just a club right? It’s not like she’s in a hotel room with he???
Wish her a nice time. Tell her to enjoy herself. You’ll get a very happy girlfriend in return
Yes, I’m trying to cut back especially around family but I haven’t seen his stepmom since last year but she literally hates my guts now and she’s acting like I killed someone. Boyfriend has accepted apology and is fine now, he’s frustrated with his stepmom too
Ok but these ones are