Dude, you just need to get the courage to walk away. Seriously. Even if it’s not permanently, leave for a bit. I couldn’t imagine being in that situation, it sounds suffocating, you are going to have a mental breakdown. I honestly don’t know if couples counseling will do anything at this point. Sorry your sister made abuse into a pissing contest. There are different forms of abuse. Don’t let her invalidate your feelings
This is not acceptable behavior, what happens if you develop a more serious issue or erectile dis function? Hate to say this but what works now may not work as well in your 40’s and50’s, is this someone you see yourself with long term? I think you should find someone else
She is a gf, as shitty as it is at least you're not married.
NEXT!
I genuinely think the people who gatekeep the word gaslight are crazy. Why does it matter?
3 weeks married and already having these type of doubts jfc
Dude, you just need to get the courage to walk away. Seriously. Even if it’s not permanently, leave for a bit. I couldn’t imagine being in that situation, it sounds suffocating, you are going to have a mental breakdown. I honestly don’t know if couples counseling will do anything at this point. Sorry your sister made abuse into a pissing contest. There are different forms of abuse. Don’t let her invalidate your feelings
This is not acceptable behavior, what happens if you develop a more serious issue or erectile dis function? Hate to say this but what works now may not work as well in your 40’s and50’s, is this someone you see yourself with long term? I think you should find someone else