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Date: January 11, 2023
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That’s fair. No relationship is perfect and it takes effort on both sides to make it work. It’s good that you’re giving her some time and space. It’s also good that she’s communicating with you. Whatever happens good luck I hope things work out for you
What is LC? Long contact?
He wanted her being openly sexual to change, but everything else to stay the same. He probably wanted all that sexual energy pointed at him and her to be a nun all the rest of the time. Funny thing, though…. our behaviors are interconnected and this is a big vibe for her. She wouldn't be her anymore at all.
Yeah, she probably has some trauma to deal with, or maybe she hates prudes, or both. That's for her to know and me not to care about (other than if she asks for advice).
I've wanted to do that, I've asked her if I've upset her and such. And I'm afraid asking her if she's lost interest would (when she eventually responds) would upset her.
saw your update..good decision..it would have been a shame to ruin a good relationship between the parties for a thousand bucks…
Great advice, I’ll make sure to ask very gently thank you:)
I have a feeling the moment OP does start improving his mind and body, the ex is gonna find a way to try and slide back in his life with a “start over” rhetoric.
I wrote it since that’s what he had in his post lol
First of all, I'm so sorry your wife was sexually assaulted. You're a better man than me, because I would have hunted down her attacker and ended his existence.
With that being said, all you can do in this situation is what you're currently doing. Support her, talk with her, and let her know that whatever she decides is ok.
I would try to put up the child for adoption l, myself. However, if that is not an option in her eyes after she gives birth, the only options are you staying or leaving.
Best of luck to you and your family.
Sounds like hell on earth.
Do you have access to a phone right now, to call a therapist and tell them all about it.
Ofc the rational choice is to leave, but its very hard for to do when bein used to abuse.
Best of luck and do the right choice
You can’t. Speaking from experience
Please no. Just block him. The mental gymnastics to get around the ‘i like you so much i need to watch other chicks while fucking you’ is enough to warrant never speaking to this guy again
Yes, I think this is the only way I can put my mind at ease.
You are right, I just don't know the best way to go about it without hurting her.
She doesn't seem aware of how she's acting, to her everything's just the same as it always. I'm not the only one either who's noticed a change in her and isn't really liking it
I've been distancing myself for my own sake but I feel to completely end the friendship is likely to result in a blow up from her side and is the last thing I need to deal with at the moment. Barely hear from her during pregnancy so she's likely to just fade away once baby's here
Thank you ❤️
It may not be control like sinister “haha I control her!” but more like he unconsciously feels a need to control you. Also, it may be that he's codependent. Either way it's his problem to figure out and not yours. You can't let him eat away at what makes you happy just to placate his irrational desires.
I think you’re right, thank you for that. There have been certain subjects I’ve been avoiding in therapy, mostly concerning my past relationships bc I want to leave it all behind me, but it would probably be good to unpack it with her. I have a session with her early next week and will bring it up. I appreciate it, Billowing!
Absolutely should have it it made her uncomfortable. But she didn’t. Did she? She chose to go with it. They both suck but she should’ve been upfront. What did she expect? Start a relationship with a lie and everything’s gonna be peachy? No. If this was a man denying sex because the woman wanted to take his virginity would the majority of this thread feel sorry for him? F no!
TBH, your wife selfishly admitted to you she wants another man. Alcohol lowers inhibitions, but what comes out when drunk is reality.
She been exhibiting self destructive behaviors, well this would top them all in my book.
If she’s still in contact with him insist she cut all contact, if she doesn’t, she’s made a choice between you and him.
Have you snooped her devices to see how deep she’s in with him?