I fucked up a few weeks ago, and lost something expensive and I was super stressed and upset about it. My ADHD fucks me up all the time, but usually little things. This one was big (to me). My husband could have rightfully held me to task about it and I had no intention of replacing it because *I* felt I didn't deserve it. Two days later a replacement was delivered because it was an ACCIDENT and he wanted to make me feel better about it, and he knew it was something I used regularly enough to feel the pain of losing it.
Updateme!
Hell no you don't deserve that. What the hell.
I fucked up a few weeks ago, and lost something expensive and I was super stressed and upset about it. My ADHD fucks me up all the time, but usually little things. This one was big (to me). My husband could have rightfully held me to task about it and I had no intention of replacing it because *I* felt I didn't deserve it. Two days later a replacement was delivered because it was an ACCIDENT and he wanted to make me feel better about it, and he knew it was something I used regularly enough to feel the pain of losing it.