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Date: November 6, 2022
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OP has just as much agency as her husband and could have refused to even entertain the idea of swinging. This sounds like lack of communication more than anything else.
Not only should you break up with him, you should tell his mother what he says to young girls on your way out. Get recordings if you can.
How do i get her to go
But that's kind of the issue- he might very well have been thinking, “If it were me, I would hate for her to make a big deal out of my birthday, I'm just going to stick to my usual plans and go out just like I would want her to do in my place”.
You can't assume what you want and what he would want are the same things. Some people want alone time, some people want couple time. If he had disregarded your expressed wants, I would feel differently.
Also…not everyone does anything at midnight of their birthday. I'm a big fan of birthdays and making a production out of mine, but lots of people I know haaate that stuff and it would not occur to them naturally that “celebrating your birthday” involves anything outside of the specific birthday party.
I totally get why you feel a bit left behind, but I do think that unless you feel like he has a pattern of ditching you or something that this is just a good lesson about communicating your specific wants. Next year tell him exactly how you want to spend the day.
Eh, you're being dumped by a coward. Offer a reasonable solution concerning your things and ask for a solution: he brings them to your place or maybe you meet in the work parking lot. You can contact him about this by text.
That first line made me cackle! I don't think he thinks the method is the same, given that it was called a texture issue I think it's the slickness of the whole event. I can understand that to a certain extent, plenty of textures make me want to rip my skin off like that guy in Rick and Morty.
But when there's a limitation keeping you from doing something your partner likes/wants, you gotta start trying to find compromises or alternatives. That's the only fault I see in this.
1 – make sure she knows that you love having sex with her.
2 – it’s likely when she feels most connected to you. Don’t undervalue that. Just be intimate in other ways.
3 – she likely feels, subconsciously or not, that having sex with you is a way to ensure you won’t leave her. Assure her that she has you. That you’re not going anywhere. Mind fuck her with your words to make sure she knows you are hers
Sounds like he chose a woman, like his mother, who put herself and what she thinks ahead of what's best for him, as stated by him. I don't think you two should get married. This is a major boundary violation and if you'd do this before marriage, imagine how much you could betray him after you're joined together legally and financially.