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Why are you staying with someone who treats you so badly?
Trauma and trust issues? You say you are waiting, and I can certainly understand and even applaud it. If you were to move on, it could be a disservice to your next SO, trying to complete with the wounded soul mate of the past, especially if you are putting her on a pedestal she doesn't want.
Is there a time frame? Is she working on her issues – therapy/counseling? Is there a realistic expectation that inside of the next 5 years she may be ready to see you?
I would recommend writing letters, old school ink on paper. Maybe once a week. Even tell her in the first one that you will try to write her every Saturday (or Sunday afternoon etc).
Tell her about your week, even if boring. Tell her about something interesting that happened and how it made you feel. Tell her you think of her often and that she is always in your prayers. Make sure your address and phone number are on the back of one page.
Scan the letters with your phone, email the pictures to yourself. You may want to read them later.
Letters like that will be a physical reminder of your hopes and prayers. While a phone call might cause her stress (bad timing, feeling of pressure), letters should not, as long as you don't demand anything. Don't ask for a phone call, don't ask for her to write. Don't beg for contact, just be there, at a distance, cheering her on until and unless she asks you to stop or you feel you can't keep going.
It may be that she calls you, it may be that she writes you (or E-mails)… but imagine if you write her every week for 18+ months and she returns to you. It would be a tale worth a book.
Keep praying, asking for guidance in this situation. Talk to your pastor about it.
In the meantime, don't be idle. Improve yourself spiritually, physically, emotionally and financially. If she returns to you, you will both be better for it. If she does not, and God puts someone else in your path, the time waiting will not be wasted.